Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

folks on both sides really just scared of being honest with themselves...... it's been so normalized to think having feelings for someone is wrong and calamitous........ like you mentioned.... you like the chick, she's sexy.... why look for a "reason" not to like her....... people more scared of being hurt emotionally than gettiing blasted by a 12 gauge....

its the "im gonna get them before they get me" mentality, which makes people act like weirdos then they are shocked they are in an endless cycle of cycling through different humans lol.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

if a woman is attractive and i enjoy spending time with her, i'll roll with her as long as I can. It's really that simple.

People underestimate how hard it is to find those two things. A chick will be attractive, but can barely hold a conversation or is social awkward/prissy. Then a chick will be cool as fukk but is like a 6 in the looks department lol. Every time I find a chick though who I am actually attracted to and genuinely have good chemistry with (in person), they start acting weird and it blows up.

Yep. It’s weird because the more genuine you are the more repelled a chick gets. I’m an upfront true to myself dude. If I like a chick I will let it be known. Typically my shyt plays out where I’ll meet a chick I’m genuinely attracted to and we have excellent chemistry and vibes for a month or so and then they pull the “I’m not ready to be in a relationship/I need to work on myself” steez. Just happened 3 months ago.

And these ain’t young chicks. These are 30+ year olds.

 

[Ohene]

Yep. It’s weird because the more genuine you are the more repelled a chick gets. I’m an upfront true to myself dude. If I like a chick I will let it be known. Typically my shyt plays out where I’ll meet a chick I’m genuinely attracted to and we have excellent chemistry and vibes for a month or so and then they pull the “I’m not ready to be in a relationship/I need to work on myself” steez. Just happened 3 months ago.

And these ain’t young chicks. These are 30+ year olds.

it's always the same shyt lol. The problem is we care too much and probably start projecting a relationship onto a chick who knows she is good for nothing but hard dikk and bubblegum. Soon as you start caring about a chick or feeling invested they will okie doke you.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yep. It’s weird because the more genuine you are the more repelled a chick gets. I’m an upfront true to myself dude. If I like a chick I will let it be known. Typically my shyt plays out where I’ll meet a chick I’m genuinely attracted to and we have excellent chemistry and vibes for a month or so and then they pull the “I’m not ready to be in a relationship/I need to work on myself” steez. Just happened 3 months ago.

And these ain’t young chicks. These are 30+ year olds.

the issue is these chicks are burnt the fukk out lol all these relationships are not normal for them. When a Woman is with a dude who causes no drama she has to find something wrong so if it crashes and burn it was his fault. It's when all the "Do you really like me" and stupid shyt happens. It's also sometimes projection of being a terrible person and knowing in your heart you dont deserve something or you feel you are unworthy thus the self sabotage.

The wild thing is women have zero urgency in the years they are supposed to (18-25) lol and they have no problem wasting their physical prime but then want to get urgent once its over.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

it's always the same shyt lol. The problem is we care too much and probably start projecting a relationship onto a chick knows she is good for nothing but hard dikk and bubblegum. Soon as you start caring about a chick or feeling invested they will okie doke you.

Breh I wish I could rep you (Coli says I gotta spread some rep). EXACTLY what I’ve been going through the last 4 years smh. I thought my last chick was it and I was on my way off the market. It is what it is

 

[Apollo Creed]

Breh I wish I could rep you (Coli says I gotta spread some rep). EXACTLY what I’ve been going through the last 4 years smh. I thought my last chick was it and I was on my way off the market. It is what it is

you gotta take everything day by day, the only thing that sucks is for brehs who want kids lol

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

the issue is these chicks are burnt the fukk out lol all these relationships are not normal for them. When a Woman is with a dude who causes no drama she has to find something wrong so if it crashes and burn it was his fault. It's when all the "Do you really like me" and stupid shyt happens. It's also sometimes projection of being a terrible person and knowing in your heart you dont deserve something or you feel you are unworthy thus the self sabotage.

The wild thing is women have zero urgency in the years they are supposed to (18-25) lol and they have no problem wasting their physical prime but then want to get urgent once its over.

Man say breh I’m not even gonna lie from what I’ve witnessed NONE of these women have any urgency to lock down a good man. shyt my ex is 30 going on 31 and she ran for the hills when I tried to lock her down seriously. She’s not the only one I’ve encountered.

My personal opinion and what I’ve witnessed is women now and days can give a fukk about a “good man”. When they actually get a serious guy they self sabotage and run.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Man say breh I’m not even gonna lie from what I’ve witnessed NONE of these women have any urgency to lock down a good man. shyt my ex is 30 going on 31 and she ran for the hills when I tried to lock her down seriously. She’s not the only one I’ve encountered.

My personal opinion and what I’ve witnessed is women now and days can give a fukk about a “good man”. When they actually get a serious guy they self sabotage and run.

false sense of chase my dreams then they realize they 35/36 and their ceiling is middle management at a job they hate and drowning in debt, this is when the traditional bullshyt comes in when in reality it means I need to be save.

The women who do find some financial success and dont get in crazy debt often become so asexual they want a man who would be a wife which isn't an issue if she is going to take care of things, but deep down she will never respect him, its why are all stay at home dads are more of a meme than anything lol Also in this bucket you have women who had shytty mothers which was their motivation to be driven and in turn they dont want kids which isn't an issue, but they fail to understand for like 95% of men only reason we committing is for family, and these women feel they still look good so dont really want to deal with older men who had their families already so they end up tricking on young brehs who have nothing and you see a mother son dynamic arise (then they get shocked when the young breh gets on his feet and bounces lol)

 

[Redwood]

its the "im gonna get them before they get me" mentality, which makes people act like weirdos then they are shocked they are in an endless cycle of cycling through different humans lol.

Those types just love getting over while maintaining some bullshyt power dynamic

 

[Ohene]

Breh I wish I could rep you (Coli says I gotta spread some rep). EXACTLY what I’ve been going through the last 4 years smh. I thought my last chick was it and I was on my way off the market. It is what it is

It's not 2018 anymore. Like @Apollo Creed said you literally have to take things day by day. You have to realize that no matter what kinda feedback/energy you getting from a chick, she is liable to disappear or switch up at a moments notice. This is ESPECIALLY the case if youre dating a woman who is Generation Z. I cannot say it enough. These women are getting flown out, tricked on, DMed and liked on dating apps more than you realize and it is completely skewing their expectations of what it means to date or be in a relationship.

Coming out of my last relationship (which i talked about here a bit) in 2023, it honestly look me a while to adapt to how much things have changed and I have made strides lol but I am still learning. It's simply a different ball game now. For instance, back then women used to save your number. Now, it probably takes a solid 3 dates before a chick will even do that. They are all playing defense and expect you to chase/hound them. The ironic thing is the more you do that, they more youll turn them off. They are overstimulated and operating out of fear. Even the good girls who come from good upbringings are being indoctrinated by all the bullshyt pushed via reality TV and social networks. And then they probably got friends who are hoes/living that sensational lifestyle and thus influencing them.

So never feel like a chick is "yours" and take things day by day. Just enjoy the time you spend with a chick and try to smash. That "courting" shyt is dead.

 

[Ohene]

And when a chick pulls back...let her. The sunk cost fallacy makes a lot of men (including myself) overreact and inquire or ask whats up. Don't ask, dont have any serious, long convos or send any paragraph texts. Let the bytch go.

 

[Apollo Creed]

It's not 2018 anymore. Like @Apollo Creed said you literally have to take things day by day. You have to realize that no matter what kinda feedback/energy you getting from a chick, she is liable to disappear or switch up at a moments notice. This is ESPECIALLY the case if youre dating a woman who is Generation Z. I cannot say it enough. These women are getting flown out, tricked on, DMed and liked on dating apps more than you realize and it is completely skewing their expectations of what it means to date or be in a relationship.

Coming out of my last relationship (which i talked about here a bit) in 2023, it honestly look me a while to adapt to how much things have changed and I have made strides lol but I am still learning. It's simply a different ball game now. For instance, back then women used to save your number. Now, it probably takes a solid 3 dates before a chick will even do that. They are all playing defense and expect you to chase/hound them. The ironic thing is the more you do that, they more youll turn them off. They are overstimulated and operating out of fear. Even the good girls who come from good upbringings are being indoctrinated by all the bullshyt pushed via reality TV and social networks. And then they probably got friends who are hoes/living that sensational lifestyle and thus influencing them.

So never feel like a chick is "yours" and take things day by day. Just enjoy the time you spend with a chick and try to smash. That "courting" shyt is dead.

this is why I stress hand have been in this thread stressing for the last few years
1.Become the absolute Best Version of your self
2.Find a life outside of work to keep you busy and fulfilled.

The issue dudes face is that idle time gets the mind wondering to do desperate shyt compared to if you keep your life full with various things you aren't really tripping because the show still goes on. It also keeps you honest when dealing with the headache that can be many women if you really putting up with something because you are desperate and afraid lol.

This isn't saying be mean, it's more so like, if someone isn't dying, becoming homeless, or changing sickness, nothing else is really worth a headache so why are we tolerating games?

Dudes gotta get out of this proving themselves to people which ties into becoming the best version of yourself, there is no human on earth you should be proving your worth to, it should more so be lets spend time together to see if we are even compatible, us being around each other attraction should be a given.

 

[Mike809]

I don’t have it in me to fukk a Jewish woman .

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

I don’t have it in me to fukk a Jewish woman .

Took down a few. Powerful p*ssy... intolerable mouth.

 

[Redwood]

I don’t have it in me to fukk a Jewish woman .

Don't really see them too much