Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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@Emperor_ReinScarf the only thing i dont like about @BonitaChelz is i think in another thread she said something along the lines of she thinks logically and rational like a man do . I could be wrong :whoa: but in my mind a women who feels like she can think like a man in anyway is :camby: in my mind it just represents a red flag Its just something ive learned being on this rock for 30yrs. Kinda like when you hear women say "relationships are like business " :camby: it also a red flag. If relationships are like business why dont most women wanna start out in the mail room ?
 

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How do I even get the talk to go in that direction?

just remember breh, most people these days are incapable of sustaining anything past the initial chemical high ala honeymoon period. Add in a self centered me me me mentality and it is easy to see why relationships just don't seem to last anymore.
 

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@Emperor_ReinScarf the only thing i dont like about @BonitaChelz is i think in another thread she said something along the lines of she thinks logically and rational like a man do . I could be wrong :whoa: but in my mind a women who feels like she can think like a man in anyway is :camby: in my mind it just represents a red flag. Kinda like when you hear women say "relationships are like business " :camby: it also a red flag. If relationships are like business why dont most women wanna start out in the mail room ?

@BonitaChelz is cool, her along with @BillCosbyAteMyHomework are the only females on this site input I'd actually listen to and they give good advice as well.
 

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Before a man becomes exclusive with a female he should get himself to a place in life emotionally where he is ready and able to walk the minute a woman starts treating him wrong and not look back. He should be in that place where self respect and dignity is number one above all else, regardless of her looks, her sex game, if she's the hottest girl you ever seen. Too many men end up getting involved with women and then these women start acting weird or showing their true colours and then men are crushed and devastated and they put up with crap for way too long. A broad also needs to know that you are willing to leave if she ever mistreats you. AND you have to be true to this word, don't talk the talk then when she disrespects you, you allow her back in.

The best way to complete this task, is to build up your own life and then let a woman come to you. Focus your energy on hobbies, careers, friends, family, STUFF YOU LOVE AND WANT TO DO, etc. and the enregy you put out will naturally attract women and then you can decide who is worthy and who is not. Always allow a woman into your life from a position of fortitude instead of a position of desperation. By desperation I mean I was jsut cheated on, my girl just left me, i'm still not over my ex but i'm desperate and co dependant, a position of fortitude, strength is my life is fine going great, I don't need you, you can be a part of it but shrugs if your not. Make sure that she feels lucky for being in your life rather than you being grateful for her giving you the time of day.
 

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How we feel about long distance relationships?:leostare:

i've seen them work. I mentioned before one of my friends met a guy in jamaica at a resort where he worked, she travelled back and forth for a good time for like a week there, two months later a week there etc. there married now and she lives down there.

Everyone and every situation is different though,I've had a long distance relationship before, girl lived 3 hours away by car saw each other like like twice a month it wasn't bad we talked alot and every time we saw each other it was great as it was like 3-4 day spurts at a time, wasn't boring like some relationships can be when you see someone constantly, it didn't work out in the end but :ehh:

What may work for you may not for someone else, i think what has to be set is whether one prson will move closer or not, I don't think they can last long if there isnt a end game in sight .
 
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I think at 30 I dint have a heart that can be broken ...I almost expect women to say or do some goofy stuff. I love sitting out at the park just reflecting on my life . I still don't wanna get married or have have kids . I'm not inspired by women like how men in the olden days was that is my belief on why so many great inventions was created cause men was inspired by the women that was holding everything else down . I'm still going to shake things up come late January and that because I wanna document certainthings about women and become a better writer. At this stage of life all I care about is self improvement GOD and mastering the 24 hours that I live day by day .
 

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Brehs do y'all think females say no when you ask for the number when they really want you to have it?

I went to the smokeshop today and it was just me and this big booty Hispanic chick.
She was giving me signs: leaning in over the counter Damn near in my face while we talk, giggling repeatedly and when I'm looking somewhere else she's still looking at me.

I ended up asking for her number later and she laughed and said she can't. I'm like FORREAL? And when she said yeah I said ITS ALL GOOD and started talking about the problem I had with this hookah I bought.

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Brehs do y'all think females say no when you ask for the number when they really want you to have it?

I went to the smokeshop today and it was just me and this big booty Hispanic chick.
She was giving me signs: leaning in over the counter Damn near in my face while we talk, giggling repeatedly and when I'm looking somewhere else she's still looking at me.

I ended up asking for her number later and she laughed and said she can't. I'm like FORREAL? And when she said yeah I said ITS ALL GOOD and started talking about the problem I had with this hookah I bought.

:yeshrug:

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sounds like another attention seeking bytch..

reminds me one night when i was out clubbing, i picked up this hoe, was making out and grinding with her, then when i ask for the # she's like i got a bf.. and showed me a bunch of messages between them :mjlol:

these hoes will do anything man .
 

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sounds like another attention seeking bytch..

reminds me one night when i was out clubbing, i picked up this hoe, was making out and grinding with her, then when i ask for the # she's like i got a bf.. and showed me a bunch of messages between them :mjlol:

these hoes will do anything man .

As if she was worried about dude from the jump.

Females always give you play all the way up til you ask for the number then they on some :whoa:
 

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When a girl tell you she has an std that could potentially kill her :mjcry:...............
 

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sounds like another attention seeking bytch..

reminds me one night when i was out clubbing, i picked up this hoe, was making out and grinding with her, then when i ask for the # she's like i got a bf.. and showed me a bunch of messages between them :mjlol:

these hoes will do anything man .

That's happened to me a few times and I'm always left with...

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Some of these women really just plain ass heartless..
 

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Brehs do y'all think females say no when you ask for the number when they really want you to have it?

I went to the smokeshop today and it was just me and this big booty Hispanic chick.
She was giving me signs: leaning in over the counter Damn near in my face while we talk, giggling repeatedly and when I'm looking somewhere else she's still looking at me.

I ended up asking for her number later and she laughed and said she can't. I'm like FORREAL? And when she said yeah I said ITS ALL GOOD and started talking about the problem I had with this hookah I bought.

:yeshrug:

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women love attention its their currency, jst playing or flirting wiht a guy knowing that they still got it is what some want

just the same as girls on dating sites and tinder who dont want to meet up or anything its just a self estem booster
 
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