I felt like going out or meeting up with someone last night, so I hit up about 5-6 different women I know, and met one, walking home. Those dynamics are so fascinating, we have covered these ideas, but modern cultural norms, and communications norms are so unpredictable now. I would have guessed all wrong on who hit me back, and how they hit me back, based on any sort of reason.
K: We have been out recently, known each other for 3 years, she hit me up the day BEFORE. No answer. She's an older divorcee, like 48, takes care of her grandchild.
S: Known each other for years and years, she has a serious crush on me, but is more into "serious relationships" and "intentional dating" No Answer. Tik Tok girl. 30.
J: Neighbor. We're just hanging out a few days before, and talking about a date spot. No answer. I would have thought 100% she would hit me back. Closer to 50.
T: Known for years and years. 100% the most "baddie" of all of them. Used to dance. Baller. Hit me back instantly. Then gave me the dreaded 2:21 AM text. Of all of them I would not expect her to answer like that, even if we are tight.
A: Neighbor. Looks like a fitness model/pornstar. Thai. Like a totally flat stomach. Pretty aloof and slippery, but we have some connection. She hits me back. She's so slippery though, that she texts just enough, but never just says come over later.
Anyway, I would have got all those wrong.