Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Just watched kevin gates about 40 minutes ago talk to my female manger at work aggressive and one of my female Co workers gave him the
and then turned around and told the manager "I see what u talking about now, he is sexy"
The thing is. If he wasnt who he was then their reactions would of been a whole lot different. It's crazy how money and Success keeps these women in line. On top of that he pretty much is what he presents himself to be. Breh really is a solid dude
and then turned around and told the manager "I see what u talking about now, he is sexy"The thing is. If he wasnt who he was then their reactions would of been a whole lot different. It's crazy how money and Success keeps these women in line. On top of that he pretty much is what he presents himself to be. Breh really is a solid dude
I was thinking of what kevm3 said about think of all the women in your life and all the things you did for them etc. and where are they now.
So I'll just think of my 5 relationships (no order)
1. my ex fiance - haven't spoken to her in nearly 7 years, got married and divorced, was my first "love", first sexual experience, first heartbreak
2. native american chick I dated for like 5 months, said she loved me, dumped me when I had my ulcer then found out later she was writing long love letters to brehs, she sent me a long facebook message how I was in her dreams bla bla bla - haven't spoken to her since 2009 - shes now married with two kids
3. Second girl I loved - was a little demon cutting her out of my life was probably the best decision I ever made, got engaged to the dude she cheated on me with but that engagement ended, havent spoken to her in nearly a year and wont ever again
4. another brehette I dated was a trust fund baby dad owned a audi dealership loaded with cash, spoiled me crazy but I felt nothing for her no attraction nothing, basically i was just with her cuz she was rich and she helped me get over my ex. I actually sorta started to like her but she wanted to club and drink last time i talked her she drunk dialed me and said she was pregnant and it was mine and then said i'm a a$$hole and like every other guy, i actually got so scared like months later im out stalking her work to see if she had a baby bump. She attempted to make contact but I never replied - more than likely crazy and single
5. chick i was dating for like 5 months everything was going great then she just stopped making contact said f it then and withdrawled , popped up 6 months later (posted the texts somewhere in thsi thread)
but yeah like kevm3 said all these women told me they cared about me and loved me and all that bla bla rah rah ish, none are around anymore, once the novelty wore off packed their bags and went elsewhere or were so crazy or decided to crawl back cuz the grass wasn't greener :kony:
That's why it's true focus on other things 99% of these chicks are just seasonal whether here for a few dates, months, years until they get bored or find someone else to give em "tingles" and that new car smell.
After a while, you just start questioning... "What did I really get out of all of that effort I put in?" Someone with zero effort is getting all the benefits you USED to be getting and he has to do nothing. Why? Because he's new and she's feeling him and he's the 'new guy'. All of those struggles, all of that sacrifice you made thrown out the window.. all of that effort down the drain because she found a new toy to play with. That's why I don't believe in that whole 'relationships are hard work' nonsense. They're only hard work when a woman doesn't want to be there anymore and she's ready to bail out and you start doing all of these stunts to keep her around... going out and buying her this and that to appease the bad attitude or the sudden coldness she developed. A woman who wants to be there will be there, and I often find that the women who I put little to no effort towards seemingly want to be there way more than the ones I actually make an effort for. Why is that? Because if you have to make an effort, the natural interest isn't there... and the reality of it is none of us can really control what a woman will feel. We can do all of the routine, aka 'be alpha', 'be a leader', etc., but none of that is a guarantee that she will stick around. Some of these 'super alphas' on paper have had their woman jet on them. Look at Hulk Hogan and Floyd Mayweather, They are super-rich, iconic, 'physically dominant', etc., and yet they both have had women problems.Hulk Hogan's wife cheated on him with the pool boy. Floyd's ex, we know what she did. They exposed those women to a life they never seen before, these guys are legends in their field, etc., but their women still did them bad. Same with Mike Tyson. You bring that up and it'll be some simp that pops up saying, "Well maybe they didn't have the personality or they didn't spend enough time, etc., etc." It'll always be something, but the bottom line is, no matter what you do, if a woman wants to leave, she will.
So me, personally, I find it a waste of time to worry about if a woman wants to leave or stay or basing my happiness on the presence of a woman. If she's here, great, but if she chooses to leave, I'm still going to be enjoying life. Think about all the players in your high school who did nothing but pursue women and nothing else. Where are they now? What do they have to show for it? If they didn't change up and decide to get responsible, get some job skills, etc., they are probably in and out of jail with 3 or 4 baby mommas and kids who all hate them.
And another huge point is we spend all this time and effort trying to procure women and doing things to raise our value for them, but they are taking the opposite approach with us. Instead of working out, you got feminists talking about 'stop fat shaming' and telling us to appreciate them being overweight. They don't want to cook and clean because 'that's disrespectful and domestic slavery.' Instead of presenting some form of chastity, they say 'stop slut shaming' and want you to wife them up after 40 guys had their turn... and even when you get married, they don't to take your last name. Now they want to throw dudes in jail for giving them compliments on the street. On top of all of that, you still have to deal with the emotional nature of a woman and all that entails. Back in the day, at least men got a woman that was likely a virgin, could cook, could clean, respected their man's word and wanted their man to be a man and at least had feminine charms. Now, you have women who drink more than men, has a ton of tattoos, are two steps from being obese, have numerous kids out of wedlock, want to challenge your authority as a man and have an increasingly masculine demeanor and yet guys are still going crazy trying to 'game' these women.
Obviously, not every woman is like that, but it begs the question, what value is the average woman bringing? And yet we put forth all of this effort for virtually nothing in return and stress over it when that woman who brought nothing leaves. How I see it is to stop wasting time on people who aren't spending their time thinking about us. We're thinking about this or that girl and they're thinking about the 4 or 5 dates they have lined up throughout the week. Things are cool for about a week, and then you get the flaky, cold behavior. Why? Because she's exploring other options. All of that investment in 'gaming' her, dinners or whatever you did all down the drain.
One of the KEY realizations that you have to make as a man in this modern age is that a huge portion of the women have a mentality of 'transcience.' They don't come to stay and build. They don't come for the home-cooking. They look at dating like a buffet. They come and sample you and they're off to sample some other guys. It's only when they've fallen off that they want some sort of commitment. We've had a long thread on here that attests to that when we told women to get a long-term guy in their prime, but they argued against it and the women essentially told other women to explore to their heart's content because they can find some fly guy that will wife them up in their 30s.
What's so cold about it is even the younger generation of men are realizing it. I was having a conversation with a cat who lives in the islands, and he was 16, and he even basically said that he isn't in a relationship because the women go from guy to guy. The poison being pumped out in the media is simply creating women who don't want to build. You can't really do anything about it except hope you've found one that isn't affected and hold on to her. In the meanwhile, don't waste your time stressing over it. Instead, live your life responsibly and enjoy it. Get right with Jesus. Build your family relationships. Stack your money. Get your passport. Explore the world. Time is among our most precious resources. No use in wasting it stressing over someone who isn't stressing over us. That's why we keep making the point that if you have a decent woman, don't be an idiot and lose her by trying to mingle with these go-getters. Easy women are everywhere. Ones that want to build are not. If you have one of these women, enjoy your life and keep it pushing. If not, still enjoy your life and pray that you come across one of these quality women.
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Funny you say that, the reality is the dude with 5 women in his roster, most of the time the women are really down and loyal for him. We live in a twisted world, women desire what other women desire.
A close friend of mine has a roster of 3 women. He was once caught and the women went away, they all came back in less than a week. All these women are so dedicated to him and waiting for the day that he proposes. 2 of them are not even dating or talking to anyone besides him. The other one is dating the ex-bf but comes back once a while. He caught chlamydia and he hasnt told any of them women to the get checked.
yeah I know that's the way it is, I've had women tell me they are glad that I chose them because they "thought" I was a womanizer by the way I look. LIke I said I don't fault or judge anyone for doing what they do, but that's the decision I chose long ago. It's not like I tell women hey I'm not talking to anyone else I'm only interested in you.
I don't get oneitis, or put anyone on a pedastal. Like if i'm interested in one woman
, i don't stress it if she gets distant or dissappears I can hop on tinder if I desire and get 100 matches in two days it's easy to break down any woman or play with her emotions if that's what you desire, a woman can think im a loser but once she comes across a picture of my ex and suddenly it's hey reinscarf, because my ex was a curvy redhead who looked exactly like katy perry but had a big azz that she was a booty model at one point
Like I said i don't blame anyone for taking the route they take, I take my route, my life is fine if my phone doesn't ring or flash due to text messages, my life is fine if I have no woman in my life.
As well Np offense but those aren't quality women. Thats what I'm after.
It's true that in a lot of instances you will be punished for doing the right thing. What's interesting is that upon random reading, I came upon this verse
You will miss out on 'quantity' of women by being a decent dude, because yes, there are women who love gangsters, thugs, players, and low-lives and that may be 'punishment', but in reality, it's a reward, because you really don't want those kind of women in your life. They are winning now until those women start flipping out and bringing that emotional drama or they are left 2 or 3 steps from jail when they have several baby mommas putting them on child support.
You will miss out on 'quantity' of women by being a decent dude, because yes, there are women who love gangsters, thugs, players, and low-lives and that may be 'punishment', but in reality, it's a reward, because you really don't want those kind of women in your life. They are winning now until those women start flipping out and bringing that emotional drama or they are left 2 or 3 steps from jail when they have several baby mommas putting them on child support.
Yup if all you desire is sex, and a galore of women, then by all means yes manipulation tactics, being a playa mysterious thug will attract.
Even if you are not a Christian, take heed to these verses
A man should always rejoice in the wife of his youth (5:18).
A man should not be enticed by an evil woman’s beauty (6:25).
A man should never tamper with his neighbor’s wife (6:29).
A man should never waste his substance on a harlot (7:10, 11, 12;29:3. See Luke 15:30).
Clamorous, foolish women are empty-headed (Proverbs 9:13).
Gracious women retain their honor (11:16).
Lovely women without discretion are like jewels in a swine’s snout (11:22).
Wise women build substantial homes (14:1).
Foolish women destroy a home (14:1).
Contentious women are like a continual dropping on a rainy day (19:13; 27:15).
Brawling women are not easy to live with (21:9; 25:24).
Angry women are never good company (21:19).
Adulterous women can be self-righteous (30:20).
Odious women ruin the peace of a home (30:21, 23).
Loose women are like snares and nets (Ecclesiastes 7:26; Proverbs 7:10).
A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband (12:4).
A man should always rejoice in the wife of his youth (5:18).
A man should not be enticed by an evil woman’s beauty (6:25).
A man should never tamper with his neighbor’s wife (6:29).
A man should never waste his substance on a harlot (7:10, 11, 12;29:3. See Luke 15:30).
Clamorous, foolish women are empty-headed (Proverbs 9:13).
Gracious women retain their honor (11:16).
Lovely women without discretion are like jewels in a swine’s snout (11:22).
Wise women build substantial homes (14:1).
Foolish women destroy a home (14:1).
Contentious women are like a continual dropping on a rainy day (19:13; 27:15).
Brawling women are not easy to live with (21:9; 25:24).
Angry women are never good company (21:19).
Adulterous women can be self-righteous (30:20).
Odious women ruin the peace of a home (30:21, 23).
Loose women are like snares and nets (Ecclesiastes 7:26; Proverbs 7:10).
A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband (12:4).
I'm in a dilemma about a situation with a chick i met I believe i spoke about her a few weeks back on here but to recap I met her on tinder and we met up at the park and had a good time with her we hung at the park 2 times in that same week and it was all fun and good. But it was on the third visit with her shyt started slowly acting different she was acting like an a$$hole and then the week after halloween i began starting to feel the vibe of her getting distant and it also didn't help i didn't have my phone for few days which i told her i wouldn't be able to talk to her apparently she understood but when i got my phone back i was really excited to talk to her it was much different on her end she really didn't seem all that enthusiastic about the fact we were back talking again(this happened sunday night) I didn't hear from her monday and she hit me up tuesday and we spoke briefly and i haven't heard from her since then. I need a little insight on how to go about this 
. Its worth noting that she knows i want to smash her and she told me she wasn't ready(this was during the many makeout sessions we had at the park and lowkey some of the sexual things we were doing) and she doesn't like expressing her feelings and she prides herself on being a "thug" when it comes to her feelings
. Its worth noting that she knows i want to smash her and she told me she wasn't ready(this was during the many makeout sessions we had at the park and lowkey some of the sexual things we were doing) and she doesn't like expressing her feelings and she prides herself on being a "thug" when it comes to her feelings
I'm in a dilemma about a situation with a chick i met I believe i spoke about her a few weeks back on here but to recap I met her on tinder and we met up at the park and had a good time with her we hung at the park 2 times in that same week and it was all fun and good. But it was on the third visit with her shyt started slowly acting different she was acting like an a$$hole and then the week after halloween i began starting to feel the vibe of her getting distant and it also didn't help i didn't have my phone for few days which i told her i wouldn't be able to talk to her apparently she understood but when i got my phone back i was really excited to talk to her it was much different on her end she really didn't seem all that enthusiastic about the fact we were back talking again(this happened sunday night) I didn't hear from her monday and she hit me up tuesday and we spoke briefly and i haven't heard from her since then. I need a little insight on how to go about this
c'mon man. I'ma get straight to the point.
that means?