Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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guess who just messaged me? :heh::rudy:

u remember that chick from weeks ago that took a day to respond to a question i asked? :aicmon:

well she didn't show up to class today...her and her homegirl....so i had a feeling she was gonna message me especially since she doesn't talk to anyone in class apart from her friend.

I haven't spoken to her nor looked at her since that day and her number was deleted. Now she messages me "Hey! (some iphone blushing emoticon) how are you? i caught a nasty cold on saturday so i didn't have the energy to come in. Did i miss alot in class today?"

proper course of action brehs? My mind is on :childplease:but my d!ck is on :lupe:
 

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who cares? just answer the text, she's still hot right? maybe you'll fukk her
 

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The Fear of saying No


But but if I say no, another guy will say yes. And so? Respect and dignity above all!!


This is one way what veers men into difficulties in their relationships. Many men today have a gigantic trepidation of confrontation with a woman even when she is in the wrong. In turn this leads to appeasement and twisting each way for any fanatical impulse that they might have. What happens then is that women then tend to saunter all over them and any respect they might have had erodes and lack of respect = losing of attraction.

However battling and defeating this fear in the long run of not being afraid of saying no will help massively. When I discontinued being petrified to say no is when the whole enchilada improved for me. The strange thing is that is when women were much more interested to me and valued me much more.
 

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The Fear of saying No


But but if I say no, another guy will say yes. And so? Respect and dignity above all!!


This is one way what veers men into difficulties in their relationships. Many men today have a gigantic trepidation of confrontation with a woman even when she is in the wrong. In turn this leads to appeasement and twisting each way for any fanatical impulse that they might have. What happens then is that women then tend to saunter all over them and any respect they might have had erodes and lack of respect = losing of attraction.

However battling and defeating this fear in the long run of not being afraid of saying no will help massively. When I discontinued being petrified to say no is when the whole enchilada improved for me. The strange thing is that is when women were much more interested to me and valued me much more.
 

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The Fear of saying No


But but if I say no, another guy will say yes. And so? Respect and dignity above all!!


This is one way what veers men into difficulties in their relationships. Many men today have a gigantic trepidation of confrontation with a woman even when she is in the wrong. In turn this leads to appeasement and twisting each way for any fanatical impulse that they might have. What happens then is that women then tend to saunter all over them and any respect they might have had erodes and lack of respect = losing of attraction.

However battling and defeating this fear in the long run of not being afraid of saying no will help massively. When I discontinued being petrified to say no is when the whole enchilada improved for me. The strange thing is that is when women were much more interested to me and valued me much more.
 
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guess who just messaged me? :heh::rudy:

u remember that chick from weeks ago that took a day to respond to a question i asked? :aicmon:

well she didn't show up to class today...her and her homegirl....so i had a feeling she was gonna message me especially since she doesn't talk to anyone in class apart from her friend.

I haven't spoken to her nor looked at her since that day and her number was deleted. Now she messages me "Hey! (some iphone blushing emoticon) how are you? i caught a nasty cold on saturday so i didn't have the energy to come in. Did i miss alot in class today?"

proper course of action brehs? My mind is on :childplease:but my d!ck is on :lupe:

Since the number wasn't blocked( :ufdup:), just keep it honest, keep it short, and keep it moving. Don't get into any long ass text conversation with her about it.
 

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@Asantehene

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guess who just messaged me? :heh::rudy:

u remember that chick from weeks ago that took a day to respond to a question i asked? :aicmon:

well she didn't show up to class today...her and her homegirl....so i had a feeling she was gonna message me especially since she doesn't talk to anyone in class apart from her friend.

I haven't spoken to her nor looked at her since that day and her number was deleted. Now she messages me "Hey! (some iphone blushing emoticon) how are you? i caught a nasty cold on saturday so i didn't have the energy to come in. Did i miss alot in class today?"

proper course of action brehs? My mind is on :childplease:but my d!ck is on :lupe:


I'd just keep it civil you never know if your going to miss a day and you may need to ask her
 

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Since the number wasn't blocked( :ufdup:), just keep it honest, keep it short, and keep it moving. Don't get into any long ass text conversation with her about it.

I'd just keep it civil you never know if your going to miss a day and you may need to ask her

all i said was nah. He just wrapped up this presentation and started with a new one. Now she like, ugh its a headache to miss this class. :beli:
 

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all i said was nah. He just wrapped up this presentation and started with a new one. Now she like, ugh its a headache to miss this class. :beli:

If you had options you wouldn't care about how you respond breh. If shes just another one then be natural, if she comes around cool, if not you blowing 3,4 other chics back out. or ATLEAST engaging in convo where you know you got them guts.

I tried giving my attention to just one person, but they're not worth all of that man. Keep livin'
 

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but yo @Atlrocafella and @Emperor_ReinScarf this shyt always seems to happen brehs....why?

I think a chick be feelin me or i go after a chick, they reject it or get wishy-washy, so i dead them altogether...don't smile, text, talk to again. But they always do something down the road like what shorty did...either thru text or in person.

I remember this venuzuelan chick 3 years ago. Me and my nikka at the time was clownin on her ...and nikkaz used to SIMP for shorty extra hard...like carry her books, etc. it was ridiculous. Anyways, that day, i guess she got offended eventhough we was fukkin around with her....so i walk up to class with her, put my arm around her and ask if she mad at me like :lolbron:and shorty shrugs my arm off her like :childplease:...so i was like :dwillhuh:...so its like that yeah? aight. :mjpls:

gave her the same treatment and it was sooo obvious cuz she'd be talkin to my nikkaz while i was there and never said anything to me and i'd do the same. But come finals, i'm sitting in front of my nikka choppin it in the gym...and look who comes to sit right next to me? :stopitslime:acting like shyt cool and all :usure:....so i did what any ruthless nikka did and asked her for answers and lied about mine :jawalrus:and later on when we all left she jumped on me talmbout...yooo azzanova, thanks for trying to help me..it was soo hard, yada yada. Anyways, long story short..i seen shorty on campus couple times after that throughout the year until i left, and not once did i say a word to her. I even remember she came to the computer lab one day, was about to sit a computer away from me and when i got up to leave she started talkin to my homegirl...we looked at each other for like 12 seconds, i didn't smile, say wassup or nada. Gave her a :aicmon: and just walked right past her.
 
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