Ilk touch on this shortly y'all know my FD up dealing with women one sec.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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EA
A Pound & A Prayer
yea it's just a shame because I feel most guys dont keep tabs on some, "she owes me shyt."
I think its just that when you love or really like somebody you want to do right by them and treat them good...spoil them even sometimes. As @Emperor_ReinScarf and others will say a man's most valuable asset is time and we spend most of ours sleeping or making money. Our spending time or effort or money on these girls is usually our natural way of showing we care so when a girl says, "I wanna break up with you because youre A, B, and C its only natural for a brother to say, how can you think I'm A,B & C when I did X,Y,&Z??."
The truth is girls are only saying youre ABC because they need an excuse to break up with you. Thats why girls stay twisting words around, ignoring facts in arguments and are generally passive aggressive. I'm speaking from experience about a story i've told on here before. You live and learn though.
I know exactly what you mean. One the first things my ex said to me when she broke up with me was "You're not really here to support me, you just want me as an accessory" and I immediately started thinking "So I wasn't your emotional support when your cousin died? So I wasn't your emotional support when you were having arguments with your parents? So I wasn't coming to pick you up from your house regardless of how late it was to spend time with you when you were upset about life?
"All of the reasoning I was trying to do in my head drove me crazy and it left me slightly depressed. After I got through it all, I just learned that doing things women doesn't count for anything when they want to break up with you and I now bear that in mind when interacting with any girl.
yep. this is why dudes like reincar are so cold. Call him bitter but he's living off experience. Once a girl decides to break up with you theres nothing an argument or reason can fix. The most you can do is give it a day or two for emotions to calm down, try once to settle the difference and then if it doesnt work act like the girl never existed in the first place.I know exactly what you mean. One the first things my ex said to me when she broke up with me was "You're not really here to support me, you just want me as an accessory" and I immediately started thinking "So I wasn't your emotional support when your cousin died? So I wasn't your emotional support when you were having arguments with your parents? So I wasn't coming to pick you up from your house regardless of how late it was to spend time with you when you were upset about life?
All of the reasoning I was trying to do in my head drove me crazy and it left me slightly depressed. After I got through it all, I just learned that doing things women doesn't count for anything when they want to break up with you and I now bear that in mind when interacting with any girl.
Let's say you are in a relationship and there is an opportunity that you have to search her belongings/apartment for a brief moment while she is gone. Do you take it? Insecure or just protecting your best interest?
Papa LaBas
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Do it. You'll never know what you'll find. Herpes medication, boxers that aint yours, letters from a nikka writing her from prison lol shyt like that. Because you know she would pillage your spot with no hesitation.Let's say you are in a relationship and there is an opportunity that you have to search her belongings/apartment for a brief moment while she is gone. Do you take it? Insecure or just protecting your best interest?
Anything you do for anyone, a woman even a man , even a family member do it because you want to. Poeple will rarely appreciate what you do, don't expect a thanks, for them to pay you back for them to remember because rarely they will do.
You want to know just a few things i've done for women in my life?
Helped my ex fiance get into university, helped her with essays because her english was not that strong, dropped out of law school to get a job to pay for most of the stuff for the wedding because her and her parents couldn't afford it.
What did I get in return? abortion behind my back
Godson and his mom were homeless for awhile let them stay at my house for 3 months rent free.
Picked up my godson every single day and dropped him off at daycare
Let my godsons mom 1,000 for half of first and last rent took two years to just get 250 back before i said
She lost her job, and was on unemployment, for like 7 months bougfht my godson diapers and food
Actually got her job paying 50k a year by fixing up her resume and applying for jobs on my break at work
what did i get in the end brehs? i couldn't even get back the money I was owed, I got accused of harrasing her because I was asking her back for my money.
NO I was not looking for praise or even a thanks just a you know your the only person who did anything for me in my life, heres your 1,000 instead nope.
I learned valuable lessons like always, as I always say your sworn enemy who hates you and would slaughter your whole family if he could. If you were to save him from a burning building he'd forgive you and have your back for life. - see pulp fiction bruce willis and ving rhames for what im talking about
now you can save a single mom from homelessness, save her 3 b*stard kids put them up in your crib, and she'd max up your credit card behind your back or accuse you of abusing her. Women have zero loyalty they don't care what you've done for them because in their mind another dude would do the same thing and odds are they are right.
Anything I do for women I do because I want to, not for praise not for admiration, I don't keep a running tab, i don't bring up but but i bought you flowers, took you to a restaurant, treated you good unlike all your previous bfs, nope.
You want to know just a few things i've done for women in my life?
Helped my ex fiance get into university, helped her with essays because her english was not that strong, dropped out of law school to get a job to pay for most of the stuff for the wedding because her and her parents couldn't afford it.
What did I get in return? abortion behind my back
Godson and his mom were homeless for awhile let them stay at my house for 3 months rent free.
Picked up my godson every single day and dropped him off at daycare
Let my godsons mom 1,000 for half of first and last rent took two years to just get 250 back before i said
She lost her job, and was on unemployment, for like 7 months bougfht my godson diapers and food
Actually got her job paying 50k a year by fixing up her resume and applying for jobs on my break at work
what did i get in the end brehs? i couldn't even get back the money I was owed, I got accused of harrasing her because I was asking her back for my money.
NO I was not looking for praise or even a thanks just a you know your the only person who did anything for me in my life, heres your 1,000 instead nope.
I learned valuable lessons like always, as I always say your sworn enemy who hates you and would slaughter your whole family if he could. If you were to save him from a burning building he'd forgive you and have your back for life. - see pulp fiction bruce willis and ving rhames for what im talking about
now you can save a single mom from homelessness, save her 3 b*stard kids put them up in your crib, and she'd max up your credit card behind your back or accuse you of abusing her. Women have zero loyalty they don't care what you've done for them because in their mind another dude would do the same thing and odds are they are right.
Anything I do for women I do because I want to, not for praise not for admiration, I don't keep a running tab, i don't bring up but but i bought you flowers, took you to a restaurant, treated you good unlike all your previous bfs, nope.
I know exactly what you mean. One the first things my ex said to me when she broke up with me was "You're not really here to support me, you just want me as an accessory" and I immediately started thinking "So I wasn't your emotional support when your cousin died? So I wasn't your emotional support when you were having arguments with your parents? So I wasn't coming to pick you up from your house regardless of how late it was to spend time with you when you were upset about life?
All of the reasoning I was trying to do in my head drove me crazy and it left me slightly depressed. After I got through it all, I just learned that doing things women doesn't count for anything when they want to break up with you and I now bear that in mind when interacting with any girl.
yup
its why i always tell men, don't believe a word women tell about their exes, she probably told the new guy she's dating oh me and my ex broke up because he didn't really support me he just wanted me as a accessory.
Let's say you are in a relationship and there is an opportunity that you have to search her belongings/apartment for a brief moment while she is gone. Do you take it? Insecure or just protecting your best interest?
why not
I look at opportunities like that as manna from heaven, a blessing from God.
back in the day when a girl was like oh you can use my computer, right away i went to her msn chat folders and copied that to a usb stick
I made a thread today, I don't even argue or even ask why
i just accept it agree and then delete and block the number, like every other girl i've had in my past she ain't special and ill get over her in due time
Urbanmiracle
Brooklyn the planet...
I know exactly what you mean. One the first things my ex said to me when she broke up with me was "You're not really here to support me, you just want me as an accessory" and I immediately started thinking "So I wasn't your emotional support when your cousin died? So I wasn't your emotional support when you were having arguments with your parents? So I wasn't coming to pick you up from your house regardless of how late it was to spend time with you when you were upset about life?
All of the reasoning I was trying to do in my head drove me crazy and it left me slightly depressed. After I got through it all, I just learned that doing things women doesn't count for anything when they want to break up with you and I now bear that in mind when interacting with any girl.
AMEN:
I mean y'all seen me go through it with this recent break up. I was driving myself (and some of my friends and family) crazy trying to apply logic and reasoning as to why she would just break up with me after I've been there. I was even depressed about it. It crush a nikka ego a bit. Then after a few weeks and few dates I realized, LOGIC DOESNT APPLY TO THEM. Then I'm like fukk it. I did those things cause Im a good dude. And for whatever its worth, I gotta take that with me. We are good men. Decent guys. If this particular strumpet can't realize and appreciate it, there are MILLIONS of other girls who will.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
Settle the difference for what?
If the how said she wanna break up then give her peace from the middle east.
EA
A Pound & A Prayer
The sad thing about my situation is that my ex still contacts me and I sense that she wants me to accept her back into my life and talk to her again like everything's all good. I remain cordial 'cause that's how I am but she really doesn't believe that I've moved on and thrown her in the bushes.
I remember when I started thinking that it was me that needed to change and then it just finally clicked and I realised that catering our personalities to each girl we meet is a disaster waiting to happen. The only true from outcomes from doing this are simping and becoming a sociopath.
the sooner you realize logic doesn't apply to most the farther along you will be.
I don't even bother wasting my time on exes, or past girls. There's to much women out there single that i don't have a history with for me to cry or worry what she is doing.
I don't believe in second chances when theres a girl on her hands and knees praying for a nukka like me to give her a first chance
Urbanmiracle
Brooklyn the planet...
Indeed friend. This new girl Ive been seeing this past week always saying how she is happy we are hanging and having fun. she just happy i treat her good and i fukk her good. simple life.. lol