Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

Shouts out to @Emperor_ReinScarf the prophet. This chick that was playing games and not responding back to my texts hits me up today bout how she was busy, this that yadda yadda. Followed his advice and just responded with "I'm not making time for anyone that don't got time for me" She replies back with this long ass text apologizing and shyt. I was gonna reply with more but at that moment I was like I really don't give a fukk anymore it's not worth my time. After that it felt so empowering.

Fellas and women, follow this advice. Don't let anyone take you for granted and have the will to cut someone off when they do. You might lose someone to kick it with but you will keep your dignity which is way more important.

well done breh.

only thing i wudn't have done is said i don't have time for people that don't have time for me. I wud've just not responded. Your actions would say what your words did.

But watch the tide come around...just don't get swept away by its bullshyt.

 

[nalej]

well done breh.

only thing i wudn't have done is said i don't have time for people that don't have time for me. I wud've just not responded. Your actions would say what your words did.

But watch the tide come around...just don't get swept away by its bullshyt.

Yea I could have completely ignored her but I'm being the better person and giving her the common courtesy she didn't give me by replying to her text. I also don't want to end it with her thinking I'm butthurt when I really am just indifferent now. Will be my last text though.

 

[RealAssanova]

Yea I could have completely ignored her but I'm being the better person and giving her the common courtesy she didn't give me by replying to her text. I also don't want to end it with her thinking I'm butthurt when I really am just indifferent now. Will be my last text though.

you think its gonna be your last text...but shorty will begin to go full court press on you until you crack. Stay strong nikka.

 

[The Frozen One]

Nothing in life is easy, thats why spend your time wisely.

Don't get caught up to fast don't expect anything.

I've dealt with enough women to know in the novelty new period honeymoon is the joy once that decays its eh your mundane and Boring she thinks she can do better

You can go down with the ship or you can read the signs jot invest and hop on the lifeboat

It sucks but better now than later.

If someone doesn't want you are you going to retire and mope?

When demarcus ware was cut even though he did everything right was loyal did he mope? Or did he find someone who wanted him?

100% truth.

It's an acquired skill to not allow a bytch bother you.. I've been there man it's tough at first but effectually you can overcome it

 

[nalej]

you think its gonna be your last text...but shorty will begin to go full court press on you until you crack. Stay strong nikka.

haha you're probably right. I'm gonna to try with the strength of all my coli brehs from this thread.

But if she ever hits me back on some "You can come over for all the pum pum you want" not sure if I can hold strong

 

[RealAssanova]

haha you're probably right. I'm gonna to try with the strength of all my coli brehs from this thread.

But if she ever hits me back on some "You can come over for all the pum pum you want" not sure if I can hold strong

even then i'd be skeptical. But if she ever says something to that affect, simply say, what's your address and what time you'll be there. Nothing more nothing less.

 

[kevm3]

The more you have going on in your life, the less some particular woman not showing up bothers you. After you deal with three or four more flakes like that, you'll simply say, I'm not going to waste time and effort into someone who couldn't care less about me but just wants to play games. There are no secret methods or techniques. You simply MAKE people respect you by making them act right if they are to be in your company. The only way to do that consistently is to be strong enough mentally to be able to do without their company.

 

[nalej]

Yup all truth. My question to you guys is do you ever make an exception to give someone another chance if you feel they are truly sorry for their actions? I know a few of you like Emperor are adamant about no second chances but I want to hear from others.

 

[kevm3]

If she cheats, that's a no-go. If it's something like flaking once, then I'd consider it, but if she did it again, that's it.

 

[kevm3]

Everything comes down to mentality. It's all about what you think. Even Jesus in the Bible said what is a man but his thoughts.

Now, something a lot of men get confused is that they base their mentality on how women will react to them, such as, Well, maybe if I do this, she will do that. Maybe to show her I respect myself, I will talk to her that way. With that kind of mentality, you are giving women WAY too much power. You are essentially saying that her reactions to you will dictate your actions. In essence. she is controlling you.

Your actions should be deeply rooted in some kind of principles and fundamentals. You should have business and a lifestyle that you attend to that are completely independent of how a woman is going to react to it or what she thinks about it. You are supposed to be able to have a complete life without a woman in it FIRST and then you INVITE a woman into your life given that she is respectable enough to be worthy of that designation. A lot of guys play that role of the court jester and try to entertain women or do different actions to emotionally manipulate them into a certain reaction. That's weak. Instead, you should play the role of a king who is busy ruling his kingdom and you allow a worthy woman to have some of your time. It all comes down to a power dynamic, which essentially says I'm not going to be out here trying to impress women. They should be the ones impressing me.

Do you think one of these RnB stars got to do half the clown stuff that these guys are doing? No, the women do anything to get in their presence. Look at the Demarco Murray situation where that dude's wife was getting with Murray. Look at this text:

DId Murray come with all kinds of elaborate conversation or methods to impress her? If a woman wants to be with you, you don't have to say or do much. What's so sad is how she calls her husband her 'roommate'.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Shouts out to @Emperor_ReinScarf the prophet. This chick that was playing games and not responding back to my texts hits me up today bout how she was busy, this that yadda yadda. Followed his advice and just responded with "I'm not making time for anyone that don't got time for me" She replies back with this long ass text apologizing and shyt. I was gonna reply with more but at that moment I was like I really don't give a fukk anymore it's not worth my time. After that it felt so empowering.

Fellas and women, follow this advice. Don't let anyone take you for granted and have the will to cut someone off when they do. You might lose someone to kick it with but you will keep your dignity which is way more important.

This is what this thread is about. Helping brehs value themselves, time, and getting the respect they deserve.

to all the brehs dropping knowledge in here each day.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Yup all truth. My question to you guys is do you ever make an exception to give someone another chance if you feel they are truly sorry for their actions? I know a few of you like Emperor are adamant about no second chances but I want to hear from others.

It depends on the situation and time frame. If they flaked on you and don't immediately hit you up with a reasonable excuse AND don't offer to make it up themselves?? Bushes . If she really sorry, she's going to make it up herself ASAP.

 

[The Frozen One]

It depends on the situation and time frame. If they flaked on you and don't immediately hit you up with a reasonable excuse AND don't offer to make it up themselves?? Bushes . If she really sorry, she's going to make it up herself ASAP.

What if she asks you why you were pissed at her or what did she do to cause you to get pissed?

The girl who led me on messaged me last night asking why all of a sudden I am not talking to her and why I'm mad at her

I told her no point in me explaining.. If you have to ask then she thinks she did nothing wrong...

Then she talks to me like everything is normal

 

[Ohene]

Everything comes down to mentality. It's all about what you think. Even Jesus in the Bible said what is a man but his thoughts.

Now, something a lot of men get confused is that they base their mentality on how women will react to them, such as, Well, maybe if I do this, she will do that. Maybe to show her I respect myself, I will talk to her that way. With that kind of mentality, you are giving women WAY too much power. You are essentially saying that her reactions to you will dictate your actions. In essence. she is controlling you.

Your actions should be deeply rooted in some kind of principles and fundamentals. You should have business and a lifestyle that you attend to that are completely independent of how a woman is going to react to it or what she thinks about it. You are supposed to be able to have a complete life without a woman in it FIRST and then you INVITE a woman into your life given that she is respectable enough to be worthy of that designation. A lot of guys play that role of the court jester and try to entertain women or do different actions to emotionally manipulate them into a certain reaction. That's weak. Instead, you should play the role of a king who is busy ruling his kingdom and you allow a worthy woman to have some of your time. It all comes down to a power dynamic, which essentially says I'm not going to be out here trying to impress women. They should be the ones impressing me.

Do you think one of these RnB stars got to do half the clown stuff that these guys are doing? No, the women do anything to get in their presence. Look at the Demarco Murray situation where that dude's wife was getting with Murray. Look at this text:

DId Murray come with all kinds of elaborate conversation or methods to impress her? If a woman wants to be with you, you don't have to say or do much. What's so sad is how she calls her husband her 'roommate'.

when were those texts released ;lol

 

[nalej]

when were those texts released ;lol

This chick put his contact name as "Spray Tan" lol

http://www.topnaijalinks.com/caught...tinos-affair-with-ex-teammate-demarco-murray/