Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Honestly its true what kevm and others say, women are out there acting like there into you, yet talking to 50 other guys, going on dates weekly, sleeping around left and right but stringing you along.
The average woman nowadays its like a 100 meter race with 5 heats, you may think your winning but you just want a heat them there's another obstacle another heat and another and another till maybe if your lucky you reach the podium and she decides between and another nukka.
Is it worth it? To me its not.
The average woman nowadays its like a 100 meter race with 5 heats, you may think your winning but you just want a heat them there's another obstacle another heat and another and another till maybe if your lucky you reach the podium and she decides between and another nukka.
Is it worth it? To me its not.
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Brehs give this a read @KravenMorehead™ wrote this in another thread and i was
at this. Its a long read but well worth it. I think he did a great job of explaining the man/woman dynamic without it sounding like diatribe.
Men and women are the human embodiment of the masculine and feminine principle respectively. At the baseline though we're both human. same skin tissue, same bone structure, same senses, same muscles, same capacity for intellect. Neither is inferior or superior to the other in this regard. The only immediately discernable difference between the two genders/sexes is in our reproductive systems. That's it.
Now, take man-made stuff off the board and insert a male and female in nature.
The male's body (all organs) is designed to interact aggressively with nature, nature including not just the surrounding environment and other species, but other human beings. This does not make him superior to the female; it is simply his function. It has the same capacity to interact passively with nature as the female does, but this is not masculine.
The female's body (all organs) is designed to interact passively with nature, including other human beings. This does not make it superior to the male; it is simply her function. It has the same capacity to interact aggressively with nature as the male, but this is not feminine.
remember that I said femininity and masculinity does not start with human beings, we simply embody those principles, so the above statements are not an insult, or an attack on the female or the male.
Now, as far as interaction with nature goes, the masculine interacts with nature aggressively. it is the nature of masculinity to do so and nature designed it that way on purpose. We see it in the human male when it is born. And is to happens that masculine solves problems by attacking them. if a man were to see lets say a mouse, and run away from it, every female in the room, no matter how she identifies herself(feminist or no), would instantly regard him as feminine, as non-masculine. It is not masculine to solve problems by averting them. If in the same scenario the man were to IMMEDIATELY lunge at the mouse and kill it with efficiency, the females in the room would regard his masculinity as higher than they did before the scenario. Masculinity is defined by the efficiency with which you are able to achieve your desires, with mastery of whatever environment you surround yourself with. If you think of anytime a female is turned on by a man's actions, any situation where a chick senses masculinty and becomes aroused, you'll notice the former sentence (mastery of one's surrounding environment through active/aggresive interaction) in play. A man on a basketball court dominating the opposition. A mechanic fixing an automotive problem with ease where every other man was confused. A man entering an establishment and having the employees immediately at his beck and call. Masculine solves problems by attacking them
The female may interact aggressively with nature as well. But her biology limits that, not only by physiological design, but reproductive processes. Aggressive interaction with nature incites friction on high level, which on a larger scale is referred to by humanity as "violence." and a woman can only defend herself against violence in circumstances where her physiology and reproductive cycle doesn't inhibit her. So in nature, a female may incite violence and be able to defend itself against violence up until say, her menstruation cycle kicks in, or she becomes pregnant. Then she runs the liability of the enemies she's created killing her when she's at her weakest. Men can also be caught slipping, but the risk is much smaller. Does this make femininity inferior to masculinity? fukk no. It is simply yin and yang. (this is what most men and women are miseducated on, and it this ignorance is the source of chauvinism(and feminism, which is the logistical counterpoint to chauvinism but both were invented by the same people for the purpose of social engineering.)) Femininity interacts with nature on a slower friction level, or slower vibration level. Remember that I've taken human-invented devices and institutions off the board, and I haven't stated any difference in intellectual capacity. Feminine solves problems by averting them.
Now let's move to the psychological level. With the male, problems are solved on a regular basis by attacking them. In order to be of that aggressive disposition successfully and on a regular basis(i.e. to be able to survive until you die a natural death of old age), you need to focus on the big picture. And that perception, that way of looking at things, gets internalized as the male grows older, and manifests itself fully in male behavior, where everything from how a man thinks to how men act is an extension of that. Masculine perception is macro.
With the female, problems are solved by averting them. Here's the thing; in order to solve problems successfully and on a regular basis by averting them, you have to see those problems coming before they hit. In order to see problems coming before they hit, you have to pay attention to detail. And that perception gets internalized and manifests itself fully in the female, and every thing from how a woman thinks to how women act is an extension of being detail oriented. Feminine perception is micro.
Masculine manipulates by aggressive interaction with the opposite sex(macro). The macro is obvious and in-your-face. If a man wants to know a secret for example, or follow a hunch, he'll be upfront and ask directly. You'll often hear of a woman feeling coerced into doing something by way of physical intimidation(aggression).
Feminine manipulates by passive interaction with the opposite sex(micro). Let's say a woman wants to follow a hunch, or find out the truth about some information she got through gossip. She'll start a seemingly random conversation, and drop subliminal references in the conversation, keeping the conversation going long enough for the subliminal word or phrase to be cloaked in the middle, but observe the response or physiological response to the subliminal. Because masculine perception is macro, subtext, subtlety, innuendo, red herrings (all which are details and fall under feminine perception, the small picture, the micro) go over the man's head. And it so happens that the "conversation" is a litmus test that the woman uses to determine the validity of the information she desires to confirm.
This is how masculinity and femininity manifest in human beings psychologically, and it accounts for all differences in behavior. It is why when a man and a woman go out on a date, the female will wear a dress with all kind of details like sequins and such, jewellery etc, whereas the dude will have on a plain dress shirt. It is why women do what men equate to "beating around the bush" when they are communicating with men. It is why a woman will be excited with her interaction with a guy (subtext /flirting(romance from the feminine perspective)/ micro), and then the dude says something direct(macro) - "so when are you gonna let me hit
" and blows the chick's high
Because things ceased to be subtle and became more direct, when she would've let him hit if he had kept the subtlety going a little longer till her emotions got to the right point.
Speaking of emotions, emotions are energy in motion — in other words, molecules vibrating in a specific pattern based on what his/her senses are percieving from nature, thus influencing a human to restructure his/her behavior to suit the change in the environment, for present and future survival. We are socialized to believe that "men are logical, and women are emotional", and individuals from both sexes use that falsehood for manipulation purposes when it suits them, but it's a falsehood; an oversimplification at best. Saying men are logical and women are emotional is like saying men have arms and women have legs. Men often get angry; anger is an emotion. It takes logic for a woman to successfully marry a man she doesn't care for and divorce him for his money without him figuring it out. The truth is that both women and men are logical, and both women and men are emotional. The difference is, because masculine perception is based on the macro, masculine emotions are widespread and bombastic, like a bomb going off, because it is responding to a perception of the big picture. whereas feminine emotion is detailed and ornate, because being subtext-oriented there's a thousand different extras she's percieving at once. When it comes to logic, masculine logic, in a debate for example, will focus on the big picture(macro), whereas feminine logic will focus on subtext(micro). This is why a lady will get angry at her man for being nice to another woman at a function/event, because men not being subtextually inclined by nature may not realize that the woman was flirting with him, and by communicating back to that woman he was completing the circuit, so if she was flirting specifically to piss said lady off(which will go over his head as well) she succeeded, and he was a cooperant force, although unknowingly. This is also why a guy may list certain problems he has with female behavior(big picture allthough his macro perception may be false), and the woman only percieves his words in subtext allthough her subtextual interpretation may be false (nikka must not get any p*ssy if he got this much to complain about).
What romance actually is, is communicating to the opposite sex in their own "language", if you will.
When a woman communicates femininity(micro) (from appearance to her behavior with him), to a man, she entices him on the primal level(sexually). When she communicates masculinity(macro) though, she entices him on a psychological level, i.e. his soul will become animated because she is speaking his language as a man. That is romance. This is why when a girlfriend behaves like one of the guys in certain cirumstances, her man will over time increase in desire to be around her and keep her on the team. This is how men work on an animal level. The problem is men are miseducated from childhood to percieve the feminine in an inferior way, which makes men forgo compatibility with the opposite sex, in search of animal desires, due to ego taking over.
When a man communicates masculinity(macro), whether it's via appearance or his behavior with her, he will entice a woman on the primal level(sexually). When he communicates femininity to her (the detail in his choice of words, the subtlety with which he looks at her, touches her, etc) it will animate her because women being the human embodiment of the feminine principle are detail oriented. This is romance. This is how women work on an animal level. This is why women lose themselves in music, it is why, luxury being in the details/production values of a thing, women are attracted to luxury more than men. You take a woman out to dinner, you meet her, bring her out to the car and it's a luxury car with detail and she becomes excited, she enters the 5-star restaurant and sees the detail in the restaurant's layout/design and becomes animated, you take her on a vacation to another country and she sees the detail, etc. Men are socialized to percieve a woman's attraction to luxury as a negative and although women can marry a guy they don't care for/see no symmetry with and that is a negative, men are miseducated that a woman's attraction to luxury in of itself is proof of her being a golddigger, when that simply isn't the case. It's when a woman forgoes mental compatibility in search of those things(i.e. submits to her animal desires due to ego, as opposed to making decisions on a higher level) that she becomes a golddigger.
The problem is that those that control this era of human society socialise the human sexes to misunderstand each other; to perceive the opposite sex as inferior in regards to intellect, due to these differences. and When you percieve something to be unequal to you IN ANY REGARD(physical, mental, biological, social rank, status), and by EVEN THE SLIGHTEST MARGIN, you will not apply rules of conduct both ways. This why the dating is a cesspool of bullshyt on both sides. It's the result of purposeful social engineering at the higher economic level by those in power. (Those same people whose race black people are socialized to have the desire to mate and breed with, no disrespect to my multiracial brothers and sisters, because everything happens for a reason. Miscegenation is essential to keeping black people asleep and unaware of our true nature as we are the immune system of the planet; we keep it in check, and we brought the understanding of the planet to the other younger races. If we were to wake up, the bullshyt will be over. But that's for another thread.)
Men are socialized to perceive the behavioral differences in women as a testament to female intellectual inferiority and male intellectual superiority.
Women are socialized to percieve the behavioral differences in men as a testament to male intellectual inferiority and female intellectual superiority(albeit behind closed doors).
But neither conclusions are correct, it is simply the yin and yang of nature manifesting itself. And if men and women were to be properly educated on this, not only would the majority of relationship problems disappear overnight, but chauvinism and feminism would dissappear, because they would have no reason to exist. But this miseducation by those that control society is why each gender forgoes intellectual compatibility in search of things that entice us. And this is why the problems with the sexes exist.
I agree with most in this post.
. shyt was long though had to bookmark and come back to it the next day.
at the analogy
Men have to get rid of this ideology of women acting the way their mothers did, or at least women of that generation acted. Kev was right and to a degree reincar is right but if anything they're acting like "typical" men 
I wouldn't suggest men not be nice and respectful, you dont have to be a dikk to get the woman you want. Playing those games dont mean much, they'll just go to the next dikk like we'll go to the next woman. The good guys out there just need to hold less stock in a woman (p*ssy on a pedestal), maintain options and keep it real at all times. If something feels off then it probably is.
Find women in your lane. Don't mold for a woman unless you're just acting a certain way to fukk then leave, but when you do that, you wonder why women act how they act now. Keep it fun and dont put all your eggs in one basket.
This message is for simps and guys who are a little too nice but realize the nice girls you get aren't that attractive.
I wouldn't suggest men not be nice and respectful, you dont have to be a dikk to get the woman you want. Playing those games dont mean much, they'll just go to the next dikk like we'll go to the next woman. The good guys out there just need to hold less stock in a woman (p*ssy on a pedestal), maintain options and keep it real at all times. If something feels off then it probably is.
Find women in your lane. Don't mold for a woman unless you're just acting a certain way to fukk then leave, but when you do that, you wonder why women act how they act now. Keep it fun and dont put all your eggs in one basket.
This message is for simps and guys who are a little too nice but realize the nice girls you get aren't that attractive.
Observe Actions not Words
When an individual illustrates to you the real them, believe them.
A person who uses persuasive words without carrying out the definition is just a gift card with a $0.00 balance. They may look the part and say the right things however there is no value. Individuals will articulate all sorts of words and phrases; principally about the way they feel many times not matching up to their actions. It’s very effortless to get wedged in the web of words of flattery, promises and excitement. However it is paramount not to get tied down by what persons may express to you but as an alternative to concentrate on what they demonstrate in actions to you who they are. For the reason that the mind can easily be swindled by charming expressions that can lead to misinterpretation of signs that at times are wide of the mark. The heart is led by emotions not logic and looking at situations emotionally will have you overriding the feeling in your gut that is seldom inaccurate. If a well dressed individual with a charismatic personality and a sob story approached you on the street selling you a $100.00 gift card for $30.00 yourmind may be swindled by the outward appearance and inviting personality, your heart may be deceived by the sob story; but in your gut you will know it’s too good to be true.
When an individual illustrates to you the real them, believe them.
A person who uses persuasive words without carrying out the definition is just a gift card with a $0.00 balance. They may look the part and say the right things however there is no value. Individuals will articulate all sorts of words and phrases; principally about the way they feel many times not matching up to their actions. It’s very effortless to get wedged in the web of words of flattery, promises and excitement. However it is paramount not to get tied down by what persons may express to you but as an alternative to concentrate on what they demonstrate in actions to you who they are. For the reason that the mind can easily be swindled by charming expressions that can lead to misinterpretation of signs that at times are wide of the mark. The heart is led by emotions not logic and looking at situations emotionally will have you overriding the feeling in your gut that is seldom inaccurate. If a well dressed individual with a charismatic personality and a sob story approached you on the street selling you a $100.00 gift card for $30.00 yourmind may be swindled by the outward appearance and inviting personality, your heart may be deceived by the sob story; but in your gut you will know it’s too good to be true.
Good advice breh
Men have to get rid of this ideology of women acting the way their mothers did, or at least women of that generation acted. Kev was right and to a degree reincar is right but if anything they're acting like "typical" men
I wouldn't suggest men not be nice and respectful, you dont have to be a dikk to get the woman you want. Playing those games dont mean much, they'll just go to the next dikk like we'll go to the next woman. The good guys out there just need to hold less stock in a woman (p*ssy on a pedestal), maintain options and keep it real at all times. If something feels off then it probably is.
Find women in your lane. Don't mold for a woman unless you're just acting a certain way to fukk then leave, but when you do that, you wonder why women act how they act now. Keep it fun and dont put all your eggs in one basket.
This message is for simps and guys who are a little too nice but realize the nice girls you get aren't that attractive.
I take the other side though in terms of having a roster or a bullpen. I don't care to mainly because
1) I believe in putting out / reaping what you sow. If I'm living a life of juggling 5 different women etc. Why should I expect to find a good woman that is only interested in me. If I sleep around with every Becky, Isabelle and Rebecca why should I expect a noj promiscuous women?
2) my options are me , I'm content not needing or having a woman. I've lived the life of having 100 women in my phone constant phone calls and texts. I've also lived the life of having nothing no phone calls no text messages only women I speak to is my mom and sister. My options are myself anytime I care to put myself out there I can get a woman.
I'm not bashing anyone or judging anyone for their choices, just giving my viewpoint on why I'm the way I am.
1) I believe in putting out / reaping what you sow. If I'm living a life of juggling 5 different women etc. Why should I expect to find a good woman that is only interested in me. If I sleep around with every Becky, Isabelle and Rebecca why should I expect a noj promiscuous women?
2) my options are me , I'm content not needing or having a woman. I've lived the life of having 100 women in my phone constant phone calls and texts. I've also lived the life of having nothing no phone calls no text messages only women I speak to is my mom and sister. My options are myself anytime I care to put myself out there I can get a woman.
I'm not bashing anyone or judging anyone for their choices, just giving my viewpoint on why I'm the way I am.
I think you misinterpret the idea about rosters, at least by what I mean.
You can have a roster, but it doesn't have to be an ACTIVE roster. I can have my lady, but also know there are a few other ladies that have potential and you can remain cordial and relatively cool with.
If you're in a relationship, enjoy it, but if it starts to end or you see a lot of the BS starting to pop up, I rather be the nicca to cut ties and enjoy my time with someone I was already familiar with, than to be the nicca screaming outside of a car about how some chick used to be my cinnamon Apple and getting worldstarred for the world to laugh at.
Nah I know the idea, like I said I'm at the point in my life where I can walk away from any chick and not be crying or feeling down or battling anything.
If I'm in a relationship and things pop up I don't like im gone. I don't need to text or call a just in case chick .
Like I said I'm not judging or hating on the techniques anyone uses.
If I'm in a relationship and things pop up I don't like im gone. I don't need to text or call a just in case chick .
Like I said I'm not judging or hating on the techniques anyone uses.
On a tangent, something that feels great is just removing yourself from that consumer mindset and learning to save money. You never know when a huge expenditure can come up and it is a relief to have at least some sort of 'fallback' fund if you hate your job.
As you get older, you realize the value of having cash in the hand as opposed to all kinds of fancy clothes or a fancy car. If you're young, get out of the mind of spending it as soon as you get it and learn to tuck a portion of it away. You'll be very thankful to have it when you need it.
As you get older, you realize the value of having cash in the hand as opposed to all kinds of fancy clothes or a fancy car. If you're young, get out of the mind of spending it as soon as you get it and learn to tuck a portion of it away. You'll be very thankful to have it when you need it.
I was thinking of what kevm3 said about think of all the women in your life and all the things you did for them etc. and where are they now.
So I'll just think of my 5 relationships (no order)
1. my ex fiance - haven't spoken to her in nearly 7 years, got married and divorced, was my first "love", first sexual experience, first heartbreak
2. native american chick I dated for like 5 months, said she loved me, dumped me when I had my ulcer then found out later she was writing long love letters to brehs, she sent me a long facebook message how I was in her dreams bla bla bla - haven't spoken to her since 2009 - shes now married with two kids
3. Second girl I loved - was a little demon cutting her out of my life was probably the best decision I ever made, got engaged to the dude she cheated on me with but that engagement ended, havent spoken to her in nearly a year and wont ever again
4. another brehette I dated was a trust fund baby dad owned a audi dealership loaded with cash, spoiled me crazy but I felt nothing for her no attraction nothing, basically i was just with her cuz she was rich and she helped me get over my ex. I actually sorta started to like her but she wanted to club and drink last time i talked her she drunk dialed me and said she was pregnant and it was mine and then said i'm a a$$hole and like every other guy, i actually got so scared like months later im out stalking her work to see if she had a baby bump
. She attempted to make contact but I never replied - more than likely crazy and single
5. chick i was dating for like 5 months everything was going great then she just stopped making contact said f it then and withdrawled , popped up 6 months later (posted the texts somewhere in thsi thread)
but yeah like kevm3 said all these women told me they cared about me and loved me and all that bla bla rah rah ish, none are around anymore, once the novelty wore off packed their bags and went elsewhere or were so crazy or decided to crawl back cuz the grass wasn't greener :kony:
That's why it's true focus on other things 99% of these chicks are just seasonal whether here for a few dates, months, years until they get bored or find someone else to give em "tingles" and that new car smell.
So I'll just think of my 5 relationships (no order)
1. my ex fiance - haven't spoken to her in nearly 7 years, got married and divorced, was my first "love", first sexual experience, first heartbreak
2. native american chick I dated for like 5 months, said she loved me
, dumped me when I had my ulcer then found out later she was writing long love letters to brehs, she sent me a long facebook message how I was in her dreams bla bla bla - haven't spoken to her since 2009 - shes now married with two kids3. Second girl I loved - was a little demon cutting her out of my life was probably the best decision I ever made, got engaged to the dude she cheated on me with but that engagement ended, havent spoken to her in nearly a year and wont ever again
4. another brehette I dated was a trust fund baby dad owned a audi dealership loaded with cash, spoiled me crazy but I felt nothing for her no attraction nothing, basically i was just with her cuz she was rich and she helped me get over my ex. I actually sorta started to like her but she wanted to club and drink last time i talked her she drunk dialed me and said she was pregnant and it was mine and then said i'm a a$$hole and like every other guy, i actually got so scared like months later im out stalking her work to see if she had a baby bump
. She attempted to make contact but I never replied - more than likely crazy and single5. chick i was dating for like 5 months everything was going great then she just stopped making contact said f it then and withdrawled , popped up 6 months later (posted the texts somewhere in thsi thread)
but yeah like kevm3 said all these women told me they cared about me and loved me and all that bla bla rah rah ish, none are around anymore, once the novelty wore off packed their bags and went elsewhere or were so crazy or decided to crawl back cuz the grass wasn't greener :kony:
That's why it's true focus on other things 99% of these chicks are just seasonal whether here for a few dates, months, years until they get bored or find someone else to give em "tingles" and that new car smell.
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One thing about having a roster is you playing a dangerous game.It's a big world but it's a small world,somehow someway woman know other women or can find out better then Sherlock.Gotta be upfront cause remember others people feelings are hard to mess around with.Y'all remember the Steve Mcnair case right?
