Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Women speak in grey pick up the signs

Reminds me when I went on a date with a chick and and he next day I text her , hey how its going

And she's like whose this?

I said never mind wrong #

And she texts me back I just got a new phone haven't put all my contacts in

I woulda just went for the first round of drinks and see where it could go. I think you over thought it bruh. She met you one time at new years eve party.

 

[Mike Ock]

Women speak in grey pick up the signs

Reminds me when I went on a date with a chick and and he next day I text her , hey how its going

And she's like whose this?

I said never mind wrong #

And she texts me back I just got a new phone haven't put all my contacts in

I see what you're saying, but you went out with her and then she pulled that stunt. He didn't. He randomly met her at a new years eve party where everyone intends to get sauced up. He didn't have nothing to lose by meeting up and taking it from there. Especially if she kept contacting him afterwards. I've bagged a girl before and hit save w/o saving the name. It happens.

 

[Panther]

I'm at a weird but cool age (28).

With a kid under 2, a lot of women my age seem to become disinterested because I can tell they want kids soon while I'm like "I just had one".

I'm just gonna have fun out here and get my shyt together while these 18-19 year olds mature a bit then maybe look for a main but for now, I'm not gonna let these 26-30 year old women rush me into getting tied down.

Breh this is exactly what im facing right now... Im only 24 but i got this 27 year old who is trying to strong arm a nikka into a relationship.... She's a good girl and all but i dont think im ready for that right now

 

[EQ.]

I see what you're saying, but you went out with her and then she pulled that stunt. He didn't. He randomly met her at a new years eve party where everyone intends to get sauced up. He didn't have nothing to lose by meeting up and taking it from there. Especially if she kept contacting him afterwards. I've bagged a girl before and hit save w/o saving the name. It happens.

I hear ya, but the analogy was said if ol dude was drake/trey songz do you really think she would've forgotten to save number etc bish woulda sobered up quick and prolly got that shyt tattoed on her hand.

 

[Mike Ock]

I hear ya, but the analogy was said if ol dude was drake/trey songz do you really think she would've forgotten to save number etc bish woulda sobered up quick and prolly got that shyt tattoed on her hand.

That's like saying would you remember the name of a street baller you saw for the first time, as opposed to Kobe Bryant? Of course not. All I'm saying is for dudes not to expect so much from someone they just met. Try some shyt and take it from there. Maybe he could ended up with a one stand stand or something or maybe another date. But if he felt it wasn't worth it, then cool.

 

[Ohene]

I see what you're saying, but you went out with her and then she pulled that stunt. He didn't. He randomly met her at a new years eve party where everyone intends to get sauced up. He didn't have nothing to lose by meeting up and taking it from there. Especially if she kept contacting him afterwards. I've bagged a girl before and hit save w/o saving the name. It happens.

it wasnt at New Years. I wouldve also said the same if it was but he said it was a few days before

 

[Mike Ock]

it wasnt at New Years. I wouldve also said the same if it was but he said it was a few days before

I mis-read it, my bad. I gotta skim thru posts at work.

Ok then with that broad. Forget all that previous shyt I was saying @TheSpookByTheDoor

 

[Papa LaBas]

I mis-read it, my bad. I gotta skim thru posts at work.

Ok then with that broad. Forget all that previous shyt I was saying @TheSpookByTheDoor

you good. if it was some nye party or just a random night at the club and everybody is oiled, i wouldn't have tripped on it. but this shyt just seemed REAL flakey for me to entertain it. it was on tinder where my name was clear as day. lol i did delete my profile but it was days after we exchanged numbers.

i only rock with chicks where its blatant that she is digging me. i dont play charades with these broads lol

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

These women man. I remember this time I met this waitress (about a year before my last relationship) and I was feelin her. She was real sexy and confident and we was watching the game on the big screen and she made some little comments that only someone who really follows sports would know.

I was like +

Anyway, I chat her up a bit and I didn't fukk around I was just like hey I think you're cute, what's up and she said she want to chill after she gets out which was fine because I wasn't leaving town that night. So we chilled and we're talking, having a good time, and all of a sudden she's like "hey, I saw you out before with this other girl a couple weeks ago" and I said "Oh, yeah I know who you are talking about, she's just a friend" which was legit. She was dating some guy I knew and it wasn't just us two out either. So, this girl kind of gives me a look and then she says "ok, good, because I don't want to find out my boyfriend is cheating on me "

I'm like alright, whatever. We had a drink and then we left. I didn't try to take her home, I thought it was a good start. She wants to chill the next weekend. So it's all good.

Fast-forward to like Thursday and I show up with a couple friends at a pizza place (it has a bar also) and guess who is there. This girl. Her eyes lit up like she saw a fukking ghost. I thought that was strange but I said okay no big deal I'm just chillin with the homies and I talked to her for a sec and let her chill with her girl. About 15 minutes go by and this scruffy ass dude shows up and sits with them. So I keep an eye on it and he's gettin' kinda close, he's putting his arm around her waist and I can tell she's trying to push his arm away but not be too blatant.

So it's time to go and she's like "hey hey! you're leaving!?" (the guy went to the restroom) and I said "yeah, we got a couple other places to hit." She gets this sad face and I said "so, let me ask you, this guy your boyfriend or..?"

She looks down to the floor and says "I don't know what it is.."

I gave her a and kept it moving. Never talked to her again. My friends say I'm an idiot. She was sexy as fukk but I don't want headaches or games. Sometimes you just gotta dead shyt.

 

[Action Mike]

These women man. I remember this time I met this waitress (about a year before my last relationship) and I was feelin her. She was real sexy and confident and we was watching the game on the big screen and she made some little comments that only someone who really follows sports would know.

I was like +

Anyway, I chat her up a bit and I didn't fukk around I was just like hey I think you're cute, what's up and she said she want to chill after she gets out which was fine because I wasn't leaving town that night. So we chilled and we're talking, having a good time, and all of a sudden she's like "hey, I saw you out before with this other girl a couple weeks ago" and I said "Oh, yeah I know who you are talking about, she's just a friend" which was legit. She was dating some guy I knew and it wasn't just us two out either. So, this girl kind of gives me a look and then she says "ok, good, because I don't want to find out my boyfriend is cheating on me "

I'm like alright, whatever. We had a drink and then we left. I didn't try to take her home, I thought it was a good start. She wants to chill the next weekend. So it's all good.

Fast-forward to like Thursday and I show up with a couple friends at a pizza place (it has a bar also) and guess who is there. This girl. Her eyes lit up like she saw a fukking ghost. I thought that was strange but I said okay no big deal I'm just chillin with the homies and I talked to her for a sec and let her chill with her girl. About 15 minutes go by and this scruffy ass dude shows up and sits with them. So I keep an eye on it and he's gettin' kinda close, he's putting his arm around her waist and I can tell she's trying to push his arm away but not be too blatant.

So it's time to go and she's like "hey hey! you're leaving!?" (the guy went to the restroom) and I said "yeah, we got a couple other places to hit." She gets this sad face and I said "so, let me ask you, this guy your boyfriend or..?"

She looks down to the floor and says "I don't know what it is.."

I gave her a and kept it moving. Never talked to her again. My friends say I'm an idiot. She was sexy as fukk but I don't want headaches or games. Sometimes you just gotta dead shyt.

 

[Londilon]

Nvm also unquote me, thanks

 

[MikelArteta]

Yes, its impossible to be friends with someone you have feelings for. If the roles were reverse I'd advise you to cut contact with her as will.

You basically friend zoned her and gave her the who knows what the future holds

I got a question brehs,

I have been talking to this girl for about a month and a half. We both like each other and she is a good girl. She seems like the loyal type and has only been in one long term relationship. But here is my problem, she said that she is interested in a relationship and I wouldn't mind because she has all these good qualities so I asked her to give me some space because I am not sure if I want a relationship. She responded to my request with wanting to cut contact with me and not talk to her anymore because she has feelings for me.

I still like her but I want her to be friends and then maybe one day I might want to get into something with her. Am I wrong for asking for her to just be my friend and wait for me to decide?

 

[Ohene]

Yes, its impossible to be friends with someone you have feelings for. If the roles were reverse I'd advise you to cut contact with her as will.

You basically friend zoned her and gave her the who knows what the future holds

exactly..like shyt @Londilon what are you waiting for ?

I aint gonna sit here and tell you to rush into a relationship because its the best thing since sliced bread...but are you waiting for something better? Trying to slay more p*ssy? Just working on yourself? What gives? If the girl seems loyal, is keeping it real with you and appears to have the qualities you want in a girl friend...meet her halfway and see where it goes. Dont gotta rush into anything but go out on a couple dates with her, and continue spending time until you are 100 percent sure. At the very least EXPLAIN why you are on the fence for example if you want to focus on work/school etc. and then see if shes down to ride,

 

[Ohene]

These women man. I remember this time I met this waitress (about a year before my last relationship) and I was feelin her. She was real sexy and confident and we was watching the game on the big screen and she made some little comments that only someone who really follows sports would know.

I was like +

Anyway, I chat her up a bit and I didn't fukk around I was just like hey I think you're cute, what's up and she said she want to chill after she gets out which was fine because I wasn't leaving town that night. So we chilled and we're talking, having a good time, and all of a sudden she's like "hey, I saw you out before with this other girl a couple weeks ago" and I said "Oh, yeah I know who you are talking about, she's just a friend" which was legit. She was dating some guy I knew and it wasn't just us two out either. So, this girl kind of gives me a look and then she says "ok, good, because I don't want to find out my boyfriend is cheating on me "

I'm like alright, whatever. We had a drink and then we left. I didn't try to take her home, I thought it was a good start. She wants to chill the next weekend. So it's all good.

Fast-forward to like Thursday and I show up with a couple friends at a pizza place (it has a bar also) and guess who is there. This girl. Her eyes lit up like she saw a fukking ghost. I thought that was strange but I said okay no big deal I'm just chillin with the homies and I talked to her for a sec and let her chill with her girl. About 15 minutes go by and this scruffy ass dude shows up and sits with them. So I keep an eye on it and he's gettin' kinda close, he's putting his arm around her waist and I can tell she's trying to push his arm away but not be too blatant.

So it's time to go and she's like "hey hey! you're leaving!?" (the guy went to the restroom) and I said "yeah, we got a couple other places to hit." She gets this sad face and I said "so, let me ask you, this guy your boyfriend or..?"

She looks down to the floor and says "I don't know what it is.."

I gave her a and kept it moving. Never talked to her again. My friends say I'm an idiot. She was sexy as fukk but I don't want headaches or games. Sometimes you just gotta dead shyt.

sigh

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup.

I don't blame her , I ain't sitting around as well if a chick friendzones me. I'm gone, when someone tells you to wait their not sure basically your just the backup

exactly..like shyt @Londilon what are you waiting for ?

I aint gonna sit here and tell you to rush into a relationship because its the best thing since sliced bread...but are you waiting for something better? Trying to slay more p*ssy? Just working on yourself? What gives? If the girl seems loyal, is keeping it real with you and appears to have the qualities you want in a girl friend...meet her halfway and see where it goes. Dont gotta rush into anything but go out on a couple dates with her, and continue spending time until you are 100 percent sure. At the very least EXPLAIN why you are on the fence for example if you want to focus on work/school etc. and then see if shes down to ride,