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In many African cultures, the institution of marriage still holds deep significance. Take Uganda, for instance: women are often raised with traditional values that emphasize the importance of being supportive partners. They’re taught not only to be respectful and nurturing but also how to maintain intimacy and emotional connection in their marriages.
Over here, it’s entirely possible for a woman to have a thriving career, financial independence, and a vibrant social life—but if she hasn’t married by a certain age, society starts to raise eyebrows. There’s still a strong cultural expectation that marriage completes the picture.
In contrast, Western culture often promotes a very different narrative. Marriage is sometimes portrayed as outdated or even toxic. High divorce rates, casual relationships, and a “live for now” mentality have become normalized. Concepts like commitment, family structure, and long-term partnership are increasingly downplayed in favor of individual freedom and exploration.
It’s two very different worlds—with values that shape relationships, expectations, and personal fulfillment in very different ways.