As men we are made to believe that a woman that makes us wait a decent period of time (3-6 months) before she decides to get intimate with us is a woman of self respect and principle.
In some cases this is true, but not in all. The logic is as follows:
If she had sex with me in one week, just imagine how many other guys she let hit it in less than a week.
We tend to extrapolate this theory by thinking if she made me wait 4 months, then surely she's made other guys wait just as long. Under this thinking, you falsely get yourself to believe that she has had very few sexual partners and that she will be faithful and committed.
Well, let me tell you what I've learned. When a woman meets a man whom she considers "husband" material, she will hold him to higher standards. This means, she will expect him to take her out, romance her, and hold out on the sex because she doesn't want him to get the wrong impression of her.
The flip side of that coin is that women are sexual in nature just like us, and they do meet guys that they just want to sleep with, and will sleep with them immediately. Ever met a girl that agreed to go back to your place right away? You know, the one you met at the bar?
That same girl that is trying to play wifey to you could have been the prior dude's smutbucket, engaging in all types of wild sexual behavior. This is why you can't judge a girl's character by how long she makes you wait for the sex.
Women know which men to cuff and which men to simply freak off with. If you find women are constantly trying to cuff you, then it is likely because you are secure and established. Whether this is a good or bad thing is to be determined. But if you know a chick is a renowned whore and she's trying to play up to you like she's a wifey, it's a bad sign... because she's looking for a come up.
Be careful of women who tell you "they usually don't do this"... yes they do
The only thing you can do is know what you want and what you are willing to accept. But never ever make an unproven perception of a female an ingrained fact in your mind. Women that aren't living right will always reveal themselves as long as you adhere to the principles and keep your integrity at all times.
In some cases this is true, but not in all. The logic is as follows:
If she had sex with me in one week, just imagine how many other guys she let hit it in less than a week.
We tend to extrapolate this theory by thinking if she made me wait 4 months, then surely she's made other guys wait just as long. Under this thinking, you falsely get yourself to believe that she has had very few sexual partners and that she will be faithful and committed.
Well, let me tell you what I've learned. When a woman meets a man whom she considers "husband" material, she will hold him to higher standards. This means, she will expect him to take her out, romance her, and hold out on the sex because she doesn't want him to get the wrong impression of her.
The flip side of that coin is that women are sexual in nature just like us, and they do meet guys that they just want to sleep with, and will sleep with them immediately. Ever met a girl that agreed to go back to your place right away? You know, the one you met at the bar?
That same girl that is trying to play wifey to you could have been the prior dude's smutbucket, engaging in all types of wild sexual behavior. This is why you can't judge a girl's character by how long she makes you wait for the sex.
Women know which men to cuff and which men to simply freak off with. If you find women are constantly trying to cuff you, then it is likely because you are secure and established. Whether this is a good or bad thing is to be determined. But if you know a chick is a renowned whore and she's trying to play up to you like she's a wifey, it's a bad sign... because she's looking for a come up.
Be careful of women who tell you "they usually don't do this"... yes they do
The only thing you can do is know what you want and what you are willing to accept. But never ever make an unproven perception of a female an ingrained fact in your mind. Women that aren't living right will always reveal themselves as long as you adhere to the principles and keep your integrity at all times.
