One of my boys, someone who is in our circle, not my close friend, but he's like families family, just got broken up with last week.
The girl was a club rat, who didn't work, parents paid for her condo, and was never really feeling him like that. The number my homies are saying is 100k, but I can say that for sure it was a minimum 30k. It could be 100k. He lives like a rapper, and he looks like one. He's a simp, but he's not like a nerd. These kids are coming up with different influences.
He bought a $13,000 bag, Cartiers, all kinds of shyt, and this was after like 2 months. So, that's bad. But the insider, real story is that she had sex with him only two times. This one, I couldn't believe, but it's true. You only had sex with her TWICE? And were calling her your girlfriend? What the fukk were you two doing? He got that purse for her 2 weeks ago.
This is an extreme version of what I sometimes talk about on here, people have fleshed out my theories, that sex is no longer even that important for people of a certain mindset, like the IG/Chanel purse, 40k on the wrist. This where that shyt Apollo Creed says, prostitution culture comes in. That's not even a relationship. That's something else. It's like a relationship performed for social media and propped up by money/material items. So, just to maybe get some insight from people in here, about what they think. I wouldn't even think about calling someone my girlfriend, until we had slept together 15-20 times. It's not about an exact number, but THAT's intimacy. Two times is worse than zero. To me, those late night early mornings in bed, that's where you find out about each other. That's where you start to really see people. This is like checking a box. You are a "baddie" , I am a baller. Check box. Check box.
