Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Only do black women be talking that celibate foolishness after being sexually active
Something really wrong with them...obsessed with religion

Its really cap and code for im tired of getting ran/dogged.

If you religious now you should be in your religious institution finding a mate, not secular dating apps lol
 

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Any bytch I ever dated with short hair never worked out. The shorter the hair the more masculine and damaged they are. It is what it is. Jada smith a prime example and the bytch from the new wizard of oz.

Gotta keep it as casual as possible and watch out for the witchcraft
 

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Its really cap and code for im tired of getting ran/dogged.

If you religious now you should be in your religious institution finding a mate, not secular dating apps lol
ive never really seen it on dating apps
but ive heard it from women i approached in real life, sometimes women I've been dikkin down already too
 

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ive never really seen it on dating apps
but ive heard it from women i approached in real life, sometimes women I've been dikkin down already too

I only see it in dating apps because thats the only place a woman can profess that dumb shyt lol. Usually meeting a woman anywhere else i’ve never had someone tell me they celibate.
 

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The bolded is so true. Just turned 30 and I legit feel if I was back home in Nigeria I’d be married by now, or at least have a serious GF on the way to marriage.

But here in the US, especially in the SF Bay, totally different story.

Look at me :blessed:

In many African cultures, the institution of marriage still holds deep significance. Take Uganda, for instance: women are often raised with traditional values that emphasize the importance of being supportive partners. They’re taught not only to be respectful and nurturing but also how to maintain intimacy and emotional connection in their marriages.

Over here, it’s entirely possible for a woman to have a thriving career, financial independence, and a vibrant social life—but if she hasn’t married by a certain age, society starts to raise eyebrows. There’s still a strong cultural expectation that marriage completes the picture.

In contrast, Western culture often promotes a very different narrative. Marriage is sometimes portrayed as outdated or even toxic. High divorce rates, casual relationships, and a “live for now” mentality have become normalized. Concepts like commitment, family structure, and long-term partnership are increasingly downplayed in favor of individual freedom and exploration.

It’s two very different worlds—with values that shape relationships, expectations, and personal fulfillment in very different ways.
 

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Look at me :blessed:

In many African cultures, the institution of marriage still holds deep significance. Take Uganda, for instance: women are often raised with traditional values that emphasize the importance of being supportive partners. They’re taught not only to be respectful and nurturing but also how to maintain intimacy and emotional connection in their marriages.

Over here, it’s entirely possible for a woman to have a thriving career, financial independence, and a vibrant social life—but if she hasn’t married by a certain age, society starts to raise eyebrows. There’s still a strong cultural expectation that marriage completes the picture.

In contrast, Western culture often promotes a very different narrative. Marriage is sometimes portrayed as outdated or even toxic. High divorce rates, casual relationships, and a “live for now” mentality have become normalized. Concepts like commitment, family structure, and long-term partnership are increasingly downplayed in favor of individual freedom and exploration.

It’s two very different worlds—with values that shape relationships, expectations, and personal fulfillment in very different ways.
MTUB
 

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Wish I could rep you for this. Very true on the bolded
its pretty much been the reason for most of my break ups

women have been taught that they're to be accepted for who they are through thick and thin; men are taught that they should always adapt and focus on self-improvement
 

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Look at me :blessed:

In many African cultures, the institution of marriage still holds deep significance. Take Uganda, for instance: women are often raised with traditional values that emphasize the importance of being supportive partners. They’re taught not only to be respectful and nurturing but also how to maintain intimacy and emotional connection in their marriages.

Over here, it’s entirely possible for a woman to have a thriving career, financial independence, and a vibrant social life—but if she hasn’t married by a certain age, society starts to raise eyebrows. There’s still a strong cultural expectation that marriage completes the picture.

In contrast, Western culture often promotes a very different narrative. Marriage is sometimes portrayed as outdated or even toxic. High divorce rates, casual relationships, and a “live for now” mentality have become normalized. Concepts like commitment, family structure, and long-term partnership are increasingly downplayed in favor of individual freedom and exploration.

It’s two very different worlds—with values that shape relationships, expectations, and personal fulfillment in very different ways.

The one thing I will say why I`m not for flooding western dudes into Traditional cultures is because most these dudes are NOT built for that life and eventually will give us a bad rep.

What you will see is lot of Western Men become the clean up men who can feast on the "Westernized" chicks in major cities of these Old world countries, because those chicks tend to still be more tolerable than the Western women they imitate. Those chicks are easier to date but still aren't marriage material, and while they want to imitate modern women they not about that real partnership life lol.

My thing is Western Men SHOULD NOT enter that old world true traditional marriage path until they standing on business because they will get shredded to pieces by people taking advantage of them.
 

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The one thing I will say why I`m not for flooding western dudes into Traditional cultures is because most these dudes are NOT built for that life and eventually will give us a bad rep.

What you will see is lot of Western Men become the clean up men who can feast on the "Westernized" chicks in major cities of these Old world countries, because those chicks tend to still be more tolerable than the Western women they imitate. Those chicks are easier to date but still aren't marriage material, and while they want to imitate modern women they not about that real partnership life lol.

My thing is Western Men SHOULD NOT enter that old world true traditional marriage path until they standing on business because they will get shredded to pieces by people taking advantage of them.

Well yeah, like at first I was pissed about the whole bride price ish but just gritted my teeth and it's been worth every penny for me
 

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its pretty much been the reason for most of my break ups

women have been taught that they're to be accepted for who they are through thick and thin; men are taught that they should always adapt and focus on self-improvement
On this note

One word women like to use is “safe”. Basically code for they wanna feel like they can do and say whatever they want and you wont hold them accountable or react lol.
 

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lol the way Patrice broke down dating American women



the superman anaology + the black vs white women thing especially
 
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