Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

nalej

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Breh's.... i had a conversation with one of my starting 5 earlier today...
So I wanted to bang out and she is on the rags...
So she tells me she cant do nothing...which is cool...but i told her she gotta top me off...
So she has a problem with it cuz she says she gets nothing out of it...
So she says that it seems like all i want from her is sex....which she might be right about...but i denied that shyt..
So I told her... since she cant do or refuse to do anything for a ninja when she is on the rags...she has pretty much made herself useless...
So i told her that she just gave other bytches opportunities to do shyt for me that she wont do...
She butt hurt about wtf i said...but i was deadass serious...
So was i wrong for this shyt? I mean...its the truth....

I wouldn't have but if choose to take this route you'll probably lose some players from your roster. Sometimes we do say brutally honest shyt when we're sexually frustrated though
 
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nikka there is soo much fukkin more to life then women. Da hell is da matter with you breh? :why:

you can become a billionaire, become tanked out, learn a skill, etc. You need to occupy your life with shyt to do. Fukk women. Forget em completely and i mean that :ufdup:

It's not just women breh it's life in general. I find it boring as fukk and nothing excites me. Video games use to be fun but now they're boring, Basketball use to be my life now I barely watch it, I use to be a gym rat now I don't give AF about my body and tbh I find most ppl annoying
 

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It's not just women breh it's life in general. I find it boring as fukk and nothing excites me. Video games use to be fun but now they're boring, Basketball use to be my life now I barely watch it, I use to be a gym rat now I don't give AF about my body and tbh I find most ppl annoying

you need to fix your mindset. You are knee-deep in negativity, which explains why you view everything as un-enjoyable. Stop having expectations and be free nikka. Everyday you wake up is a new day, meaning you can do something productive..otherwise, you just wasting away your life. Go back to school, get your masters, etc.
 

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you need to fix your mindset. You are knee-deep in negativity, which explains why you view everything as un-enjoyable. Stop having expectations and be free nikka. Everyday you wake up is a new day, meaning you can do something productive..otherwise, you just wasting away your life. Go back to school, get your masters, etc.

Naw fukk school, took me 3 years to get rid of my debt and I didn't even finish
 

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If you look at modern statistics, men are doing terribly. They are dropping out of institutions of higher education, dropping out of the workplace, etc. The baby boomer generation did a terrible job raising their boys. They pretty much parked them in front of a videogame or the boob tube and told them to defer to women while telling the girls they are princesses, creating leadership summits for them, etc.

So now, we're seeing a generation of men who are completely lost and helpless and find it hard to even make basic decisions or to even have a modicum of self-respect. I'm going to shift gears slightly and start talking about elements of manhood more, because we've pretty much said most of what you can say with dealing with women.

It's not just women breh it's life in general. I find it boring as fukk and nothing excites me. Video games use to be fun but now they're boring, Basketball use to be my life now I barely watch it, I use to be a gym rat now I don't give AF about my body and tbh I find most ppl annoying

Bruh you might wanna pick up something that you can overall respect. Step out your comfort zone. Go volunteer in the community. Go back to doing stuff in the gym.
Work everyday to do something that require you to test your limits and gain more self respect.

Also stop watching so much TV/Videogames/Internet etc and read a book sometimes. Doing activities can be beneficial but it does not provide the satisfaction that your body craves to have that self respect.

One more thing if you watch/jack off to porn you might want to stop ALTOGETHER. That stuff affects your attitude/spirit towards things. When you use porn you are really eliminating a fixed amount of drive that every man you should have. That inclination to do work.

I went almost three months without using porn and after a couple of weeks and I remember feeling a different aura about myself. It was very hard to describe. The only reason I went back to it just because I was bored.:facepalm: But today I have decided to cut that shyt out entirely. I might even make a thread about it and update it weekly on what I experience.
 

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The thing is that I've done all those things. I use to go to the hood and help with free health care screening in Atlanta. Hell I just did white water rafting/camping in October and almost went skydiving the month before but I had to work. That shyt didn't even excite me, I just did it to see if I felt something. After rafting I ate with the group then went to my tent and went to sleep while they were having a bonfire
 

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I wouldn't have but if choose to take this route you'll probably lose some players from your roster. Sometimes we do say brutally honest shyt when we're sexually frustrated though


Thats the thing though....i am not sexually frustrated... i have a nice rotation of main joints...and about 6-7 side pieces that i can call up anytime.... but it was the nerve of the bytch to say that she wont get anything out of her topping me off... like its my fukkin problem... thats why i had to let her know what the deal was... now she on the b-team cuz of that bullshyt she said..i had a day off and couldve kicked it with any of my other joints...but i chose to see this bird and she said some bs like that
 

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The thing is that I've done all those things. I use to go to the hood and help with free health care screening in Atlanta. Hell I just did white water rafting/camping in October and almost went skydiving the month before but I had to work. That shyt didn't even excite me, I just did it to see if I felt something. After rafting I ate with the group then went to my tent and went to sleep while they were having a bonfire

Mane honestly, if you feeling like that, women ain't going to do anything to fix your problems. Find Jesus, explore and find what you really like, etc. You really need to do some soul searching and get your mind right. At most, a woman would be a temporary cure for your boredom before you go back again. You really got to explore and see what is the root cause of you feeling how you feel.
 

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Getting some business about yourself
One thing I see with a lot of this younger generation is that they may not have had a father or even if they did, their father didn't give them any lessons about anything other than 'get the grades in school.' As a man, you really have to 'get some business' about yourself, meaning that you have things going on so that you aren't stressing out or concerned about whether some woman is or isn't going to show up.

We're in a generation where it's going to be harder and harder to make it, especially if you're depending on corporate America to give you a job. There are so many interesting things to study, but I'm telling you now, one skill you better pick up is entrepreneurship. As men, it will be tasked to us to hold society up, so I suggest that you get ready and put your battle boots on.
 

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I suck with women brehs. I can't even get a message off any online dating sites or matches on Tinder, i'm 5'6", below average looks, no friends, no car, and basically all i have going is my job which i'm not even good at :snoop:. I only reason i haven't off'd myself yet is because of my parents and sister :mjcry:. Fml

fukk getting women right now breh. Get a skill, one that you can develop and grind with to get you some loot. Once you come up so will your confidence

Most of these women dont like u for looks anyway, they see all us men as resources anyway.
 

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A women will never complete you or fill a void, have to do that on your own.
Even if you get a fine woman you'll still be thinking is she with me for me, is she cheating on me if you maintain that mindset of not having anything to offer.

a woman that likes you for you doesn't care about your weight, your job, if you have a car etc.
 

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Basically a girl I was considering planning my future with just told me she's pregnant. Thing is, she's in another state and I haven't seen her since October. So yeah, there goes that.

:wow:

on the positive be thankful chick showed her true colors
 

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just got back brehs, weather was great



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worry about women brehs

id rather travel
 
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