dive deeper into beta black women & alpha black women
So let's define our terms
Just a rough outline, there's a hierarchy in human societies
Alpha Black women - have
choice. Choice to smash, choice to marry - in whatever type of men they desire. Often have multiples. Different men for different purposes. See Chris Rock's old bit about she gotta man to buy groceries and a man for the bedroom, etc. What she doesn't have, is money of her own. It's because she 100x'd her looks.
Beta Black Women - they have the education, the jobs, the careers, the money, but not necessarily the sex appeal. (which is a combination of face, body, and "personality"). They can provide for themselves, and they can get smashed - but they're not facially attractive enough to make the guys they WANT to act right. She can buy the BBL's, the wigs, the Breasts....but they don't have the face card. (and this is in their way of thinking as far as I can tell, not a male one)
So there's a situation where the Lori Harvey's of the world are competing with the Stacey Abraham's of the world for Jeremy Meek's of the world
With Alpha Women - the looks eventually fade. An external clock to get what she wants.
With Beta Black Women - the desire and hope eventually fades. (that lil discussion over Condoleeza Rice, but could apply to any powerful Black women). An external AND internal clock to get what she wants...