I understand what you are saying, but some people, some women, need the push. I look at it, like it costs me nothing, maybe a minor rejection at worst.
This full story has too much exposition, lot of good parts for various convos here; not that long ago, I spend like two night with someone. Like stay up all night twice. In the last hour before morning, in bed, we are kissing and saying goodbye, we are both flying different places. And she's like omg are you not going to text me? And I say what, like hows your day? How are you? fukk no lol. And she's like yeah I just want to know you are thinking about me.
So a day or three later, when I get home, I send her something pretty intense, just a few sentences. Purely sexual. Nothing about anything else. And she responded, and I was even like damn this girl is tripping about me, like too much. She was like I need more of you. And so on. But it was me who initiated that. She would never send that first, because in her head, that's too vulnerable, I could ghost her, or whatever.
And she, like a lot of women, esp. really really bad ones, has a crazy ego. Same early morning convo, and I said call me, and she said I don't chase.