Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Shameonyou]

I dish out that SELF ETHER ON MYSELF
I have no problems telling my past and my L's so you guys can see my MISTAKES

If you see them maybe you wont make the same one's i do or your in the same situation and you read that and you learn to do the right thing from reading my stories

This thread is to help people and my past situations that ive been thru gives you a glimpse of my many mistakes

you did what you had to do, but if I was you I woulda wifed that breh

 

[T-K-G]

One thing i learned is sometimes the perfect woman to wife up and u know can end up being in the friend zone cuz of her actions

I knew this one chic she was paralegal, mom a RN, dad regional manager of MCDONALDS they had mad dough

she was ok looking but on the inside she was SHE WAS WHAT I WANTED IN A WOMAN.

I met her back in the day on aol chatroom we would chat it up and she was really feeling me she told me one day its time to meet and that she would come to my barracks in high heels in a robe with only underwear and panties and ready to fukk on site

SHE DID THAT EXACTLY NO JOKE i was like this is PARADISE

we would end up dating for months she had a kid too which i didnt mind DAD wasnt part of his life.

anyways we would kick it at her place and mines fukk all the time but something felt off really off and i couldnt put my finger on it till later

We were bout to have sex one day and i said I CANT. I started to realize she has everything i wanted in a woman but for some DAMN REASON I SEE HER AS FRIEND ONLY.

Somewhere down the line she got caught in my friend zone and i think why was cuz she felt too much like a homey instead of a lover

shyt had me mad as fukk that i felt that way cuz she had what i wanted but i couldnt shake off that FRIEND ZONE shyt i couldnt even fukk her no more thats how bad it was

She be that female i play madden and 2k with all the damn time and i think that also didnt help the case

i know i cant be the only one that has happen too

HERE IS THE KICKER.

A yr later she called me cuz she moved to florida and was getting paid 6 digits. She knew i was debating on getting out army. Said plz give us a try again.

I have a big house a maid and u aint gotta work u can just stay home with her son and she would spoil me rotten with money.

WHO SAYS NO TO THAT shyt


I DID FELLAS

Friend zone effect fukked me up

you right up there with Young L.A. and 40 Glocc for "L of the decade"

 

[twan83]

you right up there with Young L.A. and 40 Glocc for "L of the decade"

ANY MANY MORE L'S to come from my past

But i also got plenty of W's also

I want everybody to see and feel what i went thru im gonna keep it 100% real even if its show how much of A DUMBASS I WAS

 

[MikelArteta]

Can we get some different red flag situations up here? Cuz I be slipping sometimes, realizing that sh1t 2, 3 weeks after they happen.

I was out by a lake with this one girl, real peaceful... out the blue she asked me what I would do if someone try'd to kill us here, I gave her the and made a joke, if someone bout to kill us Imma throw u infront of him and run lol... Later I found out she hand a crazy ex stalking her ass

women will ask you questions out of the blue to play with your mind, like omg my friend is such a slut she sleeps around with all these guys = aka waiting for your reaction , because she has probably slept around with a bunch of guys in the past as well and shes wondering how you will handle it if you ever find out the truth

red flags are all over the place but if she looks hot a dude will look in the other way, some red flags if you add her to fb and she has a bunch of scandalous pictures and her at the club and a bunch of dudes on her fb

red flags as well ask a girl her longest relationship, if its short buyer beware, the last two girls i went out on dates with, ones longest relationship was 3 months and she was 23, and the other one who was 30 was only 6 months

 

[George Gooney]

women will ask you questions out of the blue to play with your mind, like omg my friend is such a slut she sleeps around with all these guys = aka waiting for your reaction , because she has probably slept around with a bunch of guys in the past as well and shes wondering how you will handle it if you ever find out the truth

red flags are all over the place but if she looks hot a dude will look in the other way, some red flags if you add her to fb and she has a bunch of scandalous pictures and her at the club and a bunch of dudes on her fb

red flags as well ask a girl her longest relationship, if its short buyer beware, the last two girls i went out on dates with, ones longest relationship was 3 months and she was 23, and the other one who was 30 was only 6 months

I know we may be beefing or whatever but i want your opinion on this since you seem knowledgable. I was out with a girl i been seeing for a few weeks and we were walking while i read sports stats on my phone and some dude walked by and she said "wow he's cute" i gave no reaction. i noticed though through the corner of my eye as she said it she looked at me to see how i'd respond and that bugged me...I recently deduced that she was trying to get attention and was willing to play childish games and she was no longer worth my time. I deleted her number and have been ignoring her texts for about 4 days. My friends say i went too hard on her but alot of them i would consider simps...What y'all think?

 

[T-K-G]

I know we may be beefing or whatever but i want your opinion on this since you seem knowledgable. I was out with a girl i been seeing for a few weeks and we were walking while i read sports stats on my phone and some dude walked by and she said "wow he's cute" i gave no reaction. i noticed though through the corner of my eye as she said it she looked at me to see how i'd respond and that bugged me...I recently deduced that she was trying to get attention and was willing to play childish games and she was no longer worth my time. I deleted her number and have been ignoring her texts for about 4 days. My friends say i went too hard on her but alot of them i would consider simps...What y'all think?

if simps think it's bad......then you made the right choice breh

 

[MikelArteta]

I know we may be beefing or whatever but i want your opinion on this since you seem knowledgable. I was out with a girl i been seeing for a few weeks and we were walking while i read sports stats on my phone and some dude walked by and she said "wow he's cute" i gave no reaction. i noticed though through the corner of my eye as she said it she looked at me to see how i'd respond and that bugged me...I recently deduced that she was trying to get attention and was willing to play childish games and she was no longer worth my time. I deleted her number and have been ignoring her texts for about 4 days. My friends say i went too hard on her but alot of them i would consider simps...What y'all think?

breh i got beef with no one, you were clowned i joined in and thats it, i got clowned for my gifs accepted it and moved on, i got love for everyone

now unto your situation.

everyone is different some dudes will say shrug and not even blink at something like that, dudes like you dudes like me take that as disrespect esp if it wasn't say a serious relationship, i would have taken the simps you would have.

always maintain your morals and principles, i keep telling folks men out there KNOW there girl or wife is cheating on them and they look the other way, so don';t listen to other simps.

I don't care if a chick finds other dudes attractive, hell when im in a relationship i still find other women attracted the difference is I won't disrespect someone by saying damn that girl is hot infront of my girl or even someone im casual dating, if someone did that to me, i wouldn't say anything right there and then i would do what you did ignore and get on with my life, no reason nothing

 

[twan83]

I know we may be beefing or whatever but i want your opinion on this since you seem knowledgable. I was out with a girl i been seeing for a few weeks and we were walking while i read sports stats on my phone and some dude walked by and she said "wow he's cute" i gave no reaction. i noticed though through the corner of my eye as she said it she looked at me to see how i'd respond and that bugged me...I recently deduced that she was trying to get attention and was willing to play childish games and she was no longer worth my time. I deleted her number and have been ignoring her texts for about 4 days. My friends say i went too hard on her but alot of them i would consider simps...What y'all think?

breh i got beef with no one, you were clowned i joined in and thats it, i got clowned for my gifs accepted it and moved on, i got love for everyone

now unto your situation.

everyone is different some dudes will say shrug and not even blink at something like that, dudes like you dudes like me take that as disrespect esp if it wasn't say a serious relationship, i would have taken the simps you would have.

always maintain your morals and principles, i keep telling folks men out there KNOW there girl or wife is cheating on them and they look the other way, so don';t listen to other simps.

I don't care if a chick finds other dudes attractive, hell when im in a relationship i still find other women attracted the difference is I won't disrespect someone by saying damn that girl is hot infront of my girl or even someone im casual dating, if someone did that to me, i wouldn't say anything right there and then i would do what you did ignore and get on with my life, no reason nothing

my boy reincar i always respect your opinions on females since you seem very knowlegdable as I am and what you said is 100% right

Im gonna piggyback what you said and say this. Any female that wants to check out a guy in front of you and compliment them too is WORTH CUTTING.

Thats plain disrespectful. Nothing wrong checking a guy out or thinking he hott but keep that shyt to yourself is what she should of done and not make it obvious she was checking him out so DAMN HARD. That also tells me she is likely to CHEAT TOO

You aint a simp for that your smart for not making a big deal which i would of but i know i would of later on talked to her and said hey thats straight disrespectful what you did to me and then cut her loose afterwards for those reasons so she knows why and that i aint that type of dude to be doing it too.

I like to say what i feel but i'll wait for the right moment and appropiate moment to do it.

 

[twan83]

This is my opinion but i feel any female that goes to the club all the damn time while she in a SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP aint worth keeping.

She shouldn't have too be going to club all the damn time with her girls. You give that shyt up and cut back and go every so often. You could be using that time to get to know your partner better, spend time and have fun together, not dancing and drinking with your GIRLS. A female doing that shows she aint ready to be committed she just wants to have FUN AND PARTY

Remember i said ALL THE DAMN TIME. Every so often is cool and i recommend it so she can spend time with her girls and the guy could with his boys or just chill alone get his VIDEO GAME ON OR SPORTS GAMES TO WATCH.

 

[MikelArteta]

This is my opinion but i feel any female that goes to the club all the damn time while she in a SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP aint worth keeping.

She shouldn't have too be going to club all the damn time with her girls. You give that shyt up and cut back and go every so often. You could be using that time to get to know your partner better, spend time and have fun together, not dancing and drinking with your GIRLS. A female doing that shows she aint ready to be committed she just wants to have FUN AND PARTY

Remember i said ALL THE DAMN TIME. Every so often is cool and i recommend it so she can spend time with her girls and the guy could with his boys or just chill alone get his VIDEO GAME ON OR SPORTS GAMES TO WATCH.

i wouldn't tolerate my girl going to a club even once.

 

[twan83]

i wouldn't tolerate my girl going to a club even once.

wouldn't blame you either

 

[MikelArteta]

i know girls will bring out the ":im just going out with my friends, were just going to dance":

yeah right, chicks go to clubs to get drinks from guys, dance in scantily clad clothing grinding up on random dudes, its the equivalent to me of a man saying im going to a strip club hunny just going to hang out with the guys, the environment is whats key

 

[twan83]

I mean this is just me

but i dont care if she does as long as it aint a habit. I know for the most part a female going out gonna drink, flirt and dance with a guy at the club but i dont dwell on that shyt either

It aint worth it. my thing has always been if she gonna go out and have fun cool but if she doing something at the club she aint suppose too. HER LOST NOT MINES WHEN I CUT HER ASS

I realize if you even try to prevent her from going to club and she does DISRESPECTFUL things while she is out at the club she gonna do it elsewhere even if she dont go to club anymore and YOU CANT PREVENT IT NO MATTER WHAT. its gonna happen eventually just a matter of WHEN

If a female gonna do shyt like that SHE AINT WORTH MY TIME PERIOD.

 

[Scotch Hall]

Props on all the stories have a n1gga on all this knowledge been lurking for a min and even posted awhile back.

but yeh don't know if this been posted but n1ggas gotta stop falling for these "pawgs" most of these girls going through a phrase where they wanna get off on us brothers. plus wassup most these girls and have bad hygiene

most likely it will never work out. sorry if I couldn't say it ina another way

 

[kevm3]

That was mad disrespectful what she did talking about another guy is cute in front of you. That just shows she has little concern for you. If you were with this woman you really felt, would you try pulling off something like that? Absolutely not. The only time you would try something like that is if you didn't particularly care much for that girl you were with or you got so comfortable you felt like you could disrespect her like that and get away with it.

That's my problem with a lot of these women these days. They bring the lowest common denominator in terms of behavior in the form of 'tests' to see what they can get away with and if you let them get away with it, they will keep on doing it until they lose disrespect for you and toss you to the side. They do that instead of coming into a relationship saying I want to be on my best behavior and do what it takes to really make this work. How can I avoid screwing up and how can I really avoid disrespecting this man I'm dealing with? That's like a guy joining the football team and looking to see how many practices he can get away with not attending and how many team meetings he can miss. You simply don't keep people with that sort of behavior around. Cut them. You try arguing with babygirl for her bad behavior and she'll try to flip the script on you and call you insecure. You let her do it with no reaction and she will keep on doing it until she leaves because 'she doesn't respect you enough.' Nobody needs to put up with that kind of nonsense.

NEVER listen to what simps do or say. If they disagree with you, that's a great thing. You got to be hard on these women unless you want to deal with a whole bunch of unnecessary nonsense. If she isn't making moves to bring joy into your life, don't let her in your life.