Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Question...

Should a girl you're talking too let you know that she's talking to other people as well? I feel like its lowkey foul to not let me know.

nope until your exclusive have the mindset shes talking to 3-5 other dudes. This is why i refuse to pay for a date etc. until im exclusive with a chick, your just that nikka on that day. Atrlocafella on friday dinner and a movie, Trayvon on saturday museum and drinks, Jermichael on sunday walking by the waterfront and drinks.


these chicks will go talk to you smile, twirl the hair say there having a good time laugh, touch you on the shoulder give you a hug and thank you for dinner and then do the same thing the next day with another nugga

there is nothing wrong with that because they are not exclusive to you, why some chicks love to be single

 

[MikelArteta]

Well I'm defining talking too as in already hanging out, movies, going out to eat, which I guess is "dating" in a sense. so if that's the case, shouldn't you still be informed if you're not the only one doing all of this?

breh they do that with every guy there talking to, only way you can gage is by getting her facebook or twitter or instagram.

women will never inform, its like gms never showing their true intent.

your competing with a bunch of other dudes for her services, the worse is if you met her on a online dating site and he rprofile is still up and shes signing it, shes getting offers left and right from dudes that are richer than you, got a better body no homo and all that just a click away.

 

[Rich Spirit]

Well I'm defining talking too as in already hanging out, movies, going out to eat, which I guess is "dating" in a sense. so if that's the case, shouldn't you still be informed if you're not the only one doing all of this?

Not really but like what Reincar just said, u gotta have a mindset that she's talking to other dudes while she's talking to u until yall become exclusive. This way you can stay on your toes and not have all your feelings involved.

 

[MikelArteta]

and honestly ill say this i dont even blame women, hell if i could get free dinners and a movie a few times a week and not have ot do anything cept smile and laugh and act like im interested in the person and then give them a sympathy hug, then text them i had a great time but your just not my type id eat as well

 

[Atlrocafella]

I hear ya brehs..

 

[George Gooney]

breh they do that with every guy there talking to, only way you can gage is by getting her facebook or twitter or instagram.

women will never inform, its like gms never showing their true intent.

your competing with a bunch of other dudes for her services, the worse is if you met her on a online dating site and he rprofile is still up and shes signing it, shes getting offers left and right from dudes that are richer than you, got a better body no homo and all that just a click away.

This is the only one of those I still use and it's funny breh... A chick im talking to kept asking me for my instagram...I didn't want to add her but eventually I add her and its weeks later and she still hasn't liked any of my pics(Mind you I haven't liked any of hers) but why add me and not like my shyt??? She trynna spy on me?

 

[yo moms]

did this girl diss me in a text?

Spoiler

sorry about last night we were both really drunk

 

[kevm3]

most of the games men imagine women playing on them are the result of games men play with themselves. In other words, a lot of cats get played because of their own imagination. THey like to imagine a woman being what they WANT her to be instead of seeing her for who she is. When a guy sees a pretty woman, first thing he usually sees is, "Aww man there goes potential wifey right there!" He doesn't know a doggone thing about her character and when he finds out, he doesn't even care... so he jumps in and tries to wife up this woman who doesn't have the characteristics for that and ends up finding she ain't what HE imagined and gets mad at something he brought on himself. Don't try to imagine a woman being anything other than how she really carries herself.

 

[MikelArteta]

man today had to reset my phone and by resynching that chicks number popped up again

i almost sent her a text then im like :woah:, if this chick wanted to talk to me she would have replied to my text instead of ignoring it,

i have to keep on slapping myself cant believe i developed a little bit of oneitis scust

 

[kevm3]

Something to do is stop worrying about how a broad is going to react. Get at babygirl how you get at her... let her react how she reacts, and if the reaction is positive, then keep mashing with how you get down. If she ain't digging it, cut it short and keep it pushing. One way cats give women too much power is 'trying to read a woman's mind' and come with some super tailored introduction as if you not coming at her a certain way will get you dismissed from her presence. That is putting the ball in her court. Ain't no such thing as the perfect introduction or some magic formula. Get at these women how you get at them and don't focus on the ones that ain't too keen on your get down. You simply got to get out there in them fields and start busting conversation on these women to see what works for you. Nobody can really tell you the formula. It comes through getting that experience.

 

[Malikthegod]

Question...

Should a girl you're talking too let you know that she's talking to other people as well? I feel like its lowkey foul to not let me know.

These chicks ain't out here twiddling their thumbs and sitting around waiting on you. These chicks have dudes trying to get at them constantly. ALWAYS assume these chicks are talking to someone.

 

[Atlrocafella]

I'm just very suspicious of women these days..You just never know man.

 

[Medio]

I went on my second date with this girl like 1.5 weeks ago. We just went to the park and had some food into the night. I ended up making a move and we madeout or w/e. She texted me a couple hours after it ended saying she had a good time. I didn't text her for a few days after that and hit her up to see how she was. Then couple days after met up with her in school for just a few minutes. Thing is, she hasn't been texting first lately (sorry if i put so much stock in this), at first she would text me first a lot but it hasn't been like that. So I just fell back form texting her and now it's been like 4 days without me hitting her up or vice versa, I saw her in school today though.it's finals time basically. I don't know what im doing wrong. Should I just ignore her or hit her up saying some outlandish shyt like 'wtf' to catch her off guard and keep her interested. Idk brehs. confused cuase im getting mixed signals. i feel there is some kind of barrier right now between us.

 

[George Gooney]

I went on my second date with this girl like 1.5 weeks ago. We just went to the park and had some food into the night. I ended up making a move and we madeout or w/e. She texted me a couple hours after it ended saying she had a good time. I didn't text her for a few days after that and hit her up to see how she was. Then couple days after met up with her in school for just a few minutes. Thing is, she hasn't been texting first lately (sorry if i put so much stock in this), at first she would text me first a lot but it hasn't been like that. So I just fell back form texting her and now it's been like 4 days without me hitting her up or vice versa, I saw her in school today though.it's finals time basically. I don't know what im doing wrong. Should I just ignore her or hit her up saying some outlandish shyt like 'wtf' to catch her off guard and keep her interested. Idk brehs. confused cuase im getting mixed signals. i feel there is some kind of barrier right now between us.

Just play it cool breh y'all made out so she's invested in you pretty soon she's gonna be coming on to you hard for a commitment... Her ASD(anti-slut-defense) will make sure of this.

 

[George Gooney]

In other news @kevm3 how's the book coming brother? I'm looking forward to it keep us posted.