Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[semtex]

lol this dominican chick hittin me up on fb askin for my number like i don't know she's preggo

 

[MikelArteta]

As men we are made to believe that a woman that makes us wait a decent period of time (3-6 months) before she decides to get intimate with us is a woman of self respect and principle.

In some cases this is true, but not in all. The logic is as follows:

If she had sex with me in one week, just imagine how many other guys she let hit it in less than a week.

We tend to extrapolate this theory by thinking if she made me wait 4 months, then surely she's made other guys wait just as long. Under this thinking, you falsely get yourself to believe that she has had very few sexual partners and that she will be faithful and committed.

Well, let me tell you what I've learned. When a woman meets a man whom she considers "husband" material, she will hold him to higher standards. This means, she will expect him to take her out, romance her, and hold out on the sex because she doesn't want him to get the wrong impression of her.

The flip side of that coin is that women are sexual in nature just like us, and they do meet guys that they just want to sleep with, and will sleep with them immediately. Ever met a girl that agreed to go back to your place right away? You know, the one you met at the bar?

That same girl that is trying to play wifey to you could have been the prior dude's smutbucket, engaging in all types of wild sexual behavior. This is why you can't judge a girl's character by how long she makes you wait for the sex.

Women know which men to cuff and which men to simply freak off with. If you find women are constantly trying to cuff you, then it is likely because you are secure and established. Whether this is a good or bad thing is to be determined. But if you know a chick is a renowned whore and she's trying to play up to you like she's a wifey, it's a bad sign... because she's looking for a come up.

Be careful of women who tell you "they usually don't do this"... yes they do

The only thing you can do is know what you want and what you are willing to accept. But never ever make an unproven perception of a female an ingrained fact in your mind. Women that aren't living right will always reveal themselves as long as you adhere to the principles and keep your integrity at all times.

Gospel

 

[Turbulent]

this one right here is for the youngins out here.

never let a chick guilt trip you into a relationship after she gave up the puss. if you're feeling her than it's cool but if not, don't even pretend. see what a lot of chicks (mostly young chicks although older chicks also do it sometimes) will sleep with you cause she kinda likes you, finds you attractive, is horny, feels safe with you etc. but then the shame of "what will other people think?" and "fukk we've only known eachother for 2 days..." or whatever their issues are will come in their head and they will attempt to legitimize their slutty/hoeish behavior by putting the title on it. don't be fooled by her tears and frown, she doesn't love you. those tears are caused by the fact that she compromised her "code" and "rules". now she feels like a dummy but she's trying to make it all look kosher like "it was just love at first sight..." she'll be in a relationship with you for a month or 2, maybe even try to get you to trick a little until she gets bored or until the dude she really wants gives her the signal.

so in summary, trust your intuition. p*ssy clouds the mind. sometimes it will make you tolerate stuff that deep down annoys you. this is why the moment of clarity exists. right after you're done busting a nut, the realness shines. we've all been there, we all know the feeling. that's when you should decide if you want to keep seeing her or not. once you've been blessed with that moment of clarity, stick to the impression you have of her. if you still think she's cool, she's probably a keeper. if you have that "fukk this bytch is kind of annoying, can't wait to play some ps3/xbox" feeling, you already know what it is...fukk her jedi mind tricks after that.


that moment of clarity is fukking insane though. it's almost as if for a few seconds every thing makes sense. like you know the absolute truth about everything. for a few seconds it's like you have a grasp of supreme knowledge and could solve the great mysteries of the universe. and then it fades. so use it wisely while it's there.

 

[T-K-G]

There are three kinds of bytches:

1.Those that like you naturally, or who would if they met you.

2.Those that like you only while you puttin on a show with a steady stream of compliments, gifts, entertainments and undivided attention.

3.Those that will never like you, including ones who had a relationship with you in the past and decided they did not like you after all.

For the purposes of finding a wifey, ignore anyone in category 2 or 3 no matter how attractive.


I aint write this but it's on point

 

[MikelArteta]

Anyways brehs I mentioned a few weeks ago after like two dates this chick was all busy and ignored me etc.

So I'm at work with time to kill so I google her email (no simping) anyways it led me to her blog and in there she is writin how she was abused as a kid and grew up in a abusive household and struggled with depression an was addicted to pills at one point.

I just sat back and thanked God for removing me from that situation knowing I don't need that stress etc in my life of dealing with a woman with all those problems, so whenever you rejected ignored kicked to te curb, there may be a underlying reason there may be things you don't know that would ruin your life plan later on. Take it as a blessing and k.i.m

 

[Schmoove]

Anyways brehs I mentioned a few weeks ago after like two dates this chick was all busy and ignored me etc.

So I'm at work with time to kill so I google her email (no simping) anyways it led me to her blog and in there she is writin how she was abused as a kid and grew up in a abusive household and struggled with depression an was addicted to pills at one point.

I just sat back and thanked God for removing me from that situation knowing I don't need that stress etc in my life of dealing with a woman with all those problems, so whenever you rejected ignored kicked to te curb, there may be a underlying reason there may be things you don't know that would ruin your life plan later on. Take it as a blessing and k.i.m

What if you were meant to cross paths with her? To help her get past her demons?

I've wondered this about myself before.

 

[Dr.seuss Swag]

What do you do with a women who's been beat by a man and she's still in love with him even though they not together?

 

[winb83]

As men we are made to believe that a woman that makes us wait a decent period of time (3-6 months) before she decides to get intimate with us is a woman of self respect and principle.

In some cases this is true, but not in all. The logic is as follows:

If she had sex with me in one week, just imagine how many other guys she let hit it in less than a week.

We tend to extrapolate this theory by thinking if she made me wait 4 months, then surely she's made other guys wait just as long. Under this thinking, you falsely get yourself to believe that she has had very few sexual partners and that she will be faithful and committed.

Well, let me tell you what I've learned. When a woman meets a man whom she considers "husband" material, she will hold him to higher standards. This means, she will expect him to take her out, romance her, and hold out on the sex because she doesn't want him to get the wrong impression of her.

The flip side of that coin is that women are sexual in nature just like us, and they do meet guys that they just want to sleep with, and will sleep with them immediately. Ever met a girl that agreed to go back to your place right away? You know, the one you met at the bar?

That same girl that is trying to play wifey to you could have been the prior dude's smutbucket, engaging in all types of wild sexual behavior. This is why you can't judge a girl's character by how long she makes you wait for the sex.

Women know which men to cuff and which men to simply freak off with. If you find women are constantly trying to cuff you, then it is likely because you are secure and established. Whether this is a good or bad thing is to be determined. But if you know a chick is a renowned whore and she's trying to play up to you like she's a wifey, it's a bad sign... because she's looking for a come up.

Be careful of women who tell you "they usually don't do this"... yes they do

The only thing you can do is know what you want and what you are willing to accept. But never ever make an unproven perception of a female an ingrained fact in your mind. Women that aren't living right will always reveal themselves as long as you adhere to the principles and keep your integrity at all times.

the thing about sex is women want it just like men do but women have turned it into some sort of reward nugget for a man.

you wanna have sex with me you gotta take me out do this do that and pay for this and maybe if you're lucky i'll let you hit this p*ssy. so the man does all this shyt for her and he gets the p*ssy and she enjoys the fukking and on top of that has gotten all this crap from him in the process.

she's making out like a bandit and he's putting in too much work for too little reward.

i know its frowned upon on these parts but i reached a point where if she's got all these demands and shyt i'd rather jack off to some internet porn get the quick nut and be done with it. does p*ssy feel better yeah but at the end of the day a nut is a nut and a free nut is better than paying out for one or putting in all that extra effort.

 

[kevm3]

What do you do with a women who's been beat by a man and she's still in love with him even though they not together?

Stay far, far away

 

[MikelArteta]

What if you were meant to cross paths with her? To help her get past her demons?

I've wondered this about myself before.

I'm done helping out women

 

[Swing]

Stay far, far away

Speak on it breh

 

[kevm3]

how many times have you heard of situations where some woman is getting beat on but keeps going back to the guy that is putting them hands on her? Then you might have Mr. Nice Guy flying through the air with that S on his chest trying to save the day... either trying to fight the other guy or by trying to 'put baby up on game. And 9.98 times out of 10, the fella that came out the gates trying to save the woman is either in prison or worse and even if he did 'end up' with the girl, he'll find she was cheating on him with the ex that was beating her down.

Let's also be real too. Men shouldn't hit women, but then again most men don't just haul off on females for no reason. She's doing something to make him react, meaning if you get with her you will have to deal with that same behavior. Funny as it sounds, some women subconsciously seek to get beat up by their man and if you don't put your hands on them they will leave you because they feel as if you don't care.

Let me be clear here. Women do NOT appreciate negroes that come to save them. How many cats paid off a woman's rent, paid for the girl's school, was there for her while she went through all of her trials and tribulations and gave her a host of other benefits and she still cheated or left him? And as the fella posted, after all them hands she received, she still loved the guy beating her up. What's an even more interesting situation is sometimes you have a couple fighting and then some guy runs to step in and then the couple turns on Mr. I gotta save her, INCLUDING the woman he was trying to rescue.

NEVER deal with a woman that's still in love with another man off top, and if he's beating her and she still comes around, that's a whole lot of drama you will avoid by leaving her alone.

 

[Sharp]

Never agree to be the man on the side. I don't care how convenient it may be for you, it shows a lack of integrity on your behalf.

Deal with women who are single. If shes dating other people and u guys aren't serious then cool, but don't allow a chick to think it is cool for her to sleep with you and everybody else. don't get hype off that late night text for some dikk she sends you.

 

[winb83]

What do you do with a women who's been beat by a man and she's still in love with him even though they not together?

Are you seriously gonna go out and pick some messed up woman and go after that? why aren't there plenty of single women that aren't in love with other men to go after.

take it from a man that's dealt with his share of messed up women sometimes you gotta step back and ask three questions:

why am I doing this?
are there better options available?
is this even worth it?

 

[MikelArteta]

how many times have you heard of situations where some woman is getting beat on but keeps going back to the guy that is putting them hands on her? Then you might have Mr. Nice Guy flying through the air with that S on his chest trying to save the day... either trying to fight the other guy or by trying to 'put baby up on game. And 9.98 times out of 10, the fella that came out the gates trying to save the woman is either in prison or worse and even if he did 'end up' with the girl, he'll find she was cheating on him with the ex that was beating her down.

Let's also be real too. Men shouldn't hit women, but then again most men don't just haul off on females for no reason. She's doing something to make him react, meaning if you get with her you will have to deal with that same behavior. Funny as it sounds, some women subconsciously seek to get beat up by their man and if you don't put your hands on them they will leave you because they feel as if you don't care.

Let me be clear here. Women do NOT appreciate negroes that come to save them. How many cats paid off a woman's rent, paid for the girl's school, was there for her while she went through all of her trials and tribulations and gave her a host of other benefits and she still cheated or left him? And as the fella posted, after all them hands she received, she still loved the guy beating her up. What's an even more interesting situation is sometimes you have a couple fighting and then some guy runs to step in and then the couple turns on Mr. I gotta save her, INCLUDING the woman he was trying to rescue.

NEVER deal with a woman that's still in love with another man off top, and if he's beating her and she still comes around, that's a whole lot of drama you will avoid by leaving her alone.

This is true

My godson is nearly 3, her baby dad hit her, gave her an std, cheated on her numerous times, I've heard it all how she hates him
Etc. then a week later I go pick up y godson and dude is opening the door at like 7 in the morning.



I even have shared my story how I dated a chick who got out of abusive relationship even had to live in a homeless shelter, had a restraining order against dude, dude hit her numerous time put a gun to her dome etx

Cheated on me