African women are fukked breh. They not all like that , but proportionately they do it more than anyoneYoo I met this Liberian chick a while back. We went on one date and hooked up.
Next week she sends a text asking for rent money.
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The ones worth marrying are married within their culture/tribe lol. The exception to the rules regardless of background is a women that was in a long term that spanned years and is now single but then you have tl see if there was trauma but women worth committing to dont last long on the market, everyone else you just gotta be ready to cut your losses for the same reason everyone else choose not to comitt lol. This is never an absolute thing of course
African_brehda
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Had the VPN fired up and was on one of my alternate youtube timelines and this popped up. Haven't watched it yet, but I do remember the African brehs @Ohene @phcitywarrior @African_brehda and @africngiant talking about SA and the Slay Girls..... shyts going mainstream.......
Was Habiba trying to differentiate herself from a prostitute ?
Crazy confidence for a 4/10
Let me continue watching this shyt
Did that fakkit just call himself the new Mandela?
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Oh I believe it lol.
I went out last night .. and it was interesting. Normally, I at least pull something, especially on Halloween but idk what was going on… but I’m going back to my philosophy of today.
They want controllable men or they all must be dealing with some Boris Morris Shamar Idris St. Patrick
Man, i’ve never encountered anyone this brazen. wtf
Oh yeah it’s bad.
I’ll play devils advocate because some of these dudes are giving up money the first time which prompts the second time asking or they are failing shyt test to where she thinks she could do this. Cause I’ve never been asked for money. Maybe one time a girl asked me to send money to pay for her hair after smashing twice.
And the other women can’t believe their own gender is panhandling like this.
I've never been asked for money, but I am assuming a lot of these interactions are nearly exclusively online based. It's like sending 25 girls a request for naked pictures, 2 might send some shots. Or they went on 1 in person date.
There was a girl who was from Ghana via London, who once hit me up, "Do you want to take me out for my birthday" and I just replied, sensibly, where are you thinking? she said something like if that's what you are asking, then no worries. No convo, no discussion.
I was really just seeing if I'd even want to eat at whatever spot she wanted. She took me to a hookah spot once lol
The actual convo was this:
Wanna take me to dinner for my birthday?
Me: haha I don't know, where are you thinking?
Her: Lol, well I am going to need a little more certainty before I pour my wishes out to you
I didn't hit her back. Such a weird response at the time. How about just naming the fukking place? But, this was 2019, I think this is even more relevant now.
There was a girl who was from Ghana via London, who once hit me up, "Do you want to take me out for my birthday" and I just replied, sensibly, where are you thinking? she said something like if that's what you are asking, then no worries. No convo, no discussion.
I was really just seeing if I'd even want to eat at whatever spot she wanted. She took me to a hookah spot once lol
The actual convo was this:
Wanna take me to dinner for my birthday?
Me: haha I don't know, where are you thinking?
Her: Lol, well I am going to need a little more certainty before I pour my wishes out to you
I didn't hit her back. Such a weird response at the time. How about just naming the fukking place? But, this was 2019, I think this is even more relevant now.
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I felt like going out or meeting up with someone last night, so I hit up about 5-6 different women I know, and met one, walking home. Those dynamics are so fascinating, we have covered these ideas, but modern cultural norms, and communications norms are so unpredictable now. I would have guessed all wrong on who hit me back, and how they hit me back, based on any sort of reason.
K: We have been out recently, known each other for 3 years, she hit me up the day BEFORE. No answer. She's an older divorcee, like 48, takes care of her grandchild.
S: Known each other for years and years, she has a serious crush on me, but is more into "serious relationships" and "intentional dating" No Answer. Tik Tok girl. 30.
J: Neighbor. We're just hanging out a few days before, and talking about a date spot. No answer. I would have thought 100% she would hit me back. Closer to 50.
T: Known for years and years. 100% the most "baddie" of all of them. Used to dance. Baller. Hit me back instantly. Then gave me the dreaded 2:21 AM text. Of all of them I would not expect her to answer like that, even if we are tight.
A: Neighbor. Looks like a fitness model/pornstar. Thai. Like a totally flat stomach. Pretty aloof and slippery, but we have some connection. She hits me back. She's so slippery though, that she texts just enough, but never just says come over later.
Anyway, I would have got all those wrong.
K: We have been out recently, known each other for 3 years, she hit me up the day BEFORE. No answer. She's an older divorcee, like 48, takes care of her grandchild.
S: Known each other for years and years, she has a serious crush on me, but is more into "serious relationships" and "intentional dating" No Answer. Tik Tok girl. 30.
J: Neighbor. We're just hanging out a few days before, and talking about a date spot. No answer. I would have thought 100% she would hit me back. Closer to 50.
T: Known for years and years. 100% the most "baddie" of all of them. Used to dance. Baller. Hit me back instantly. Then gave me the dreaded 2:21 AM text. Of all of them I would not expect her to answer like that, even if we are tight.
A: Neighbor. Looks like a fitness model/pornstar. Thai. Like a totally flat stomach. Pretty aloof and slippery, but we have some connection. She hits me back. She's so slippery though, that she texts just enough, but never just says come over later.
Anyway, I would have got all those wrong.
One more thing I noticed on dating apps. Every woman is using femininity and masculinity buzzwords. “I need a provider so I can bask in my femininity”. Or “ I need alpha energy so I can stay in my feminine”
Just say you want the man to pay for everything.
Just say you want the man to pay for everything.
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cyndaquil
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That is just a dead giveaway she a sheep to these podcasts and social media talking about dating. Use it to your advantageOne more thing on noticed on dating apps. Every woman is using femininity and masculinity buzzwords. “I need a provider so I can bask in my femininity”. Or “ I need alpha energy so I can stay in my feminine”
Just say you want the man to pay for everything.
cyndaquil
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Stop letting these insecure women try to make you feel like you're not enough. They dont feel like they are enough so they overcompensate just like this. Every extreme loud demand she has is just something she knows she is lacking in herself
African_brehda
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Just found out my next door neighbor at my apartment is bad af. Knocked on my door to borrow a charger, since I was going to sleep, I took her number, so I could call her when I was around the next day to collect it. She ended up bringing it to me when I returned from work the next day. Haven’t seen her since. Basically seen her only once since I moved in in July. So she has never seen me bringing anyone else up to my spot.. banking on this to continue
I know very well given my past experience with the gym chick, I should steer clear of people I share a space with.. but nah. I’ll still try, idgaf. How do I go about it brehs?
I know very well given my past experience with the gym chick, I should steer clear of people I share a space with.. but nah. I’ll still try, idgaf. How do I go about it brehs?
They don’t want guys with self esteem and who know they’re worth. I’m convinced lol.
They want suckers.
Chicks Arte coming out literally saying they want a Simp. My question to myself is what men are even responding to this shyt?
Just go for it and don’t overthink it. Brehs spend too much time plotting the ask. She could have a guy(s), not interested etc. but you won’t know until you make the attempt,
Take the shot breh. Since you don't see her ofter you'll prob have to send a text or go knock on the door