Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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shyt is dry as hell for me right now.
what my breh @EA said. If a girl really likes you, she'll hit you up, ask you when ya'll chilling, etc...basically making it easy and more natural for ya'll. Fukk going against the grain :childplease:

you chase women to a point where you make your intentions known to her and she either accepts it or not. You cease chasing after this point and its important you don't go beyond this point because if she didn't accept you when you were straight up, she ain't gonna like you 20 texts/phone convo's later. On that note, do not mistake her texting you as her being necessarily interested...that means jack shyt. If she ain't making shyt known that she wants to chill, :camby:
Troof.
The last girl that used to mess with me always hit me up asking when we gonna chill. I only had to ask her the first time and each time after whenever I'd be dropping her off she'd ask me "So when am I going to see you again?".

One time she just called me randomly asking if she can come over and I hadn't even made plans to come see her.

Now??
Haven't spoke to her in like a month.
 
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what my breh @EA said. If a girl really likes you, she'll hit you up, ask you when ya'll chilling, etc...basically making it easy and more natural for ya'll. Fukk going against the grain :childplease:

you chase women to a point where you make your intentions known to her and she either accepts it or not. You cease chasing after this point and its important you don't go beyond this point because if she didn't accept you when you were straight up, she ain't gonna like you 20 texts/phone convo's later. On that note, do not mistake her texting you as her being necessarily interested...that means jack shyt. If she ain't making shyt known that she wants to chill, :camby:

my nikka

if you have to question if a female is feeling you she ain't.


trust me when you get that chick who is so into you, you'll never waste your time ever again on chicks who ain't, its a losing battle and a waste of time.
 

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shyt is dry as hell for me right now. I haven't gotten any azz in a couple

Troof.
The last girl that used to mess with me always hit me up asking when we gonna chill. I only had to ask her the first time and each time after whenever I'd be dropping her off she'd ask me "So when am I going to see you again?".

One time she just called me randomly asking if she can come over and I hadn't even made plans to come see her.

Now??
Haven't spoke to her in like a month.
Desert dikk is no joke... U know what sucks too.. When u don't get any ass for a good minute n then wen u finally so get some p*ssy, I'm tapping after maybe 10 mins :russ:
 

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my nikka

if you have to question if a female is feeling you she ain't.


trust me when you get that chick who is so into you, you'll never waste your time ever again on chicks who ain't, its a losing battle and a waste of time.
Yeah.. What emp said

After getting one whos down a 100 for you

You'll feel it in ur gut when they aren't really feeling u
 

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I really think as a man as you get older and become more experience with women you should develop what I call a sixth sense, I know when a woman's interest in waning, I know when to eject, I know when a woman is feeling me, or trying to friend zone or make me her "bf", or change me, or is "testing me". I know when she's getting distant thinking of dumping me, I can pick up the subtle remarks/comments of little things and know what she really means.

I'm never that "hey I haven't heard from you in awhile guy" or that "are you still into me?"

or is "there someone else" or adapting like a chameleon to rekindle interest and all that
 

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Yeah.. What emp said

After getting one whos down a 100 for you

You'll feel it in ur gut when they aren't really feeling u

Your life is basically a long list of law cases and you are the judge, you should follow the precedent cases, while every woman is different , many follow the same script in different situatiosn.
 

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I really think as a man as you get older and become more experience with women you should develop what I call a sixth sense, I know when a woman's interest in waning, I know when to eject, I know when a woman is feeling me, or trying to friend zone or make me her "bf", or change me, or is "testing me". I know when she's getting distant thinking of dumping me, I can pick up the subtle remarks/comments of little things and know what she really means.

I'm never that "hey I haven't heard from you in awhile guy" or that "are you still into me?"

or is "there someone else" or adapting like a chameleon to rekindle interest and all that

The 6th sense is a very underrated attribute that we don't really talk about amongst each other as men. I've noticed that girls aren't that hard to read if you know what to look for or if you give them enough rope for them to hang themselves with. It's all about asking (or not asking) the right questions.
 

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The 6th sense is a very underrated attribute that we don't really talk about amongst each other as men. I've noticed that girls aren't that hard to read if you know what to look for or if you give them enough rope for them to hang themselves with. It's all about asking (or not asking) the right questions.

women are very easy to read. Only times you can get "conned" is on a first date when shes smiling laughing, touching your leg then you ge the thanks no thanks text
 

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women are very easy to read. Only times you can get "conned" is on a first date when shes smiling laughing, touching your leg then you ge the thanks no thanks text

I've never had the first date problem but if there's any time to stop talking to a girl, it's after the first date. If she's intending to see me again, she can initiate contact.

Random: This might sound weird but when I'm just getting to know girls, I legitimately don't like the whole smiling & touching my hands and leg routine...especially if it's in a public setting. It feels forced and I've always looked at it as a way of a girl trying to establish their dominance in that particular situation.
 

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I've never had the first date problem but if there's any time to stop talking to a girl, it's after the first date. If she's intending to see me again, she can initiate contact.

Random: This might sound weird but when I'm just getting to know girls, I legitimately don't like the whole smiling & touching my hands and leg routine...especially if it's in a public setting. It feels forced and I've always looked at it as a way of a girl trying to establish their dominance in that particular situation.

I have but :ehh:, smarter now. And yeah right after a first date I delete the number, if a woman realyl likes you pride and "rules" are thrown out the window.

Not random at all, I don't do all that chumminess, nor do I do any pictures. I remmber I was with my ex fiance for 3 years and only had like 3 pictures together.
 

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This track breh describes exactly what we shouldn't be doing to these broads.
Giving em too much when they ain't ready to give back to you.
 

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I just take the addage until I know 100 percent and committed and did my due dillegence, whatever she tells me and whatever she does with me a bunch of other nukkaz are hearing and doing the same thing.
 

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Girl cancel me cuz she had shyt to do for her moms apparently :sas1:
Oh well bout to get this others' chick # off tinder right now and hopefully i can met her soon :sas2:


edit: welp just got it :shaq:
 
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I've never had the first date problem but if there's any time to stop talking to a girl, it's after the first date. If she's intending to see me again, she can initiate contact.

Random: This might sound weird but when I'm just getting to know girls, I legitimately don't like the whole smiling & touching my hands and leg routine...especially if it's in a public setting. It feels forced and I've always looked at it as a way of a girl trying to establish their dominance in that particular situation.

I have but :ehh:, smarter now. And yeah right after a first date I delete the number, if a woman realyl likes you pride and "rules" are thrown out the window.

Not random at all, I don't do all that chumminess, nor do I do any pictures. I remmber I was with my ex fiance for 3 years and only had like 3 pictures together.

im kind of the opposite i really dont care necessarily but i wont initiate that shyt really at all
i mean if we going to movie she grab my hand I'm like coo or she hook her arms into mine I'm straight

when she go more than that i look at her like if u gonna do that u might as well give it up in a sense i aint in that teasing shyt this aint high school :camby:

i dont delete number i just dont txt or call back at all when she starts the calling and texting i will respond only if i enjoyed my time with her

the affection shyt dont bother me majority i went on dates shyt when i think about every single one wanted that hold hands and other stuff i just obliged and gave it too them now dont get me wrong if i dont feel comfortable i wont do it all and there have been times where i didnt feel comfortable doing it so i wouldn't let them try but i was respectful about it at least
 
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