Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

Exactly. Here's the thing about phone calls unless they are spontaneous during a time when you aren't busy, you end up planning time around them. So then if she don't have time now you've wasted a block of time and need to figure out how to fill it. You end up unsatisfied cuz you started thinking of all the other shyt you could've planned in the meantime. Some dudes stay up 30 minutes later to talk on the phone. She cant talk? Now you fukked up yo sleep. During your game playing time? Damn now you missed out on you time. I've stopped doing that planned calls shyt and only call if I find I truly dont have shyt to do like driving or waiting for something. Brehs be giving their time to chicks who haven't earned it. Then be mad when the woman prioritizes her time for something else over you

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Yeah, that phone call / facetime shyt is dead. I dont even talk on the phone with these bytches and if i do, its like 3 mins, and im cutting the call on my terms and getting back to my day. All that phone time could be energy spent in real life. I am not your boyfriend or planning on it.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

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Yeah, that phone call / facetime shyt is dead. I dont even talk on the phone with these bytches and if i do, it’s like 3 mins, and im cutting the call on my terms and getting back to my day. All that phone time could be energy spent in real life. I am not your boyfriend or planning on it.

Remember when Netflix and chill was a thing lol

These hoes so distracted by the internet
Getting them out of the house is 70 percent of the battle
Even if they like you

 

[Apollo Creed]

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Yeah, that phone call / facetime shyt is dead. I dont even talk on the phone with these bytches and if i do, its like 3 mins, and im cutting the call on my terms and getting back to my day. All that phone time could be energy spent in real life. I am not your boyfriend or planning on it.

Lol the thing is American men the most simpish and caking dudes on earth and are seeing the worst of where this dating shyt has gotten to

 

[re'up]

A big part of all of this is social media's influence, on

1) women's looks

2) what you can get for those looks via followers on instagram or Tik Tok

A) followers
B) validation
C) Money and power

I see all these girls who have straight up pornstar bodies going to the gym, real ass, some fake t*ts, totally toned bodies, flat stomachs wrapped head to toe in Alo spandex. They look like video models from Hype Williams days. Or like porn shoots. But they are just girls who work, who go to school, whatever.

The idea that you can optimize your body for maximum value. My friend and were talking about how different girls were in 2004, the baddest girls in our school, who we slept with, dated, were friends with, would have NEVER placed that kind of premium on their bodies. That was for women who made their livings FROM their bodies, and now that's what everyone somewhat aspires to.

but that's the other funny part is these girls, they aren't fukking like pornstars, the sex is almost beside the point. I think the whole thing is like selling pick axes to gold miners in the Gold Rush. The social media companies plus contemporary culture have convinced a generation that this is what will give them security.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Man it’s so bad out here for men..went out to this event last night ..the few people who were paired up were couples

Casual hooks are so dead now

Hookups only work for vacation now because women feel you dont exist since you arent in the city they live thus it never happend lol

Look at a chicks following page at non influencer men, a good bit of the ones not in their cities are dudes they smashed on a trip

 

[re'up]

Remember when Netflix and chill was a thing lol

These hoes so distracted by the internet
Getting them out of the house is 70 percent of the battle
Even if they like you

I swear most of these women I know, or are just in my neighborhood, they leave to walk the dog and that's it. They scroll while walking the dog. They scroll and scroll, which must make anyone miserable.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I swear most of these women I know, or are just in my neighborhood, they leave to walk the dog and that's it. They scroll while walking the dog. They scroll and scroll, which must make anyone miserable.

Most women are hermits and its funny to clown dudes jacking off but women have a whole sex toy industry booming + alcohol/perscription additiction keeping them going. Only time they go out is a friend they hate having a b day event where the b day girl really brings everyone there to worship her or a fake girls trip with people they hate but too scared to travel alone as ideally they rather be where they arw with a man.

 

[Ahadi]

Remember when Netflix and chill was a thing lol

These hoes so distracted by the internet
Getting them out of the house is 70 percent of the battle
Even if they like you

Nope. Not unless they can create content or brag to their girlfriends. A lot of em are out here begging for dates. Especially on Hinge.

 

[Ahadi]

Hookups only work for vacation now because women feel you dont exist since you arent in the city they live thus it never happend lol

Look at a chicks following page at non influencer men, a good bit of the ones not in their cities are dudes they smashed on a trip

or plan to.

 

[Ahadi]

and what is going on w this septum ring epidemic? it seems like more and more women are getting them.

 

[cyndaquil]

Man it’s so bad out here for men..went out to this event last night ..the few people who were paired up were couples

Casual hooks are so dead now

They aren't dead. I just made a tinder account last week and have fukked two chicks already off of it. I had to stop matching and replying to women cuz it was too many on there.
It's funny cuz I simultaneously made a hinge account as well. And that one is doing much worse same shyt as before flakey girls, single moms, etc. Had a chick on hinge hit me up to go out on a date then flake last minute that app is garbage. Then how I know it is garbage is because the same women I saw 6 months ago when I deleted it are still on there. A few even tried to send likes to me again. And it can't be because my profile is trash either cuz on tinder I got plenty of matches

 

[Apollo Creed]

They aren't dead. I just made a tinder account last week and have fukked two chicks already off of it. I had to stop matching and replying to women cuz it was too many on there.
It's funny cuz I simultaneously made a hinge account as well. And that one is doing much worse same shyt as before flakey girls, single moms, etc. Had a chick on hinge hit me up to go out on a date then flake last minute that app is garbage. Then how I know it is garbage is because the same women I saw 6 months ago when I deleted it are still on there. A few even tried to send likes to me again. And it can't be because my profile is trash either cuz on tinder I got plenty of matches

depends on your city, Tinder in some cities is just Bots + Prostitutes while Hinge is "better looking women" but looking for relationships out of desperation.

 

[cyndaquil]

depends on your city, Tinder in some cities is just Bots + Prostitutes while Hinge is "better looking women" but looking for relationships out of desperation.

for somebody who is desperate they sure don't act it. I think i hate that app the most because it's basically ig lite where the women try to portray some sort of lifestyle shyt they likely do not live and actively choose as if they live it. I see the profiles of some chicks and it's like picture for picture straight off their ig

 

[Apollo Creed]

for somebody who is desperate they sure don't act it. I think i hate that app the most because it's basically ig lite where the women try to portray some sort of lifestyle shyt they likely do not live and actively choose as if they live it. I see the profiles of some chicks and it's like picture for picture straight off their ig

It could be my city or where the algorithm fits me, but Tinder in USA is utter ass, Hinge in any US city I set it I get "good looking" chicks in my likes, but hinge at least on surface (I usually ghost because I got another trip on the horizon and stop caring), is full of the traumatized pretty privilege chicks where the age they are at the men in their bracket are not trying to get in a relationship lol and those who are are already in one/undertstand apps aint the place to find one. I`m about to lock in on monk mode to be honest to get some personal shyt in check and try to take my fitness to next level as I want to tie it into business opportunities.

Bumble is utter weirdos and BLK I haven't used in over 4 years but when I was on it it was like the worst of the worst. "Being outside" is still the best but gotta make sure you in top tier form. If you have the physical gifts you can pull up and post up, if not then you gotta get into position where you can show off your personality in a "rock the crowd" type thing to attract too.

 

[cyndaquil]

It could be my city or where the algorithm fits me, but Tinder in USA is utter ass, Hinge in any US city I set it I get "good looking" chicks in my likes, but hinge at least on surface (I usually ghost because I got another trip on the horizon and stop caring), is full of the traumatized pretty privilege chicks where the age they are at the men in their bracket are not trying to get in a relationship lol and those who are are already in one/undertstand apps aint the place to find one. I`m about to lock in on monk mode to be honest to get some personal shyt in check and try to take my fitness to next level as I want to tie it into business opportunities.

Bumble is utter weirdos and BLK I haven't used in over 4 years but when I was on it it was like the worst of the worst. "Being outside" is still the best but gotta make sure you in top tier form. If you have the physical gifts you can pull up and post up, if not then you gotta get into position where you can show off your personality in a "rock the crowd" type thing to attract too.

Facts. I just got outta monk mode. Physically I'm on my A-game. Just finished a cut and It's mad easy on tinder rn. On hinge I think it's exactly like you say and I feel like the women on there are often times lowkey hiding something. It's unfortunate the state dating has become but it is what it is. A little over a year ago I was in a full on relationship popping back out into this madness was a pretty crazy experience