Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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and you havent smashed any of them...
you are getting super excited over getting numbers and going out on dates but you arent doing anything with them. please stop posting until you get in one of these chicks legs. thanks!
It's funny to me how women contact you out of the blue when they need something, but when they don't, you are worth about as much as some gum on the ground. If ya'll maintained contact all along on a friendly level and now she needs your help, sure.... but if she never hit you up once for years and all of a sudden is ringing you up asking for help, the question is why you?
If anything, the most you should do is take an advisory role. Do not get directly involved, but you can point her to the right resources where she can get the advice/recommendations she needs.
What you need to be careful of is being a simp soldier. Women are quick to get men they otherwise would not care one iota about to come in and fight their battles for them and discard them after the battle is done. All they have to do is feign some interest in him and give him a down on her luck story, and this guy is rushing to put his life on the line for her. If the guy gets maimed fighting her battle, she might feel bad for a day or two, but after that he's a memory to quickly be forgotten.
The real question is why didn't she bring this up when she was with you and why are you the ear she needs now? Where is her mother, possible brothers, the guy she dated after you, etc. Where are they at? The stepdad is scum, but you have to be careful about getting directly involved. It's like one of those cases where you see a boyfriend and a girlfriend arguing and fighting, the boyfriend hits the woman for some reason and some sideline soldier rushes in to fight the boyfriend and both the boyfriend and girlfriend start attacking that dude that was trying to help her and she ends up defending her boyfriend to the cops.
I'm always very suspicious of women who I haven't heard from in months all of a sudden popping up, acting friendly and then asking for a favor. I know as soon as I do that favor, it won't be appreciated very much, she's going to ask for another favor right after, or she's going to disappear.
Be VERY wary of women who bring drama to your life. A lot of them, after they do you wrong, completely disappear and don't care one iota about you. Then they need help, feign interest, get you to tag along and leave a big steaming pile of drama on your door to clean up and then disappear without even a thank you... this is doubly so after she cheated on you. I don't know how often ya'll stayed in contact after that, but think deeply before you bring that drama into your life. Advise her and tell her how to go about getting the information she needs, but getting directly involved is a risk you might need to avoid taking.
What you need to be careful of is being a simp soldier. Women are quick to get men they otherwise would not care one iota about to come in and fight their battles for them and discard them after the battle is done. All they have to do is feign some interest in him and give him a down on her luck story, and this guy is rushing to put his life on the line for her. If the guy gets maimed fighting her battle, she might feel bad for a day or two, but after that he's a memory to quickly be forgotten.
The real question is why didn't she bring this up when she was with you and why are you the ear she needs now? Where is her mother, possible brothers, the guy she dated after you, etc. Where are they at? The stepdad is scum, but you have to be careful about getting directly involved. It's like one of those cases where you see a boyfriend and a girlfriend arguing and fighting, the boyfriend hits the woman for some reason and some sideline soldier rushes in to fight the boyfriend and both the boyfriend and girlfriend start attacking that dude that was trying to help her and she ends up defending her boyfriend to the cops.
I'm always very suspicious of women who I haven't heard from in months all of a sudden popping up, acting friendly and then asking for a favor. I know as soon as I do that favor, it won't be appreciated very much, she's going to ask for another favor right after, or she's going to disappear.
Be VERY wary of women who bring drama to your life. A lot of them, after they do you wrong, completely disappear and don't care one iota about you. Then they need help, feign interest, get you to tag along and leave a big steaming pile of drama on your door to clean up and then disappear without even a thank you... this is doubly so after she cheated on you. I don't know how often ya'll stayed in contact after that, but think deeply before you bring that drama into your life. Advise her and tell her how to go about getting the information she needs, but getting directly involved is a risk you might need to avoid taking.
my question wouldve just been why shes coming to me of all people to "help [her] navigate"she cheated on me
from ages 13-18
i dated her when she was 19
from then I would probably ignore once answering said question
the majority of western women are scandalous void of any righteousness and not fit to wear a white wedding purity dress, or a ring on their finger. I'm not muslim but muslim women seem to be more virtuous than any other religion even the ones who aren't deep into the religion.
I always said if i were to get married, i'd lterally have to move to like ghana, brazil , phillipines, romania or something and get a righteous broad there.
Seems every broad nowadays clubs all the time, dress scandalous, sleeps around, has a kid out of wedlock , lies, has 100 dudes in thier phones etc. and well I have no desire no matter how "sexy" she is.
the funny thing now that I'm deep into my religion and trying to follow what is right, it amazes me when I talk to women who are so called followers and they get upset "what you wouldnt live together with a broad before you get married", "what you wont have sex before marriage? what if the sex isn't good"
I know i lived a wretched life before and if i were to ever get married i probably deserve a dirty strung out harlot for all my previous sexual sins but ehhid rather be single forever
That's the problem in the western world. You simply cannot wife the unwifeable. A huge portion of women here have been trained from ground up, day one to embody feminist, "I'm miss independent", "I'm a princess and deserve the best and don't have to give anything," and "I'm not doing this or that for a man" attitudes and have promiscuity constantly pumped into their brains via television and the media. They are literally being programmed from day one to be someone that you can't marry. You end up marrying them, you get cheated on, and this society is structured to destroy men in the divorce court. You do everything right, handle your responsibilities as a man, and she will cheat on you with some guy out of jail, take half your stuff, you end up paying her alimony and child support, and she has that dude living up in your house and riding your car... and doing who knows what with your children. That's the kind of thing that happens when you put a ring around the finger of someone who is not worthy of a ring. The big problem is the culture... the things allowed on television and in the music and the underlying cultural attitudes that are promoted.
This book was written in 1910. It seems interesting:
http://books.google.com/books?id=iC...e&q=Modern Woman and How to Manage Her&f=true
http://books.google.com/books?id=iC...e&q=Modern Woman and How to Manage Her&f=true
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Some of these bytches are something else.
I went to a BBQ yesterday with my sister whose friend's daughter was celebrating her 18th. At one point, one of my sister's coworkers who I saw for the first time earlier in the day who probably didn't even know my name asks me if I can go get a drink for her. I just literally looked at this dizzy bytch like
"you don't me from Adam and you're asking me to walk through the kitchen and into the backyard to get something for you?" She was like ok I'll it get no worries. Plus her 'sometime boyfriend' was at the BBQ too. I told my sister about it and she was like oh that's just how she is, she doesn't care.
Chick is in her mid 50s and thinks she's still 20 by the way she acts apparently.
I went to a BBQ yesterday with my sister whose friend's daughter was celebrating her 18th. At one point, one of my sister's coworkers who I saw for the first time earlier in the day who probably didn't even know my name asks me if I can go get a drink for her. I just literally looked at this dizzy bytch like
"you don't me from Adam and you're asking me to walk through the kitchen and into the backyard to get something for you?" She was like ok I'll it get no worries. Plus her 'sometime boyfriend' was at the BBQ too. I told my sister about it and she was like oh that's just how she is, she doesn't care. Chick is in her mid 50s and thinks she's still 20 by the way she acts apparently.
Enjoy posting about getting numbers and flaky women Clown. Haaaaaa
on some real shyt though, if you want to avoid flakey women you gotta make a change in your life/philosophy cause your current one doesn't seem to be working out. not even trying to clown but let me put tit to you this way:
women flake on dudes only if they feel like they can get away with it. for some reason, your behavior is letting her think that. As Patrice would say, you gotta provide another option to the chick. give her the option to be with a man she can't flake on and she'l GLADLY choose that option.
yup women flake on dudes becase they know they can call the next wek or next month and he'll be ok with it, if a chick flakes on me thats it see you, someone who has experience in dating, relationships can tell when a women is really into him, they never flake. I mentioned before hcicks who were really into me travelling like a hour to see me in the rain after work etc., meeting me even when they had exams etc.