Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yo I need your advice

I matched with my old coworker on hinge last month, we used to work together before Covid for like 2 years. She was in relationship back then but definitely showed signs that she liked me. Anyways, we matched and after few catch ups on how we been, I told her let’s grab something to eat and catch up in person.

Ended up meeting up and grabbing a dinner together, then chilled in the park afterwards. Continued to text afterwards for 2 days, I mentioned we should go eat again somewhere, and she said sounds like a plan. Anyways after talking for 2 days after meeting up, she suddenly didn’t reply. I hit her up again 2 days later and she apologized, said she was very busy and tired. She works as a nurse at urgent care. We continue to talk for like 2 days and then again she went quiet. The last text I sent didn’t really need a reply, but I thought she would still say something next day or start new convo. It’s been a week and a half since we spoke, and I’m not sure what to do. I don’t mind hitting her up again but at the same time I feel like she would’ve texted me if she was really interested or is she waiting for me to make the move?

Not sure how to proceed, when we met up she looked like she was interested in me, plus she came down to the city to meet up, I feel like a person that’s not interested wouldn’t do that since she lives more than an hour away.
lowe her. if you need closure, throw a hail mary and invite her over on some "hey what are you up to this wknd? (then if she free)...come through xyz day, we havent hung out in a while"

we gotta stop spending resources on women who cant even make it easy for us. sometimes these women need to feel like they will lose our attn/an opportunity with us if they arent reciprocating or investing anything themselves. let someone else be her meal ticket
 

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Met in the gym. She approached me. We instantly hit it off. Made it known I’m looking for a relationship. She said she was looking for the same thing. We talked for 2 weeks and then i smashed last Saturday twice. Since then its just felt off and I’m about to shut it down. It is what it is.
did you pipe her down well enough?
 

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"I just directed my very first movie, Creed III, but right after that, I went through my very first public breakup," he said during his monologue on the NBC show. "Now, most people after a breakup are like, 'I'm going to get in better shape.' But I was already in Creed shape. So I had to be like, 'Alright, I guess I'll learn a new language.' Anyway, estoy en Raya."
 

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"I just directed my very first movie, Creed III, but right after that, I went through my very first public breakup," he said during his monologue on the NBC show. "Now, most people after a breakup are like, 'I'm going to get in better shape.' But I was already in Creed shape. So I had to be like, 'Alright, I guess I'll learn a new language.' Anyway, estoy en Raya."

maybe its an advertisement
if a nikka like MBJ is using a dating app, men really are pathetic nowadays
 

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Met in the gym. She approached me. We instantly hit it off. Made it known I’m looking for a relationship. She said she was looking for the same thing. We talked for 2 weeks and then i smashed last Saturday twice. Since then its just felt off and I’m about to shut it down. It is what it is.


Sounds like the sex wasn’t great for her. She prob wanted a relationship but really wanted good sex and prob decided to move on. If you’re tired or no you don’t got the energy better to make her wait longer than give a bad first impression.

:manny:
 

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maybe its an advertisement
if a nikka like MBJ is using a dating app, men really are pathetic nowadays

I think a cat can be the ABSOLUTE BEST, and even then, if a chick ain't feeling you - she ain't feeling you.

So a lot of the idea about "self improvement" or learning "game" - falls flat - when you can't keep the one you want.

Cats need to take the stress off themselves.

You feeling her, haven't smashed yet, or you have smashed - she just might not be feeling it.

Nothing's wrong with you or how you move.
 

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I think a cat can be the ABSOLUTE BEST, and even then, if a chick ain't feeling you - she ain't feeling you.

So a lot of the idea about "self improvement" or learning "game" - falls flat - when you can't keep the one you want.

Cats need to take the stress off themselves.

You feeling her, haven't smashed yet, or you have smashed - she just might not be feeling it.

Nothing's wrong with you or how you move.
for sure. thing is if youre that dude, you shouldnt even care
like i dont care how attractive lori harvey is. theres tons of attractive women
but were human
 

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maybe its an advertisement
if a nikka like MBJ is using a dating app, men really are pathetic nowadays

Seen on a few podcast a bunch of mid looking women say he’s a “take home to mom type of guy but not an exciting guy.”
One of the most successful, richest, popular actors is a “take home to mom” type of guy?

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