Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I feel you

I have a similar story where i didnt smash cause she was on her period but got I head. Week later the chick came back from a MIA trip and asked me for money and after i said nah she dissed me.

Long story that im too lazy to share but the point is that its different these days. Back then a girl giving you neck or fukkin meant something, she was pretty much yours. In this post feminism , empowered, high powered female era though, you and I both know it dont mean shyt. These girls be fukkin recreationally the same way men do. A girl will fukk you tonight and then let some other dude take her out her tmw. If that dude plays his cards right he can fukk too.

Its just the nature of the beast. She is never yours

If she can fukk you and start acting funny it just shows she loose with her p*ssy and not worth taking seriously anyways.
Had a chick meet some dude at a country club dinner then let me come to the crib and pipe after. :dead:
Honestly every woman is different but what you are describing sir is a hoe
These days the hoes blend in. But once you realize she a hoe let her be a hoe. The game so fukked up now that the hoes think they got some juice. She taken 20 dikks this year but wanna act like she high value :russ:
Delusional. As usual the game aint changed. The players just different. There's always a simp that will wife up the hoe. We will see in 20 years the consequences of hoeing being envogue. Just enjoy the easy nuts until you find your person amongst the sea of hoes lol
 

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Not true. Brehs be legit out here thinking their sex game is immaculate meanwhile the chick laid up in bed telling me how bad of a fukk her last dude was and why she left. Not saying that's you but we cant assume you'd know if it was.

Chicks say anything to the nikka they currently fukking to assuage his ego.
 

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Met in the gym. She approached me. We instantly hit it off. Made it known I’m looking for a relationship. She said she was looking for the same thing. We talked for 2 weeks and then i smashed last Saturday twice. Since then its just felt off and I’m about to shut it down. It is what it is.

After sex, the next day, whatever, you two weren't immediately trying to have sex again? Like: I want to do this to you, I want you again like that, I want you like this, I want to see you in this?

I'm not saying like that's what should be happening, or that's what everyone does or some shyt,
but maybe consider sending/calling someone along those lines, but make sure it's genuine.
 

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After sex, the next day, whatever, you two weren't immediately trying to have sex again? Like: I want to do this to you, I want you again like that, I want you like this, I want to see you in this?

I'm not saying like that's what should be happening, or that's what everyone does or some shyt,
but maybe consider sending/calling someone along those lines, but make sure it's genuine.
Man if she wanted it again he'd know. To me it sounds like she was sampling. Maybe she dont want a relationship and got the D she was looking for and tryna peace out before it turns serious
 

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Man if she wanted it again he'd know. To me it sounds like she was sampling. Maybe she dont want a relationship and got the D she was looking for and tryna peace out before it turns serious

I understand what you are saying, but some people, some women, need the push. I look at it, like it costs me nothing, maybe a minor rejection at worst.

This full story has too much exposition, lot of good parts for various convos here; not that long ago, I spend like two night with someone. Like stay up all night twice. In the last hour before morning, in bed, we are kissing and saying goodbye, we are both flying different places. And she's like omg are you not going to text me? And I say what, like hows your day? How are you? fukk no lol. And she's like yeah I just want to know you are thinking about me.

So a day or three later, when I get home, I send her something pretty intense, just a few sentences. Purely sexual. Nothing about anything else. And she responded, and I was even like damn this girl is tripping about me, like too much. She was like I need more of you. And so on. But it was me who initiated that. She would never send that first, because in her head, that's too vulnerable, I could ghost her, or whatever.

And she, like a lot of women, esp. really really bad ones, has a crazy ego. Same early morning convo, and I said call me, and she said I don't chase.
 
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I understand what you are saying, but some people, some women, need the push. I look at it, like it costs me nothing, maybe a minor rejection at worst.

This full story has too much exposition, lot of good parts for various convos here; not that long ago, I spend like two night with someone. Like stay up all night twice. In the last hour before morning, in bed, we are kissing and saying goodbye, we are both flying different places. And she's like omg are you not going to text me? And I say what, like hows your day? How are you? fukk no lol. And she's like yeah I just want to know you are thinking about me.

So a day or three later, when I get home, I send her something pretty intense, just a few sentences. Purely sexual. Nothing about anything else. And she responded, and I was even like damn this girl is tripping about me, like too much. She was like I need more of you. And so on. But it was me who initiated that. She would never send that first, because in her head, that's too vulnerable, I could ghost her, or whatever.

And she, like a lot of women, esp. really really bad ones, has a crazy ego. Same early morning convo, and I said call me, and she said I don't chase.
Yeah but he said she pulled back. You sent messages to a woman that was interested but just wont make the first move. What you experienced wasnt pullback it was her being passive. Nothing wrong with that. But if a woman is pulling back nah no point in trying to pursue that
 
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