Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Not true. Brehs be legit out here thinking their sex game is immaculate meanwhile the chick laid up in bed telling me how bad of a fukk her last dude was and why she left. Not saying that's you but we cant assume you'd know if it was.

Chicks say anything to the nikka they currently fukking to assuage his ego.
 

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Met in the gym. She approached me. We instantly hit it off. Made it known I’m looking for a relationship. She said she was looking for the same thing. We talked for 2 weeks and then i smashed last Saturday twice. Since then its just felt off and I’m about to shut it down. It is what it is.

After sex, the next day, whatever, you two weren't immediately trying to have sex again? Like: I want to do this to you, I want you again like that, I want you like this, I want to see you in this?

I'm not saying like that's what should be happening, or that's what everyone does or some shyt,
but maybe consider sending/calling someone along those lines, but make sure it's genuine.
 

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After sex, the next day, whatever, you two weren't immediately trying to have sex again? Like: I want to do this to you, I want you again like that, I want you like this, I want to see you in this?

I'm not saying like that's what should be happening, or that's what everyone does or some shyt,
but maybe consider sending/calling someone along those lines, but make sure it's genuine.
Man if she wanted it again he'd know. To me it sounds like she was sampling. Maybe she dont want a relationship and got the D she was looking for and tryna peace out before it turns serious
 

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Man if she wanted it again he'd know. To me it sounds like she was sampling. Maybe she dont want a relationship and got the D she was looking for and tryna peace out before it turns serious

I understand what you are saying, but some people, some women, need the push. I look at it, like it costs me nothing, maybe a minor rejection at worst.

This full story has too much exposition, lot of good parts for various convos here; not that long ago, I spend like two night with someone. Like stay up all night twice. In the last hour before morning, in bed, we are kissing and saying goodbye, we are both flying different places. And she's like omg are you not going to text me? And I say what, like hows your day? How are you? fukk no lol. And she's like yeah I just want to know you are thinking about me.

So a day or three later, when I get home, I send her something pretty intense, just a few sentences. Purely sexual. Nothing about anything else. And she responded, and I was even like damn this girl is tripping about me, like too much. She was like I need more of you. And so on. But it was me who initiated that. She would never send that first, because in her head, that's too vulnerable, I could ghost her, or whatever.

And she, like a lot of women, esp. really really bad ones, has a crazy ego. Same early morning convo, and I said call me, and she said I don't chase.
 
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I understand what you are saying, but some people, some women, need the push. I look at it, like it costs me nothing, maybe a minor rejection at worst.

This full story has too much exposition, lot of good parts for various convos here; not that long ago, I spend like two night with someone. Like stay up all night twice. In the last hour before morning, in bed, we are kissing and saying goodbye, we are both flying different places. And she's like omg are you not going to text me? And I say what, like hows your day? How are you? fukk no lol. And she's like yeah I just want to know you are thinking about me.

So a day or three later, when I get home, I send her something pretty intense, just a few sentences. Purely sexual. Nothing about anything else. And she responded, and I was even like damn this girl is tripping about me, like too much. She was like I need more of you. And so on. But it was me who initiated that. She would never send that first, because in her head, that's too vulnerable, I could ghost her, or whatever.

And she, like a lot of women, esp. really really bad ones, has a crazy ego. Same early morning convo, and I said call me, and she said I don't chase.
Yeah but he said she pulled back. You sent messages to a woman that was interested but just wont make the first move. What you experienced wasnt pullback it was her being passive. Nothing wrong with that. But if a woman is pulling back nah no point in trying to pursue that
 

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Man if she wanted it again he'd know. To me it sounds like she was sampling. Maybe she dont want a relationship and got the D she was looking for and tryna peace out before it turns serious

That’s exactly what happened. It is what it is. Charge it to the game. I got my nut :pachaha:

She gon need me before I need her.
 

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Not only that but women have exposed themselves as well. Over the last 10-15 yrs women have not been shy about how they’re moving and in fact has doubled down on the behavior. It’s a race to the bottom. I hear your point about 96’ but I feel like social media and technology changed the game to make women’s behavior even worse.

Thats the thing. Everything is out in the open and men are slowly waking up and continuing to share stories.
 

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I meeeeeeeaaaannnnn the little exchange we had, had subsided, but you still felt the need to take a shot so wouldn't what you just said apply to you?????


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Just for good measure....
It's all good bruh, I just knew you'd fall for the bait and get triggered by it so it was a fun experiment :dead:
 
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That’s exactly what happened. It is what it is. Charge it to the game. I got my nut :pachaha:

She gon need me before I need her.

This is what brehs gotta understand, we often still try to come in good faith when others are trying to get over. You truly gotta treat everyone like FWBs where there is a basic human level respect but outside of thst I'm not planning past today on anything this you stop caring and just enjoy the moment. Unless you are in an arranged marriage as virgin teens via religious institution the so called honest and purity doesn't exist so main thing until commitment just have a base line respect and match energy. If she pull away I'm not gonna go chase and investigate because I'm not even committed. And I'm not investing in anything outside of my purview which would likely be things we both enjoy so I'm not "losing" anything. If she wanna do something I don't/don't know about she can put me on and set it up otherwise we on my time
 
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