Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Just got blindsided with some news from a chick I just knew was a good girl.

@Emperor_ReinScarf I think this might be the event makes me reach your level of IDGAF-ness.

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I'm still processing things like :ohhh: :why:
 
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I suck with women brehs. I can't even get a message off any online dating sites or matches on Tinder, i'm 5'6", below average looks, no friends, no car, and basically all i have going is my job which i'm not even good at :snoop:. I only reason i haven't off'd myself yet is because of my parents and sister :mjcry:. Fml

breh you gotta stop thinking about women and get your life in order...that should be your main concern. There are elements you can control and that's on you to do it.

You can do two things... Man the fukk up and figure out what needs fixing and DO IT or continue to sulk around and expect things to change without putting any effort into it. The decision is yours. Figure out what you wanna do...2015 is around the corner and now is the best time to start thinking about it.
 

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Been trying to get it together since I got out of hs and that was almost 7yrs ago been. shyt ain't happening

I'm in the same boat:mjcry:

I'm 6ft1 , good looking, athletic , decent job , etc but my luck with women is terrible.

I work at improving myself daily, and it's paying dividends in all aspects for me except in the dating world. Working 40-55 hours a week during the holiday season isn't helping that either.

A number of my friends don't have a problem with bagging chicks , but I haven't seen them date a girl longer than a month :ld: I'm not into "sport fukking", being someone's bytch:scust:


Running into too many women seeking "comfort" , not commitment :sadcam:
 
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I'm in the same boat:mjcry:

I'm 6ft1 , good looking, athletic , decent job , etc but my luck with women is terrible.

I work at improving myself daily, and it's paying dividends in all aspects for me except in the dating world. Working 40-55 hours a week during the holiday season isn't helping that either.

A number of my friends don't have a problem with bagging chicks , but I haven't seen them date a girl longer than a month :ld: I'm not into "sport fukking", being someone's bytch:scust:


Running into too many women seeking "comfort" , not commitment :sadcam:

sounds like you got confidence issues breh.
 

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sounds like you got confidence issues breh.

Dunno about that but if you're reeking confidence yet still get blown off, rejected etc, what's the point of trying for the 58584th time?

If I think its just being a waste of time, I just back off and move on. Too old for "the chase " patience shyt. Rather put my energy in my investments or physical being.

I'm 33 years old and I've NEVER been in a serious relationship or even a date in years.

I'm lost at this and there's a lot of dudes like me out there with the same predicament.
 

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Dunno about that but if you're reeking confidence yet still get blown off, rejected etc, what's the point of trying for the 58584th time?

If I think its just being a waste of time, I just back off and move on. Too old for "the chase " patience shyt. Rather put my energy in my investments or physical being.

I'm 33 years old and I've NEVER been in a serious relationship or even a date in years.

I'm lost at this and there's a lot of dudes like me out there with the same predicament.
you try going after younger women? age 22-28?
 

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you try going after younger women? age 22-28?

:ehh: I have more luck in that age range, just need to be seen out and about besides at work. I run a lot but it is a "loner" sport. Good for you physically, not so much socially. Going to get a gym membership again in the beginning of 2015 is going to change things for the better. I wanna run another Marathon in March but I'm a gym rat, missing getting my lift on.

Anything younger or older than that age range :camby:

Sometimes I just think I need to make myself more seen. Not much to do where I'm at being single but the Bay is an hour away :patrice:
 

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Dunno about that but if you're reeking confidence yet still get blown off, rejected etc, what's the point of trying for the 58584th time?

If I think its just being a waste of time, I just back off and move on. Too old for "the chase " patience shyt. Rather put my energy in my investments or physical being.

I'm 33 years old and I've NEVER been in a serious relationship or even a date in years.

I'm lost at this and there's a lot of dudes like me out there with the same predicament.

Feel this way too breh. There's too much that goes into dating. You have make so much, have a car, your own house, financially stable etc. Just for broads to fukk with you. What I look like telling a broad that I work at a grocery store, dropped out of college because of debt, I live with my grandmother and I can't drive. I'm getting rejected 9 times out of 10 even if I get a number. Dating isn't for everyone despite what people or the media says.
 

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:ehh: I have more luck in that age range, just need to be seen out and about besides at work. I run a lot but it is a "loner" sport. Good for you physically, not so much socially. Going to get a gym membership again in the beginning of 2015 is going to change things for the better. I wanna run another Marathon in March but I'm a gym rat, missing getting my lift on.

Anything younger or older than that age range :camby:

Sometimes I just think I need to make myself more seen. Not much to do where I'm at being single but the Bay is an hour away :patrice:
bolded the same issue i got. i'm 23 and just grinding though for now. means to an end
its def important to put yourself out there cause right now i literally get dropped off to work and then after work head home (10 minute bus ride)

sometimes i go to the gym however...3 -5 times a week but the winter has stiffled that a bit
 

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"Hope ur day went well. I want to see you before i head home on Saturday. Are you free tomorrow?"

How can I curve this girl without hurting her feelings? :patrice:
 

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I suck with women brehs. I can't even get a message off any online dating sites or matches on Tinder, i'm 5'6", below average looks, no friends, no car, and basically all i have going is my job which i'm not even good at :snoop:. I only reason i haven't off'd myself yet is because of my parents and sister :mjcry:. Fml



man stop sweating your height

my pops is 5'6/5'7
and got my mom who is 5'10 and slim

thank god too cause i could have been short if he got a shorter woman

i'm 6'0 :whew:
 
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Been trying to get it together since I got out of hs and that was almost 7yrs ago been. shyt ain't happening

nikka there is soo much fukkin more to life then women. Da hell is da matter with you breh? :why:

you can become a billionaire, become tanked out, learn a skill, etc. You need to occupy your life with shyt to do. Fukk women. Forget em completely and i mean that :ufdup:
 

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Breh's.... i had a conversation with one of my starting 5 earlier today...
So I wanted to bang out and she is on the rags...
So she tells me she cant do nothing...which is cool...but i told her she gotta top me off...
So she has a problem with it cuz she says she gets nothing out of it...
So she says that it seems like all i want from her is sex....which she might be right about...but i denied that shyt..
So I told her... since she cant do or refuse to do anything for a ninja when she is on the rags...she has pretty much made herself useless...
So i told her that she just gave other bytches opportunities to do shyt for me that she wont do...
She butt hurt about wtf i said...but i was deadass serious...
So was i wrong for this shyt? I mean...its the truth....
 
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