Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Doin2Much Williams

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Insignificant posting from an insignificant poster
i miss being with a sista, breaighs.


If my family wasn't so traditional/first generationals, i would have been married to one.


My child(ren) will be in a more liberal household with more cultured parents. They won't have to cave in to the same pressures i did/do.


Let people love who they want to love. Color/race/creed/religion/class has nothing to do with anything when it comes to matter of the heart.


Except my own happiness.


:(


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this online shyt is just not working the killer is i have social anxiety and few friends so theres pretty much no other avenue to meet em
its gonna take a miracle to find a decent woman that will accept me in the state im in:mjcry:

you dont need a woman right now breh. you need to work on yourself. get your travel game up, get your health and diet routine going. get a regular after work/school activity. when you start taking control over other aspects of your life, the confidence will start to spill over and you'll already be attractive to more people.
 

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you dont need a woman right now breh. you need to work on yourself. get your travel game up, get your health and diet routine going. get a regular after work/school activity. when you start taking control over other aspects of your life, the confidence will start to spill over and you'll already be attractive to more people.
thanks breh just need to occupy my time when im not at college i now see how bytchmade that post was
 

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My ten commandments for wifey

1. Humble/content with simplicity
2. Loyal
3. Not a Attention whore
4. Has a good Name
5. Healthy
6. No children
7. Likes me for me
8. Hard Worker
9. See's me as valuable, irreplaceable, a blessing from above
10. Not a Chameleon

all you need brehs :noah:
 

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I always say I have nothing to hide so here it is brehs. Back then I was dating this Thot for a few months and she dumped me because she needed space right before my birthday which is the middle of June.

Anyways I hacked her email :sas1: and well in July she sent this to another nukka.

BTW I had to wait till we were official to even have sex

This was five years ago, I keep ish like this to remind me how women are.

Date: Sat, 4 Jul 2009 16:28:11 +0000

So I know I saw you less than 12 hours ago, but you've been on my mind ever since. After our conversation last night I was left with a million and fifteen thoughts running through my head. Needless to say I am extremely confused with myself, my actions and my intensions.

**Get ready this could be a long one. Go ahead and grab a drink and snack, lol**

I'm going to start at the very beginning of all this and try my hardest not to confuse you.

I've always liked you. I don't know what it is about you I've always liked, seeing as we sort of drifted apart shortly after the start of high school, but there has always been something there for me. Its hard to explain. Like the sight of you makes me weak at the knees. The thought of you makes me all warm inside. And every time I receive a text or Facebook message from you I can't help but get a huge smile.

Alcohol + Facebook = Trouble.

I know you think that this whole thing was about sex. It wasn't for me, I actually like you. We came to the realization that you can't like someone without knowing them. Obviously I don't know you. What I do know is that your smile makes all my worries, fears and thoughts vanish from my head. I know that even if I'm super exhausted and all I want is to sleep, I still wait up for your text saying your running late, but you'll be at my house as soon as you can. Even if you only end up staying for a few hours. And I know all the attention I get one on one with you makes me feel like the luckiest girl in the whole world. All I can think about is what I could do to make you feel the same. Your kisses make me tremble. The way you rub my legs when we cuddle gives me goosebumps, and when you trace over the back of my neck with your stubble I want to laugh... So if that's not liking someone, I'd like to know what is.

I understand your in a phase right now, and who knows what the outcome will be. I really enjoy this thing we have going but it has to stop. I deserve more respect and even more I crave more than just sex from you. And you, deserve more respect from me. I shouldn't be sending you those messages in hopes of catching your attention, even if only for a few minutes. I'm sorry, and they will stop.

I think friends is great! I value your company, stories...just you in general. I still want to hang out and I hope you do too, just no affection.

Also if at any time your single, I better be the first one to know, I'll definitely want a piece of that cock.

Hope your enjoying your day off.
Text me.
wow :ohhh: that bytch was in the female version of the friendzone, you could call it the sidechickzone. she was simping that dude hard :lolbron:
 
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wouldn't say instant slut. there are always exceptions. some of them are attention whores, some are girls that are just generally into piercings and tats, but to me it's a red flag generally.

Good to know. I'll keep her on the roster for now. She's down to earth and pretty chill but did give the "slut" vibe when she was talking about her exes

Should I ask her about it or let it be for now ?
 
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this online shyt is just not working the killer is i have social anxiety and few friends so theres pretty much no other avenue to meet em
its gonna take a miracle to find a decent woman that will accept me in the state im in:mjcry:
I've never had social anxiety, but I know off rip, online is the last place you need to be.
 

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My ten commandments for wifey

1. Humble/content with simplicity
2. Loyal
3. Not a Attention whore
4. Has a good Name
5. Healthy
6. No children
7. Likes me for me
8. Hard Worker
9. See's me as valuable, irreplaceable, a blessing from above
10. Not a Chameleon

all you need brehs :noah:

So if shawty was 35 and she had all of these traits, would you still wife?
 
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