Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Agreed overall. Bezos chick game must be incredible, she played the status game and seemed to have everyone enthralled. Gets millionaire athlete and has child, moves on to multi millionaire hollywood agent married with kids and then gets Bezos to leave his wife and marry her while having ex athlete vacay with them and such..

damn.... Sanchez had Tony Gonzalez on vacay with them??....

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Yea it’s like I don’t want to know her body count but her sexual history is important. I guess you can figure out these things in other ways. I’ve never straight up asked body count. Usually ask relationship history.

Observe her competency in bed....... if she is a master in the domain...... don't think she learned all that from 2-3 partners....... that comes from a decade plus in the league...

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Your post really sounds like YOU'RE trying to work some stuff out for yourself.

It sounds like you have some life stats that make you feel superior, but your actions towards these broads show that you are not in fact superior.

As for your solution



You shoulda been done dating women that 1) you like 2) are on your level - well before 32.

You gotta to come to grips with the time you've wasted just hitting broads that are "beneath" you.

Heal thyself.

I'm definitely trying to work some things out which is why I shared my thoughts here. I don't want my thoughts to live in the echo chamber of my own mind and I shared them here to see what people would say. Could they relate, am I bugging, etc.

Also I'm a bit of a late bloomer in some ways.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Interesting edit

If you see yourself more with white women you gotta do what makes you happy.

I don't particularly like white women at all.......to be honest. I truly don't know how many black women I'm going to meet at this point who fit what I'm looking for so maybe I just have to open things up a bit.

 

[cyndaquil]

I don't particularly like white women at all.......to be honest. I truly don't know how many black women I'm going to meet at this point who fit what I'm looking for so maybe I just have to open things up a bit.

What is it that you're looking for?

 

[WIA20XX]

I'm definitely trying to work some things out which is why I shared my thoughts here. I don't want my thoughts to live in the echo chamber of my own mind and I shared them here to see what people would say. Could they relate, am I bugging, etc.

Also I'm a bit of a late bloomer in some ways.

It definitely adds "color" to your thoughts.

Not being satisfied with the women you date is normal, imo.

By running through broads that appeal to your most basic needs, you figure out that a good face, good body, and good sex skills != a chick you want to spend a lot of time with.

That said, once I had something to lose, I stopped messing with chicks that didn't have anything, or came to the situation NEEDING something.

That said, a chick with a degree, money in her pocket, a place to live, her own car - that's like bare minimum adult activity.

Don't do ANYTHING with a chick that has less.

You tryna max out your IRA, she trying to trick off her IRS check to Miami.

Now if you're in a place where you mostly dealing with "working class" black chicks and middle class white chicks - so you wanna go play in the snow, hats off to you bruh.

But chances are great, that middle class/professional class Black women aren't circulating where you circulate.

Maybe it's living in DC, but you can throw a rock and hit a sista with a booty and a JD/MBA/MS/PHD. (now the fact that a lot of these chicks think that having a degree and a 6 figure job means they're Jah's gift to the Breddas...)

But these professional sistas will be BEGGING YOU TO SETTLE DOWN>

Now are they gonna act right (whatever that means to you)....?

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

It definitely adds "color" to your thoughts.

Not being satisfied with the women you date is normal, imo.

By running through broads that appeal to your most basic needs, you figure out that a good face, good body, and good sex skills != a chick you want to spend a lot of time with.

That said, once I had something to lose, I stopped messing with chicks that didn't have anything, or came to the situation NEEDING something.

That said, a chick with a degree, money in her pocket, a place to live, her own car - that's like bare minimum adult activity.

Don't do ANYTHING with a chick that has less.

You tryna max out your IRA, she trying to trick off her IRS check to Miami.

Now if you're in a place where you mostly dealing with "working class" black chicks and middle class white chicks - so you wanna go play in the snow, hats off to you bruh.

But chances are great, that middle class/professional class Black women aren't circulating where you circulate.

Maybe it's living in DC, but you can throw a rock and hit a sista with a booty and a JD/MBA/MS/PHD. (now the fact that a lot of these chicks think that having a degree and a 6 figure job means they're Jah's gift to the Breddas...)

But these professional sistas will be BEGGING YOU TO SETTLE DOWN>

Now are they gonna act right (whatever that means to you)....?

yeah this is the point I was trying to make. So I'm from Philly, went to Upenn/Wharton......Lived the majority of my life in Philly, a poor, blue collar city......I was mostly finding myself in long distance relationships with black women because Philly didn't have what I was looking for outside of a few exceptions. I just moved to Vegas and it's somewhat similar but a little bit better than Philly because Vegas just has badder women and everyone is a transplant but most of the women here work in hospitality and are in the casinos. I def like my options in Vegas better than Philly.

DC has some of the best black women on the planet.

 

[WIA20XX]

I just moved to Vegas and it's somewhat similar but a little bit better than Philly because Vegas just has badder women and everyone is a transplant but most of the women here work in hospitality and are in the casinos. I def like my options in Vegas better than Philly.

I see my brother.

I don't say this with any glee, but You're in the PAWG promised land.

It will be very hard to date Black, Professional, and Attractive.

In any event, now that you have your values more in focus, I think it will make a difficult task, 10% easier. It's not nothing, but the road ahead will be rocky.

 

[skyrunner1]

damn.... Sanchez had Tony Gonzalez on vacay with them??....

Yea breh, he is attached also but you can find numerous links thru years of him on vacay with them. I was unfamiliar with her but one of chicks started talking about her being the goat around the wedding time and how she got a billionaire bezos wiiiide open as a older lady with multiple kids/"baby daddies". All in white house with lingerie tops and she run shyt.. When I peeped I couldnt do anything but tip the cap, she did that..


If she was more in public or on social like that, she probably could snatch Ciara crown and tell them toss that prayer in trash..

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Yea breh, he is attached also but you can find numerous links thru years of him on vacay with them. I was unfamiliar with her but one of chicks started talking about her being the goat around the wedding time and how she got a billionaire bezos wiiiide open as a older lady with multiple kids/"baby daddies". All in white house with lingerie tops and she run shyt.. When I peeped I couldnt do anything but tip the cap, she did that..


If she was more in public or on social like that, she probably could snatch Ciara crown and tell them toss that prayer in trash..

Funny you bring this up, cause after I sent the initial message it really had me wondering.. why would Bezos or any billionaire marry a broad?... you are adjacent to those circles so may see something I don't. But what purpose does getting remarried at that level present? They are above the need to show "stable family life" appearances as if they are middle management. ... Bezos could get any woman he wants period..... albeit it would be at a price. This probably goes for any of those dudes, but they are also aware that they are not the most aesthetically pleasing on the eye. They could be doing what Jerry Buss did and what Jack Nicholson do. The only reasoning I could conjecture is that they are aware that all these women are after their money and the only differentiating factor is that a woman like Lauren Sanchez just has a defter touch and making things feel "authentic". Even though these dudes know it probably isn't, women like Sanchez can pull off the impression that it is better than others can..... always has had me perplexed

 

[WIA20XX]

Funny you bring this up, cause after I sent the initial message it really had me wondering.. why would Bezos or any billionaire marry a broad?... you are adjacent to those circles so may see something I don't. But what purpose does getting remarried at that level present? They are above the need to show "stable family life" appearances as if they are middle management. ... Bezos could get any woman he wants period..... albeit it would be at a price. This probably goes for any of those dudes, but they are also aware that they are not the most aesthetically pleasing on the eye. They could be doing what Jerry Buss did and what Jack Nicholson do. The only reasoning I could conjecture is that they are aware that all these women are after their money and the only differentiating factor is that a woman like Lauren Sanchez just has a defter touch and making things feel "authentic". Even though these dudes know it probably isn't, women like Sanchez can pull off the impression that it is better than others can..... always has had me perplexed

With Bezos, he was coming home to this

Now he's coming home to this

Basically put a Latina Filter on his Ex.

She hit him with that Salma/Sofia, and basically stole him from underneath Mackenzie.

Now as for his "looks"

We know what she likes

So it's just basic hypergamy

His money, his power, his wealth, his status - she gets to be a princess for the rest of her life.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

With Bezos, he was coming home to this

Now he's coming home to this

Basically put a Latina Filter on his Ex.

She hit him with that Salma/Sofia, and basically stole him from underneath Mackenzie.

Now as for his "looks"

We know what she likes

So it's just basic hypergamy

His money, his power, his wealth, his status - she gets to be a princess for the rest of her life.

Damn.... the plastic surgery did her wonders......

I'm also going to posit, Jeff definitely wasn't getting hoes in his youth so this is his chance to do all that shyt we take for granted.... he never had a buxom vixen, now he can..... but he still has the simping genes deep in the DNA so he is going to do what a simp would do...

 

[WIA20XX]

he still has the simping genes deep in the DNA so he is going to do what a simp would do...

He got on that Testosterone Replacement Therapy....

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

He got on that Testosterone Replacement Therapy....

Revenge of the Nerds being lived out in real life.....

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

nikka babble. Dating down as a man is the norm. Actively seeking a woman thats "on your level" means you believe men and women can be equal and thats a whole other level of delusion I won't get into. Your woman is your partner but never your equal. She exists in your life to make your life easier through service of you. Let me guess you want a "successful' career woman who spends more time with nerds at work than she does with you? Find God and get back to the natural order of things.

I think this was a bit of frustration from feeling like some of the women I've dated aren't close to my level.

I should not be on a date with a woman who doesn't know the difference between "accept" and "except" or there, their and they're.

I also don't think I should be dating a woman whose lifestyle isn't remotely close to mine.