Another point to mention is to never allow a woman to change your character. If you are a solid, stand-up dude, don't change around and do sociopathic things because 'that's what the ladies like.' You can see in the Bible and throughout history what ends up happening to men who change their character up. That's the big problem with PUAs in my opinion. They completely become a different person and they give up the totality of who they are in order to put on a show to obtain women who they feel would not like them naturally. There is nothing a woman has to offer that makes it worth giving up your essence and your character, and it also demonstrates a low-self esteem that you would deem yourself unworthy and unable to procure a woman unless you are putting on some act. The worst philosophy you can undertake to decide your actions would be, "That's what the women like." Why? As soon as you are in a jam that derives from your lack of character, none of those women will be around. All of those women you catch being pretendoman will ghost on you as soon as things turn a little bit sour. You have to invest in the real, and the only way you'll get a real woman is by being real yourself.