Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[skyrunner1]

As I get older, something about going on dates in the fall just hits right. The way my girl got me Into the fall

I don't believe in zodiac signs, but I didn't realize how important seasonally comparability is — if I can even call it that. Not catching me outside in winter or the spring tbh, but summer and fall

Fall my favorite season for other reasons.. Able to go to beach again, football season, break out favorite colognes, actual cool nights with less humidity, better travel, some of the best holidays of the year, etc.

Im counting down fr.

 

[Givethanks]

Fall my favorite season for other reasons.. Able to go to beach again, football season, break out favorite colognes, actual cool nights with less humidity, better travel, some of the best holidays of the year, etc.

Im counting down fr.

I'm saying bro

I didn't understand it before but I understand it now.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I'm not moving goal posts. The post didnt even exist breh. Who just works and sleeps? . Your advice there just didnt make sense to me there. Basically saying folks just work and sleep cycle and dudes are lonely and want a spark and bring women into it then get desperate and wont let go. My point is typically "having a life" means having a life that is considered acceptable by societal standards. But having a life isn't gonna stop you from being desperate, it isn't gonna give you an abundance mindset. The only thing that will do that is self confidence and a positive optimistic mind-set. And "having a life" might provide that depending on how you live it but it might not. You can have no life and pull women who are compatible and "have a life" and pull no one. It's important to note the difference otherwise brehs will go through the motions and not understand why even though they are out enjoying themselves they can't pull anybody worth a damn of quality that's compatible with them.

Having A Life = Doing what you want on your time, I've literally spent pages saying find hobbies and meet people on that journey. What in the flying fukk are you talking about. Work and Sleep= Not having a life which leads to nikkas hunting for women vs them having a life and meeting humans on that journey of living life.

 

[Brandsdale]

As I get older, something about going on dates in the fall just hits right. The way my girl got me Into the fall

I don't believe in zodiac signs, but I didn't realize how important seasonally comparability is — if I can even call it that. Not catching me outside in winter or the spring tbh, but summer and fall

So since I’m a winter baby, I gotta date another winter baby?

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm saying bro

I didn't understand it before but I understand it now.

scarf season is da goat

 

[Givethanks]

So since I’m a winter baby, I gotta date another winter baby?

Yo I'm a winter baby too... I hate this season with a passion




Nah I mean like when are you most active, I know some people who hate warm weather and stay inside where there's AC all summer but are outside all winter.

One of the reasons why I can't date certain women because I like to go move alot and be outside especially when the weather is around 30°.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Yo I'm a winter baby too... I hate this season with a passion




Nah I mean like when are you most active, I know some people who hate warm weather and stay inside where there's AC all summer but are outside all winter.

One of the reasons why I can't date certain women because I like to go move alot and be outside especially when the weather is around 30°.

25 degrees celsius and up....GOAT weather..............forces all the women to wear revealing clothing......

 

[Brandsdale]

Yo I'm a winter baby too... I hate this season with a passion




Nah I mean like when are you most active, I know some people who hate warm weather and stay inside where there's AC all summer but are outside all winter.

One of the reasons why I can't date certain women because I like to go move alot and be outside especially when the weather is around 30°.

Winter is ass lol. I barely even care about doing anything for my birthday cause of the weather in January too

But I feel you though. Spring-Summer im running like Barry Allen and I love summer even though I sweat lol

I couldn’t imagine dating a woman who’s a homebody and only likes the gym, travel and restaurants. No offense to folks that like that shyt but that lifestyle sounds boring as hell

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

My opinion is that “Having a life” is such a loaded term because it inherently suggests that one persons life is better than the other when in reality what is considered “having a life” is individualistic. Used to be going to work, relaxing at home, going to the gym, occasional restaurants and going out was normal.

Now it’s considered boring and “not having a life”. Me personally I can give a fukk about traveling and other modern values that project a perceived value of someone. Does that mean I’m “boring”? No, that just means my value system is different than the person that has hobbies (whatever that means). And that’s ok. Everyone is different. Modern men and women cling so tightly to identities like traveling, hobbies, and other bullshyt that they forgot how to be PEOPLE. And that’s partly what the issue with modern dating is. Everyone is trying to out experience the other to appear more valuable.

I’ve run into plenty of women that travel all the time, have supposed hobbies, etc, but you peel back the layers and it’s all cope because they have nothing else to offer except for experiences. Sit them down for a conversation and they’re miserable as fukk.

It’s ok to be content and happy chilling at home, gym, work, and occasionally going out. But somehow that got lost in the sauce. Now it’s if you want women you better travel, hobbies, be an extraordinary gentleman, and other bullshyt and if you don’t do the above you deserve to be single cause you’re boring.

 

[Apollo Creed]

My opinion is that “Having a life” is such a loaded term because it inherently suggests that one persons life is better than the other when in reality what is considered “having a life” is individualistic. Used to be going to work, relaxing at home, going to the gym, occasional restaurants and going out was normal.

Now it’s considered boring and “not having a life”. Me personally I can give a fukk about traveling and other modern values that project a perceived value of someone. Does that mean I’m “boring”? No, that just means my value system is different than the person that has hobbies (whatever that means). And that’s ok. Everyone is different. Modern men and women cling so tightly to identities like traveling, hobbies, and other bullshyt that they forgot how to be PEOPLE. And that’s partly what the issue with modern dating is. Everyone is trying to out experience the other to appear more valuable.

I’ve run into plenty of women that travel all the time, have supposed hobbies, etc, but you peel back the layers and it’s all cope because they have nothing else to offer except for experiences. Sit them down for a conversation and they’re miserable as fukk.

It’s ok to be content and happy chilling at home, gym, work, and occasionally going out. But somehow that got lost in the sauce. Now it’s if you want women you better travel, hobbies, be an extraordinary gentleman, and other bullshyt and if you don’t do the above you deserve to be single cause you’re boring.

Having a life = hobbies and purpose.

It's more honorable to stand on not having a life and being content than all this remixing shyt.

 

[WIA20XX]

My opinion is that “Having a life” is such a loaded term because it inherently suggests that one persons life is better than the other when in reality what is considered “having a life” is individualistic. Used to be going to work, relaxing at home, going to the gym, occasional restaurants and going out was normal.

Now it’s considered boring and “not having a life”. Me personally I can give a fukk about traveling and other modern values that project a perceived value of someone. Does that mean I’m “boring”? No, that just means my value system is different than the person that has hobbies (whatever that means). And that’s ok. Everyone is different. Modern men and women cling so tightly to identities like traveling, hobbies, and other bullshyt that they forgot how to be PEOPLE. And that’s partly what the issue with modern dating is. Everyone is trying to out experience the other to appear more valuable.

I’ve run into plenty of women that travel all the time, have supposed hobbies, etc, but you peel back the layers and it’s all cope because they have nothing else to offer except for experiences. Sit them down for a conversation and they’re miserable as fukk.

It’s ok to be content and happy chilling at home, gym, work, and occasionally going out. But somehow that got lost in the sauce. Now it’s if you want women you better travel, hobbies, be an extraordinary gentleman, and other bullshyt and if you don’t do the above you deserve to be single cause you’re boring.

I think the framework here is that a lot of single men that aren't getting the results the way

• School/work
• Gym, maybe
• Home
• Internet/tv/sports/video game
• Weed/p-hub/poor diet

^It's a fairly solitary existence. Limited opportunities to socialize, much less find a female.

In the past, cats would play pick up basketball, pool league, sports bar with other people, hunting/fishing - basically stuff that got them out of the house AND in the mix with other folks. And even in that type of set up, most of the time, you're a dude doing dude stuff. It's but a handful of chicks at the drag strip trying to beat 10 seconds...

Mixing up with folks has been on a decline since at least the 50s.

• Radio
• TV
• Internet
• Social Media
• Covid

A lot of the problems in our society, imo, is because we're becoming more and more isolated.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Having a life = hobbies and purpose.

It's more honorable to stand on not having a life and being content than all this remixing shyt.

Understood.

What you call remixing I call just offering a different perspective. Respectfully it’s also honorable to understand that there are differing view points on any given subject, this being one of them.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I think the framework here is that a lot of single men that aren't getting the results the way

• School/work
• Gym, maybe
• Home
• Internet/tv/sports/video game
• Weed/p-hub/poor diet

^It's a fairly solitary existence. Limited opportunities to socialize, much less find a female.

In the past, cats would play pick up basketball, pool league, sports bar with other people, hunting/fishing - basically stuff that got them out of the house AND in the mix with other folks. And even in that type of set up, most of the time, you're a dude doing dude stuff. It's but a handful of chicks at the drag strip trying to beat 10 seconds...

Well there in lies the fallacy of “hobbies”. It’s not like you’re going to be inundated with interest from women because you suddenly took up hobbies (which requires time and money).

Also, if you’re working a 9-5 all week plus gym who got time for all that extra shyt. By the time the weekend rolls around you’re ready to sit down somewhere

 

[Brandsdale]

Well there in lies the fallacy of “hobbies”. It’s not like you’re going to be inundated with interest from women because you suddenly took up hobbies (which requires time and money).

Also, if you’re working a 9-5 all week plus gym who got time for all that extra shyt. By the time the weekend rolls around you’re ready to sit down somewhere

I think maybe the point is that you gain momentum in talking to people in general through your hobbies

a couple general convos with someone at your run/bike club, gym, coffee shop, school/work etc., can lead to you being more inclined to talk to most women you find attractive.

Not sure if it works for everyone but its worked for me and I be a shy nikka sometimes too lol

 

[MikelArteta]