Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Remember any chick that your "feeling" is a completely ordinary individual with faults just like anybody else........ except in your head, where you have convinced yourself that she is extraordinary and remarkable.

You fall and get infatuated. Which leads to amplifying any good features she has, ass/titties beauty, rationalizing and portraying her as a saint from above. But when you take those rose-colored glasses off, you'll see that she is just as ordinary as everyone else.

Dudes have dumped her, guys have played her, disrespected her, called her ugly, made her cry, stop thinking her sh*t doesn't stink, don't put her on a pedestal, don't think you'll never find someone as pretty, great or click with someone like that again all horse dung

 

[Atlrocafella]

give it up one time for one of the best threads on the coli..fukk that, the internet.

 

[MikelArteta]

give it up one time for one of the best threads on the coli..fukk that, the internet.

i hope one day I can post in here that I met a great girl and we getting married and I post pics and ish

 

[MikelArteta]

I know we talk about women problems, and getting dates etc. is easy for many of us but I know there is a segment of folks who struggle getting attention from women, or a date etc.

Well I've been there, hell my first relationship I was 19/20ish and I was engaged by 21

Throughout the years I've been on hundreds of dates. And straight up, looks, status, charisma, game all of that is decoration and icing on the cake. Your main cake is good enough, if you treat people well, if you take care of yourself, if you have dreams, hobbies and desires, you can attract someone.

So just sit back and enjoy the ride, be patient give yourself time. You have no options and are single now? well enjoy it focus on the now and make your life the best it can be. Invest in yourself, enrich your life in only the way you know how. People will be attracted to you. With time and maturity, you'll begin to see the possibility for whatever you desire to come to fruition.

Secondly don't envy because just getting a woman in itself is not the same thing as having a genuinely enjoyable and fulfilling relationship. I've had numerous women in my life, numerous women I've slept with, but I can count on one hand how many women actually touched my heart in a certain way. So while some individuals from the outset looking in have such a easy time procuring a girlfriend many have such a difficult time maintaining a stable relationship.

 

[Papa LaBas]

i met a chick off tinder a couple of days before nye. i got the number and then we tried to link up that saturday, but our schedules didnt match up. no problem. fast forward into the following week, we agree to kick it friday night. she hits me around noon, saying we still on for later right? i say no doubt. then she says she has a confession

she says she cant remember my name. i laugh because i know how flakey women are. i tell her im good on later, ill pass. i aint about to kick it with no broad who doesnt know my name. shes shocked. she apologizes and says she never saves peoples names in her phone and how i deleted my tinder and dont take offense and she'll buy the first round of drinks. i tell her no thanks and she continues to send text after text trying to downplay shyt and i continue to ignore.

i could have went but i aint a sucka. i took the shyt as disrespect even though i wasnt mad at all. my boy said i was too hard on her. what do i look like meeting up with a chick who doesnt know my name, quenching her thirst all night, only to get a hug while she calls the next cat to beat it up when she gets home? i asked boy if she met drake at the club, would she have saved his number? he understood. lol im a regular cat, but im a man and i value myself as such. id rather err on the side of my principles lol

 

[Scotch Hall]

Any of you guys dated any nurses? If so how did it work out?

I've taken alot of nursing related courses and I'm currently in a nursing program. Alot of the women are THOTS to the highest order. I can't tell you how many women i've seen cheat on their husbands/bfs, most of my friends are RNs already and they tell me about all of this as well. What you got to realize is they're going to spend the majority of their time with fellow Nurses, Doctors, etc. so cheating is highly likely with this uncertain demanding profession. Sometimes they want to realse dat tension

 

[kevm3]

Nah, I didn't. In fact, specifically told her that I'm not looking for a relationship because I'm in a state of self-improvement but that hasn't stopped her from being more open/flirty with me as time has gone on. I could just be over-analysing this but my gut feeling says it could get awkward for me soon.

Be straight up with her when you sense her coming on too strong. "Just to be honest with you, I don't want you to get too caught up on me."

 

[kevm3]

i met a chick off tinder a couple of days before nye. i got the number and then we tried to link up that saturday, but our schedules didnt match up. no problem. fast forward into the following week, we agree to kick it friday night. she hits me around noon, saying we still on for later right? i say no doubt. then she says she has a confession

she says she cant remember my name. i laugh because i know how flakey women are. i tell her im good on later, ill pass. i aint about to kick it with no broad who doesnt know my name. shes shocked. she apologizes and says she never saves peoples names in her phone and how i deleted my tinder and dont take offense and she'll buy the first round of drinks. i tell her no thanks and she continues to send text after text trying to downplay shyt and i continue to ignore.

i could have went but i aint a sucka. i took the shyt as disrespect even though i wasnt mad at all. my boy said i was too hard on her. what do i look like meeting up with a chick who doesnt know my name, quenching her thirst all night, only to get a hug while she calls the next cat to beat it up when she gets home? i asked boy if she met drake at the club, would she have saved his number? he understood. lol im a regular cat, but im a man and i value myself as such. id rather err on the side of my principles lol

Always make sure you maintain your respect. Let your buddy be the one dealing with women flaking on him and using him.

 

[Atlrocafella]

i met a chick off tinder a couple of days before nye. i got the number and then we tried to link up that saturday, but our schedules didnt match up. no problem. fast forward into the following week, we agree to kick it friday night. she hits me around noon, saying we still on for later right? i say no doubt. then she says she has a confession

she says she cant remember my name. i laugh because i know how flakey women are. i tell her im good on later, ill pass. i aint about to kick it with no broad who doesnt know my name. shes shocked. she apologizes and says she never saves peoples names in her phone and how i deleted my tinder and dont take offense and she'll buy the first round of drinks. i tell her no thanks and she continues to send text after text trying to downplay shyt and i continue to ignore.

i could have went but i aint a sucka. i took the shyt as disrespect even though i wasnt mad at all. my boy said i was too hard on her. what do i look like meeting up with a chick who doesnt know my name, quenching her thirst all night, only to get a hug while she calls the next cat to beat it up when she gets home? i asked boy if she met drake at the club, would she have saved his number? he understood. lol im a regular cat, but im a man and i value myself as such. id rather err on the side of my principles lol

so her contact list is a bunch of phone numbers and no names? These chicks are the worst liars.

 

[feast__5]

give it up one time for one of the best threads on the coli..fukk that, the internet.

Word all the knowledge I've gotten from lurking on the thread over the years

 

[MikelArteta]

Women need you to be confused because in confusion you give them the benefit of the doubt

so her contact list is a bunch of phone numbers and no names? These chicks are the worst liars.

 

[Ohene]

i met a chick off tinder a couple of days before nye. i got the number and then we tried to link up that saturday, but our schedules didnt match up. no problem. fast forward into the following week, we agree to kick it friday night. she hits me around noon, saying we still on for later right? i say no doubt. then she says she has a confession

she says she cant remember my name. i laugh because i know how flakey women are. i tell her im good on later, ill pass. i aint about to kick it with no broad who doesnt know my name. shes shocked. she apologizes and says she never saves peoples names in her phone and how i deleted my tinder and dont take offense and she'll buy the first round of drinks. i tell her no thanks and she continues to send text after text trying to downplay shyt and i continue to ignore.

i could have went but i aint a sucka. i took the shyt as disrespect even though i wasnt mad at all. my boy said i was too hard on her. what do i look like meeting up with a chick who doesnt know my name, quenching her thirst all night, only to get a hug while she calls the next cat to beat it up when she gets home? i asked boy if she met drake at the club, would she have saved his number? he understood. lol im a regular cat, but im a man and i value myself as such. id rather err on the side of my principles lol

at first i read this as yall met ON NYE ...thinking maybe she was drunk and forgot. But smh at this broad

 

[MikelArteta]

Glad dudes are waking up

Your dignity and self respect above all.

 

[EQ.]

so her contact list is a bunch of phone numbers and no names? These chicks are the worst liars.

the audacity of her to say some shyt like that

 

[Mike Ock]

i met a chick off tinder a couple of days before nye. i got the number and then we tried to link up that saturday, but our schedules didnt match up. no problem. fast forward into the following week, we agree to kick it friday night. she hits me around noon, saying we still on for later right? i say no doubt. then she says she has a confession

she says she cant remember my name. i laugh because i know how flakey women are. i tell her im good on later, ill pass. i aint about to kick it with no broad who doesnt know my name. shes shocked. she apologizes and says she never saves peoples names in her phone and how i deleted my tinder and dont take offense and she'll buy the first round of drinks. i tell her no thanks and she continues to send text after text trying to downplay shyt and i continue to ignore.

i could have went but i aint a sucka. i took the shyt as disrespect even though i wasnt mad at all. my boy said i was too hard on her. what do i look like meeting up with a chick who doesnt know my name, quenching her thirst all night, only to get a hug while she calls the next cat to beat it up when she gets home? i asked boy if she met drake at the club, would she have saved his number? he understood. lol im a regular cat, but im a man and i value myself as such. id rather err on the side of my principles lol

I woulda just went for the first round of drinks and see where it could go. I think you over thought it bruh. She met you one time at new years eve party.