Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I wish collectively those breh would stay away from those big girls, cause you're giving these bytches too much confidence to come to us, like we're clean up men. Even comments when brehs say "mmmm she could add about 20-30lbs.. she'd be soli..."NOOOOOOOOOOOOO let that bytch be slim thick / slim.
 

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I wish collectively those breh would stay away from those big girls, cause you're giving these bytches too much confidence to come to us, like we're clean up men. Even comments when brehs say "mmmm she could add about 20-30lbs.. she'd be soli..."NOOOOOOOOOOOOO let that bytch be slim thick / slim.

Funny you mention it, but I'm not sure if I posted this



The TL DR - Fat Wife gets on Ozempic and is now too good to bang anymore.

It also says a lot about fat girl psychology too. :patrice:
 

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cause its not about romance anymore. its just straight fukking, scamming, getting over on somebody, cheating, etc. Toxic music is the energy now.

SZAs, Summer Walkers, Mariah The Scientist, etc.

Tbh a lot of these women werent taught romance either.

Yeah, I knew that music was different, I even listen to a little of it, but I had never considered why that was, or that it was influential. Sometimes I project the idea that people are smarter, or know how to listen to music and love it, without embracing the ideologies personally. It's pretty fascinating, I'd love to see an in depth look at the shift in R&B music over the last 20 years.

And the romance thing. When I talk and get personal with women who are like 30, it's one thing I always pick up on. There is very little sense or romance or passion. lust. It's all very calculated, or very chaotic. I can point to two 30 year old, who are very different, and both express a sort of blankness or distance when it comes to romance, or just the idea that you can want someone, and embracing it.
 

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I will say i see ppl moving away from IG. i see a couple post on tiktok / twitter expressing how they're staying off of IG because it seems "performative", everyone is using expensive cameras to take photos, renting black trucks, designer, luxury, travel, and there's more people watching, than engaging. Its almost forcing people to make new accounts, that are smaller, but more "real" / natural in a sense.

So people will have there flashy IG, then their "real life" IG. Some people also are getting off the app, or removing their photos and leaving their profiles blank or private.

Infeel tiktok is worse with the performance stuff because nikkas is doing whole skits and tv shows vs just sharing a pic or recording
 

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lol. chick is ugly
10 years on dating apps. foolishness

I think it's part of the culture of last 10 years/15 years, it's apps shaping society and culture. The idea that you create a set of data points:

Race, age, income level, location and find your perfect match.

The way I was doing it as a kid, was like making out with the baddest girls in my school in Tijuana night clubs, for the casual side, falling in love with my homies sister, just from staring across the room at each other. We never even considered things like if we were a "good fit", or "checked the right boxes", or "providers only" "looking for something serious" we just wanted each other.
 

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Infeel tiktok is worse with the performance stuff because nikkas is doing whole skits and tv shows vs just sharing a pic or recording

I can't believe men do this shyt. Skits, videos, gay ass quotes and memes and reaction videos. What the fukk happened?

10 years ago, I never thought I would sound like this.
 

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I can't believe men do this shyt. Skits, videos, gay ass quotes and memes and reaction videos. What the fukk happened?

10 years ago, I never thought I would sound like this.
Most these men behave like the single moms who raised them. My thing is aint even no “playa” ass content creators its just grifters or like nerd stuff lol so its not even content i care to conume. Even on youtube if it wasnt for sports content it would be dry as hell for me
 

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That's what my homies do. It's a mess, but the thing is, the chaos and the alcohol is the point. It's too chaotic for me. And there's so many variables, you have to be committed to the end. Women will eye me up and down, and then we talk, and then they get distracted. And then you get distracted. And then the hanger on start talking to her. And then her friends decide to leave. And then they come back. And then they meet at the hookah lounge later. It's full of pretense and you are basically gambling on people who are drinking heavily to make the decision you want them to make. My boys put a heavy hand on the scale, with all the bottles and condos, and still come up short, half the time.

What you mentioned about The Weeknd was interesting. I love his music. Was a 2011 fan. I do think a lot of his music has some emotional depth to it, it's obviously not like 90's R&B, but he softened a lot of his music up post 2015. He's vulnerable, but rarely romantic.

What happened around 2015 was all the imitators, who took that emotionally unavailable style and ran it into the ground. And then the Cardi B's, the Doja Cat, the SZA, the whoever else ran with it too. Kind of like social media, it gets taken to more and more extremes, everyone trying to outdo the other person.
Off topic, but are you black?
 
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He wants to questions the man's credibility.
Oh.... everybody with a modicum of intelligence knows what he is trying to do........ the mere thought of an individual being able to express life experiences in a coherent, sophisticated way that are outside of the narrow idea this individual has about "blackness", is too much for him to process.....
 

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Oh.... everybody with a modicum of intelligence knows what he is trying to do........ the mere thought of an individual being able to express life experiences in a coherent, sophisticated way that are outside of the narrow idea this individual has about "blackness", is too much for him to process.....

It's funny, cause on The Coli, it's a cost free way to assassinate someone's character.

It's not like Silky is gonna post his socials on here so we can verify if he's even qualified to ask the question.

Poisonous troll behavior.
 
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