What I don't understand is why in this modern era is a woman embracing her feminine nature looked upon as weak? They've been sold this false bill of goods that feminism has been promising them. They've been promised some sort of fantasy utopia that they will enter after 'smashing the patriarchy' and through poorly emulating men. What is hilarious about these women clamoring to smash the patriarchy is that they are also the first ones to tell a man to 'man up' if he exhibits some sort of behavior unpleasant to her. I thought you hated the patriarchy, so shouldn't the man 'woman up'?
The sad thing is, this vision of manhood modern women have been given by feminists is a very poor, extremely cartoonish caricature. They get this impression that being a man is being some liquor swilling, cigar smoking, whore chasing ruffian that does what he wants and tells women what to do while giving nothing of value in return, and thereby 'imprisoning women' in the 'patriarchy'. They seem to think that by emulating this cartoon characiture of manhood, that they will finally be liberated...
"Why can't I sleep around 'like a man' (who said it was ok for men to sleep around? women CHOOSE experienced men of their own volition and could easily turn down male players, but they don't). Why can't I get tattoos like a man? Why can't I curse like a man? Why can't I get rowdy like a man? Why can't I be career-oriented like men?" But never do you hear, "Why can't I get shot like a man for saying something unpleasant? Why can't I get stomped into a coma if I hit the wrong person like a man? Why can't I have my feelings completely ignored and be told to 'man up' like a man?" Why can't I lose my life on the battlefield like a man? Why can't I undertake jobs that completely break me down physically like mining or construction like a man? Why can't I be forced to pay child support for children that aren't mine like a man?" I can go on and on.
These feminists have incubated a permanent victim status into these modern women and have them constantly believing that they are slaves of a sort being chained by 'the patriarchy.' Little do these modern women know that this is pure delusion, and once rolled back, women will be pleading to return to a more traditional structure.
Who in the world taught them that mentally and spiritually supporting and encouraging your man was wrong? That listening to the guidance and instruction of your decent man was a bad thing?
Females have gotten so brainwashed by feminism that they are now surprised when men aren't chasing after them due to them advertising masculine characteristics such as their degree and high-paying job. Men don't seek out providers. They attempt to BE the provider. You notice how a lot of these single women will say, "I'm a STRONG and INTELLIGENT woman, so men are intimidated by me." How often do you hear a single woman say, "I am a caring, nurturing woman who always looks out for my man"? Those women usually aren't single for long because they have FEMININE characteristics and men actively seek those women out.
Men and women simply aren't built the same. Men aren't messing with these self-proclaimed 'bold, strong, intelligent' women because we do not desire masculinity in our mates. If a man desired that, he'd simply be gay and deal with other men instead of seeking out a poor emulation of that. A man that sought a woman with masculine characteristics would be like a woman seeking out a caring, sweet, nurturing man who wears a g-string and jeggings. No, all of those tattoos, all of that cursing, that liquor swilling, that belligerent attitude is NOT attractive to men. No, that competitive attitude, placing your career above the family, the amount of money you make, etc., are NOT that attractive to men. No, men do not want 'sexually liberated' women who have slept with the whole block to wife up. They like those women for sex, but not for relationships. Men simply do not want women who attempt to be like men. Feminists and simp negroes who placate anything a female thinks will tell you otherwise, but reality will show quite different results.
A truly strong woman isn't one who seeks to play a role she isn't built for, but is rather one who can embrace her God given nature and live up to that role to the fullest. The strongest women are those grandmothers and mothers who've remained loyal to their husbands throughout all of the years, caring and nurturing for the kids...
A wise woman will attempt to roll back her feminist brainwashing and embrace her feminine nature... and thus, she will find her interactions with men start turning out VERY different and for the better.
after graduating from college I moved to the caribbean; last summer I was attending a local carnival and somehow got paired with some beauty pageant-type chick....so within 5 minutes of talking, this chick already asked me like 50 questions about what I do, who I am, what I majored in like as though it was a goddamn interview for me to even be able to talk to her...
here's where it gets interesting, this chick started talking about how shes a "doctor" (i was 23 at the time, she probably was a year or two older) and how involved she was in the development of a cancer center here, and how she knows the governor, (talking about how he calls her pet names and shyt...
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finally, after proclaiming all of these accolades in addition to her "extensive" curriculum vitae, I tell her how I'm going to take the LSAT to get into any of the powerhouse law schools in D.C., (e.g. Georgetown, American, Catholic, Howard...) this chick had the nerve to tell me not to get "hyped up on big name schools" and that I should just get an online degree...
Now mind you, this is still when I was still committing simp crimes but I didn't let that shyt slide...my reply was essentially, "well that's a horrible suggestion considering my background, accolades, aspirations and the fact that I only met you 15 minutes ago...plus why didn't you follow the same logic for your degree?"
Obviously, she wasn't the type for a dude to call her out on her bullyshyt so she switched the topic with the quickness
The best part is that during the whole bragging part of our conversation, I'm sitting there like
because I actually have family members who were closely involved with all of the cancer center related activities in addition to the fact that the governor is a close friend of my family...,(it was basically like an immensely oblivious person trying to give advice on securities to Warren Buffett while not knowing who the fukk Warren Buffett is)
Now while this chick was attractive and definitely interested in me and gave me the digits talking that whole "you better remember my number" and "promise to call me" I could NOT for the life of me pinpoint what it was that I hated outside of being a female blowhard....
Now in reading the aforementioned post by kev, everything has crystallized on some
to me because I simply am not looking for a woman to provide for me, compete with me, or tell me what I should or shouldn't be doing with my life...all of which were things that this chick attempted with me...
and nope, didnt bother calling her...
goddamn, I'm around page 300 or so and I am going to continue reading every goddam last page in this goddamn thread...
response, as opposed to the 
like said multiple times elsewhere in this thread and as you are well aware nudie, a chick shouldn't rely on where you can take her to appease her...if she likes you, you can take your girl to Sesame Street and she'll be delighted...as kev said, we shouldn't be trying to "deal" with women on some "damn what rabbit trick should I pull out of my ass next" tip
. Thats her problem not mine, we cant be together or talking 24-7 
but because it was right after work.
