Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This woman cooked for me for the 1st time and the food was NOT GOOD :scust:

This my last time fukking with her :camby:
We live in an era of youtube tutorials and air fryer. If she can't cooking 2025 she absolutely is not trying to learn. Yeah bush her ass :russ: especially if she hyped it up as her main hobby/skillset
 

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Woman explains why she fukked this guy within 60 seconds? It's that easy nowadays or it's cap for content?


Just depends. The club is the club. Story was pointless and that's a common occurrence.

Hopefully nobody is watching this dude and thinking next time I meet a chick in the club then I just gotta do that...cause that's just gonna lead to trouble lol.
 

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dive deeper into beta black women & alpha black women

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So let's define our terms

Just a rough outline, there's a hierarchy in human societies

Alpha Black women - have choice. Choice to smash, choice to marry - in whatever type of men they desire. Often have multiples. Different men for different purposes. See Chris Rock's old bit about she gotta man to buy groceries and a man for the bedroom, etc. What she doesn't have, is money of her own. It's because she 100x'd her looks.

Beta Black Women - they have the education, the jobs, the careers, the money, but not necessarily the sex appeal. (which is a combination of face, body, and "personality"). They can provide for themselves, and they can get smashed - but they're not facially attractive enough to make the guys they WANT to act right. She can buy the BBL's, the wigs, the Breasts....but they don't have the face card. (and this is in their way of thinking as far as I can tell, not a male one)

So there's a situation where the Lori Harvey's of the world are competing with the Stacey Abraham's of the world for Jeremy Meek's of the world

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With Alpha Women - the looks eventually fade. An external clock to get what she wants.

With Beta Black Women - the desire and hope eventually fades. (that lil discussion over Condoleeza Rice, but could apply to any powerful Black women). An external AND internal clock to get what she wants...
 

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Lol i disagree with the top tweet
If youre somebody with a low sense of self worth maybe, if youre secure in yourself you gonna want somebody who is able to show they desire you. The absence of that just builds up resentment and the relationship eventually fails because of it

Thats why its so hard to accept breadcrumbs once you know how a woman acts when she really likes you.
 

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Women are no different. Frankly, anything more than 8 hours is too long. Longer than that and its clear her attn is all over the place and she not serious. Treat her as such. I have literally seen bytches in my neighborhood walking around texting / typing some shyt when they havent responded to my message.

I'm glad you said this, because this is pretty common for me too lol

That's the part that fascinates me so much, from a cultural/sociological view is that when they see me again, they are the people I first met. Flirty, friendly, outgoing. They don't avoid me, or apologize either. they will even say text me! The text thing is getting too extreme. I wish we could all make and keep plans without it.

There's a pretty bad Armenian girl in my neighborhood, exchanged numbers in about 4 minutes, and we live about a block from each other, so just texted her casually the next day like lets take a walk in the morning, and she never responded. To me, that's just weird behavior, but it's very normal now. I still see her, said hi to her the other day, I was walking with another girl. She walks around staring at her phone all day with her dog. Saw her at a bar downtown with her girlfriend.
 
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Nah it’s scary outside. Talked to this woman at the gym, she’s 37 but looking really good and workouts a lot so I was like ay I never had an older women before, let’s see wassup. She was feeling me so we exchanged IG. She kept blowing me up when I accepted her request.

Turns out she thinks she still in her early 20s. She’s clubbing every weekend, talking about “I don’t chase the vibe, I am the vibe”, posting partying and bottles on her stories. 37yo :damn: Madness.
 

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So I started renting my basement to an old fwb. I held out for a year but I folded brehs. I smashed

Back story, she cool n all but she a party animal so it was never gonna be more. Over time it morphed into a quasi friendship. We stopped fukking like 3 years ago.

Ffwd a year ago she needed a place to stay with her and her HS age daughter I said cool. Completely separate entrance, no shared areas. Easy money. But she was late w/ rent in month # TWO. So I immediately shut down the friend part and we kept it professional from that point. Rarely saw her, real cold via text when we had the occasional tenant issues.

Well shyt changed when her daughter just moved out. Now it’s just her. She started to try and thaw shyt. So the other day after a cordial back n forth earlier about a repair, she FaceTimed me at 1am. I thought it was a butt dial i ain’t answer but I text her and she said come downstairs. We don’t ‘share’ the house at all. I go down she’s in a robe and I folded brehs. The fourth wall has been broken now there’s a big tittied blasian bytch in my basement I could fukk all the time

I’m fighting it bc 1- when I’m nice she start gettin funny with the money and no p*ssy is worth a free $1500 every month. 2- Other women. When I was in a relationship I never thought of her. Now I’m single but still she’s a distraction plus you just never know what a woman would do.

And she stands out physically she looks like a great value Paul Payton. So women im actually trying to talk to dont even see her bc it would immediately raise eyebrows. I always describe it as ‘oh yea i rent to this older lady’.

What would you do. The money ain’t worth it…Yolo n enjoy…Go back to strictly business…
You fukked up. You don’t EVER compromise your $$$. I get ya’ll used to get down but, once she became your tenant it’s strictly business. Men have to stop letting they d*ck compromise they purpose. If your purpose was to have that extra income keep it that but, if it was to have easy accessible vagina then lead with that.
Now best believe she gonna try to use that to her leverage at some point and you gonna be left dealing with some dumb shyt you didn’t even have to deal with, if you had kept it business.
 
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