Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Pretty much. A woman that's really into you will make you write something along the lines of, "Man, she's annoying. She wants all of my time."

If you have to really sit and ponder 'what's going on' and how you can rekindle the interest, stop wasting time and keep it pushing.

A relationship with women ain't like a computer or like cars where you can just replace the part that isn't working and everything is like new. Most relationships are more like potatoes. Once it's gone spoiled, it's ruined. When a woman checks out emotionally, you attempting to 'regame her' or wait on her is going to be a waste of time in more scenarios than not. Sticking around is just going to have you wondering why she is always so 'busy', and you'll come on here later angry when you find out that she was dealing with some new negro.

I'd actually like to hear if any of you had a woman 'check out' on them emotionally, talked about taking a break, etc... you know, go distant, etc., and they successfully rekindled the flame and everything was like new. For me, once they 'checked out', they were gone, but maybe your experience is different.

:wow::mjcry: This is the truth right here! Once a woman loses her desire for a man, it's damn near impossible to get her back in that state so you're better off cutting your losses. The worse thing that can happen to man when being involved or trying to pursue a woman is that she becomes indifferent about it. Once that happens, it's a wrap. No need to waste time wondering what happened.
 

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:wow::mjcry: This is the truth right here! Once a woman loses her desire for a man, it's damn near impossible to get her back in that state so you're better off cutting your losses. The worse thing that can happen to man when being involved or trying to pursue a woman is that she becomes indifferent about it. Once that happens, it's a wrap. No need to waste time wondering what happened.


yup once its gone its gone

although it hurts at the time its for the best, when it comes down to it every man should want a woman whose down for them 100%, not iffy, not sure, etc.

and this is why men should treat women the same regardless of how "fine" she is etc.
 

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This nikka @Fatboi1 has me considering a trip to Tokyo. :lupe:

You been out there breh? Is that where you met them?
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I haven't been there yet. I'm planning on going late this year or early next year. I met them through this language exchange site mylanguageexchange.com.

I'm learning Japanese and I wanted to befriend native Japanese speakers to make the experience even funner. I then realized I could also use the site as a way to get a few contacts in Japan set so I can at least have people to see when I eventually go over there. The site is free to join but you need to be a gold member($6/month) to actually send out messages to people. Non gold members can only send a generic "hi" message to users but that's it; they can respond if a gold member sends them a message.

The 2nd girl sent me a "hi" so I kind of felt like she just wanted to talk to me because she felt I was attractive at least. The first girl is really cool though. I love her sense of humor. She uses coli smileys naturally :ahh:.
 

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Lately I have been chatting with this woman I knew from high school. We never dated but we hung around the same crowd. Anyway I was looking at her instagram and although she seems like a nice girl I can see a few things that would be considered red flags. Its a shame and she is very attractive but she seems like she would be a headache.

I'm glad I read through most of this thread. The old me before reading this thread would have :noah: hard cause of her looks. Now I probe and investigate before I commit to any woman. Especially after seeing the problems some of my friends and cousins are having with their girlfriends and wives.
 

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Lately I have been chatting with this woman I knew from high school. We never dated but we hung around the same crowd. Anyway I was looking at her instagram and although she seems like a nice girl I can see a few things that would be considered red flags. Its a shame and she is very attractive but she seems like she would be a headache.

I'm glad I read through most of this thread. The old me before reading this thread would have :noah: hard cause of her looks. Now I probe and investigate before I commit to any woman. Especially after seeing the problems some of my friends and cousins are having with their girlfriends and wives.

im at the same stage, i probe and investigate and ask questions. i google full names, search FB/IG/Twitter etc. fukk that. I needs to know everything.
 

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Screening will save you headaches

Hold your commitment like these broads do their vagina


All women will act nice, sweet. There different, smart not like that, but many times its not the case, Instagram scandalous photos with houndogs orbiting around, talking to exes and past lovers, just straight trash.

Don't get caught up by looks we've all been there.



Lately I have been chatting with this woman I knew from high school. We never dated but we hung around the same crowd. Anyway I was looking at her instagram and although she seems like a nice girl I can see a few things that would be considered red flags. Its a shame and she is very attractive but she seems like she would be a headache.

I'm glad I read through most of this thread. The old me before reading this thread would have :noah: hard cause of her looks. Now I probe and investigate before I commit to any woman. Especially after seeing the problems some of my friends and cousins are having with their girlfriends and wives.
 
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