Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Past few months I've been sticking to myself cuz I have things I want to accomplish.
*moving out of town, getting a car, etc*

I don't see how some of y'all keep worrying about women. I get on the bus and walk through society and pay attention to my phone. fukk trying to worry about some chick. Ain't like one gone help me get a car.

Getting a chick is like having another job and a chick not gone pay me so I don't want multiple jobs.

I feel good.

 

[MikelArteta]

Past few months I've been sticking to myself cuz I have things I want to accomplish.
*moving out of town, getting a car, etc*

I don't see how some of y'all keep worrying about women. I get on the bus and walk through society and pay attention to my phone. fukk trying to worry about some chick. Ain't like one gone help me get a car.

Getting a chick is like having another job and a chick not gone pay me so I don't want multiple jobs.

I feel good.

co dependency, some people just have to have a woman. Just like that chick out there whose always in a relationship with someone. I mean having a great woman is great by your side. But I can think of all teh women i've messed with in my life and most have been crappy not great.

There is no rush brehs there will ALWAYS be women.

 

[kevm3]

Past few months I've been sticking to myself cuz I have things I want to accomplish.
*moving out of town, getting a car, etc*

I don't see how some of y'all keep worrying about women. I get on the bus and walk through society and pay attention to my phone. fukk trying to worry about some chick. Ain't like one gone help me get a car.

Getting a chick is like having another job and a chick not gone pay me so I don't want multiple jobs.

I feel good.

That's really the best gameplan you can follow. If you find a decent woman, cool, but focus on other things in life that you can actually control. Constantly stressing and worrying about women when they ain't worried about you is a waste of time. When you stop becoming needy for the attention of women and just let them come when they do, a whole lot of stress disappears

 

[MikelArteta]

That's really the best gameplan you can follow. If you find a decent woman, cool, but focus on other things in life that you can actually control. Constantly stressing and worrying about women when they ain't worried about you is a waste of time. When you stop becoming needy for the attention of women and just let them come when they do, a whole lot of stress disappears

yep thing is most women ain't thinking of you the way you are of them, your over here worrying what she's doing, what she thinking how to impress, and she's texting 10 other dudes back and forth.

 

[MikelArteta]

That's really the best gameplan you can follow. If you find a decent woman, cool, but focus on other things in life that you can actually control. Constantly stressing and worrying about women when they ain't worried about you is a waste of time. When you stop becoming needy for the attention of women and just let them come when they do, a whole lot of stress disappears

yep thing is most women ain't thinking of you the way you are of them, your over here worrying what she's doing, what she thinking how to impress, and she's texting 10 other dudes back and forth.

 

[The Frozen One]

yep thing is most women ain't thinking of you the way you are of them, your over here worrying what she's doing, what she thinking how to impress, and she's texting 10 other dudes back and forth.

but so true ... it's kinda disgusting . and you aint' even know what's going on unless you smarten up.

 

[MikelArteta]

but so true ... it's kinda disgusting . and you aint' even know what's going on unless you smarten up.

one of the smartest things i ever did was not have any social media accounts but knowing ever girls instagram, fb etc.

It's tremendous what you can find out.

Chick getting distant, barely talking to you
"oh i've been so busy this past week with work, barely looked at my phone"

checks instagram see it updated ith photos left and right, checks facebook every day liking a new photo but you can't send a text

 

[The Frozen One]

one of the smartest things i ever did was not have any social media accounts but knowing ever girls instagram, fb etc.

It's tremendous what you can find out.

Chick getting distant, barely talking to you
"oh i've been so busy this past week with work, barely looked at my phone"

checks instagram see it updated ith photos left and right, checks facebook every day liking a new photo but you can't send a text

i've stopped using facebook (still active but don't use it at all), and just learned how to use instagram.. and after a year i figured you can find out who likes what photos, basically you can stalk your followers.. i wish i didn't know.

 

[MikelArteta]

i've stopped using facebook (still active but don't use it at all), and just learned how to use instagram.. and after a year i figured you can find out who likes what photos, basically you can stalk your followers.. i wish i didn't know.

i have a facebook just to check up on people.

I dont have a instagram but I use it for the same thing, same with twitter.
Girls will spill everything on those sits and tell you something else

 

[Fatboi1]

one of the smartest things i ever did was not have any social media accounts but knowing ever girls instagram, fb etc.

It's tremendous what you can find out.

Chick getting distant, barely talking to you
"oh i've been so busy this past week with work, barely looked at my phone"

checks instagram see it updated ith photos left and right, checks facebook every day liking a new photo but you can't send a text

Chick couldn't even contact me when I gave her my number. I'm sitting here like " She must not have logged in for....*Sees her with new profile pic and comments*"


shyt sucks. She's a friend of a chick that used to like me a while ago.

 

[MikelArteta]

Chick couldn't even contact me when I gave her my number. I'm sitting here like " She must not have logged in for....*Sees her with new profile pic and comments*"


shyt sucks. She's a friend of a chick that used to like me a while ago.

lol same thing happaned to me breh, chick would talk to me all the time, sudden'y she's "busy", but liking a bunch of photos on fb ( you dont have to be a friend to see this), got a new instagram photo etc.

im thankful for stuff like this though, because its confirmation. Number deleted and won't say anyting again.

 

[The Frozen One]

lol same thing happaned to me breh, chick would talk to me all the time, sudden'y she's "busy", but liking a bunch of photos on fb ( you dont have to be a friend to see this), got a new instagram photo etc.

im thankful for stuff like this though, because its confirmation. Number deleted and won't say anyting again.

what happens if/when the girl calls you out on it.. "how come you didn't message me?, you got mad because i didn't reply" etc etc..

 

[Fatboi1]

lol same thing happaned to me breh, chick would talk to me all the time, sudden'y she's "busy", but liking a bunch of photos on fb ( you dont have to be a friend to see this), got a new instagram photo etc.

im thankful for stuff like this though, because its confirmation. Number deleted and won't say anyting again.

I never eeen got the number in the first place .

Seeing my little sanaa lathan reply back to me had me feeling

.


Convo was smooth, I slid her the digits and told her to hit me up later. She's like "Ok I'll try to ".

I'm all .

Not a peep. "Maybe she's scared.."

I send her a message trying to strike up a convo with a simple "wassup?".
No answer.

Checked her FB and she's on with a new pic and plenty of likes and comments.

 

[MikelArteta]

I never eeen got the number in the first place .

Seeing my little sanaa lathan reply back to me had me feeling

.


Convo was smooth, I slid her the digits and told her to hit me up later. She's like "Ok I'll try to ".

I'm all .

Not a peep. "Maybe she's scared.."

I send her a message trying to strike up a convo with a simple "wassup?".
No answer.

Checked her FB and she's on with a new pic and plenty of likes and comments.

that ether

but at least you know to not contact her again.

i simped last week, chick got distant didn't talk to me for a week so i broke my rules and said a hey, of course got the oh ive been so busy bla bla, but she's updating her fb and instagram every day (of course she doesn't know I know this), started talking to me again only lasted two days then stopped and its been like 4 days now no messages, I deleted her number and ain't looking back again. I mean I already knew from past experience what would happen either she doesn't reply or she replies wiht some bs and then gets distant again but sometimes the confirmation is what you need to say f it.

 

[Fatboi1]

that ether

but at least you know to not contact her again.

i simped last week, chick got distant didn't talk to me for a week so i broke my rules and said a hey, of course got the oh ive been so busy bla bla, but she's updating her fb and instagram every day (of course she doesn't know I know this), started talking to me again only lasted two days then stopped and its been like 4 days now no messages, I deleted her number and ain't looking back again.

Only reason I even attempted to say something back is because my cousin told me to try since that's how he got his girl but fukk it.

This other chick though... It's been what 7 days since she said she'll call me back. I'm assuming my EX probably told her that she's not speaking to me no more so she probably felt like not hitting me up either. That one I fukked up badly. I pretty much had the chances to smash her guts for 3 years and I didn't. I just kept going on and off with her.