Tommy Lee Jones
All Star
yea long term
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
OK now listen, I'm dead serious when I say this, jack off first so your mind ain't clouded by thoughts of her p*ssy then immediately go thru this list and ask these questions:
You dont have to have your whole life mapped out but within the next 5 years where do you want to be and how does she fit in?
How do you know she wants a relationship?
Enjoy the meals and attachment free sex. If something deeper develops so be it, so be it
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
He gonna have to ask
Or he could hold it in and wait months and then be heart broken when he asks "so what are we?"
trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
Superstar
I see folks is out here fatigued having to dish out the simple common sense advice over and over again too huh?....He gonna have to ask
Or he could hold it in and wait months and then be heart broken when he asks "so what are we?"
The Jewnited States
Superstar
I thought we were being brainwashed to only "DATE WITH INTENTION" in 2025?
Is that no longer the wave?
Is that no longer the wave?
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
News flash everyone is dating with intention. Intention just means what you're after. Just because people haven't been upfront with their intentions or it didnt align with what someone wanted doesn’t mean they aren't dating with intention. Wanting to smash is an intention. The term is dumb. Humans dont do anything without intention, we have this thing called consciousnessI thought we were being brainwashed to only "DATE WITH INTENTION" in 2025?
Is that no longer the wave?
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
Im still stuck on brehs here telling me online dating is better than cold approachingI see folks is out here fatigued having to dish out the simple common sense advice over and over again too huh?....
I must live in another dimension
trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
Superstar
Im still stuck onbrehsPUSSIES here telling me online dating is better than cold approaching
I must live in another dimension
Silkk
Can't Change My Damn Avi :beli:
THESE BIITCHES RETARDED
The Jewnited States
Superstar
Exactly. Sometimes my intention is to try and get a broad to suck me off in the car, no dinner or date needed.
I had a homeboy who used to date older married women on a cougar dating site. His intention was to get them to invite him back to her place so he could figure out the security system and where the valuables were so he could rob the place later.
Got another friend that never went on a date without having the intention of marrying the broad. He would turn dates down left and right and say "I don't see myself marrying her" as the reason why. He did get married and it's worked out for him for 10+ years now.
3 people with wildly different intentions, but intentions nonetheless.
I'm so happy I stay off social media. It is beyond pathetic when I see someone rattle off their list of dating preferences or relationship theories and it comes off as an amalgamation of the worst trends to hit the tiktok/IG/dating coach/bird babble circuits in recent time.
I know right. I mean words don’t translate well alot of times if you txt it or dm but if say it it can come off alot different and better for your advantage if your a smooth talker.Im still stuck on brehs here telling me online dating is better than cold approaching
I must live in another dimension
A simple hi how are you wont move the needle in a message
But hi how are you cold approach with eye contact and a smile moves it a lot cuz she sees ur confidence and eye contact shows your serious
Hate social media in general but before shyt got out of hand it was effective and good like during the black planet days
MySpace
AOL chatroom
Yahoo chat room
migente
Asianavenue
Etc……
<<TheStandard>>
I Am A God
I find the hardest thing about dating as a man is that you have to be so superior to a woman (I.e money, status, height, power, etc.) for her to even be attracted to you that often times you'll find yourself dating someone so inferior to you that you shouldn't even be in the same room as them. I spend my time creating statistical models in R to simulate NBA & NFL games to beat the betting markets & have literally been on dates with women who don't know the difference between "accept" & "except".
Since most men don't have that many options and some even have to put in extreme effort and energy just for the few options they do have, they kinda have to take what they can get......meaning they settle with someone they don't really like, they use a woman as a placeholder to get what they want and avoid being lonely or they just stay single. I've mostly chosen to stay single...........
It's dawned on me recently, how many chicks I've fukked or dated that I didn't even like, they were just women who made themselves available to me and typically they were beneath me in some way, shape or form. I'm not saying that to be cocky, just speaking the truth. These women were not in my league and I recognized that immediately and put them in the category of women I just want to have casual sex and fun with.......but no one ever truly talks about the dangers of when you see a woman one way and she's seeing you in a completely different manner as a potential husband or baby father.
Back when I was 32, I was fukking some jawn I didn't really like and she begged me to take the condom off. I paused, and said what we gonna do if you get pregnant. She said, there’s gonna be some freckle faced babies running around. I legit heard a record scratch sound like in the movies, I got up and left my own crib. I didn’t come back for like a half hour……and it fukked me up cause, I was broke, working at Roc Nation (which surprisingly felt like a dead end job), unhappy with my life and this woman who I knew wouldn’t even be my girlfriend let alone a wife was talking about having my kids. She didn’t have jack shyt, I didn’t have jack shyt…..I was still living in my mom’s crib and she hit me with this crazy shyt. She even asked me, would you make me have an abortion at my age and I said YES. And it started to hit me that she saw me as a husband, while for me, she was just a jump off and just fukking with her was dangerous because she’d legit try to trap me or change my mind………but ever since then I’ve been different. It's legit ruined casual sex forever....and it's totally changed the way I engage with women at all.
I really only want to date or fukk women I like and women who are actually on my level. While I prefer black women, I'm actually at point where I can totally see myself with white woman for various reasons.
Since most men don't have that many options and some even have to put in extreme effort and energy just for the few options they do have, they kinda have to take what they can get......meaning they settle with someone they don't really like, they use a woman as a placeholder to get what they want and avoid being lonely or they just stay single. I've mostly chosen to stay single...........
It's dawned on me recently, how many chicks I've fukked or dated that I didn't even like, they were just women who made themselves available to me and typically they were beneath me in some way, shape or form. I'm not saying that to be cocky, just speaking the truth. These women were not in my league and I recognized that immediately and put them in the category of women I just want to have casual sex and fun with.......but no one ever truly talks about the dangers of when you see a woman one way and she's seeing you in a completely different manner as a potential husband or baby father.
Back when I was 32, I was fukking some jawn I didn't really like and she begged me to take the condom off. I paused, and said what we gonna do if you get pregnant. She said, there’s gonna be some freckle faced babies running around. I legit heard a record scratch sound like in the movies, I got up and left my own crib. I didn’t come back for like a half hour……and it fukked me up cause, I was broke, working at Roc Nation (which surprisingly felt like a dead end job), unhappy with my life and this woman who I knew wouldn’t even be my girlfriend let alone a wife was talking about having my kids. She didn’t have jack shyt, I didn’t have jack shyt…..I was still living in my mom’s crib and she hit me with this crazy shyt. She even asked me, would you make me have an abortion at my age and I said YES. And it started to hit me that she saw me as a husband, while for me, she was just a jump off and just fukking with her was dangerous because she’d legit try to trap me or change my mind………but ever since then I’ve been different. It's legit ruined casual sex forever....and it's totally changed the way I engage with women at all.
I really only want to date or fukk women I like and women who are actually on my level. While I prefer black women, I'm actually at point where I can totally see myself with white woman for various reasons.
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George Gooney
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nikka babble. Dating down as a man is the norm. Actively seeking a woman thats "on your level" means you believe men and women can be equal and thats a whole other level of delusion I won't get into. Your woman is your partner but never your equal. She exists in your life to make your life easier through service of you. Let me guess you want a "successful' career woman who spends more time with nerds at work than she does with you? Find God and get back to the natural order of things.