Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

Yup.

I don't blame her , I ain't sitting around as well if a chick friendzones me. I'm gone, when someone tells you to wait their not sure basically your just the backup

being single can be great...but if dude simply just wants to hoe himself out...it aint worth it when you have a good girl right in front of you.

if it wasnt for one chick being white (i know i know) and another chick being muslim I'da been back out the game a while ago lol

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Breh this is exactly what im facing right now... Im only 24 but i got this 27 year old who is trying to strong arm a nikka into a relationship.... She's a good girl and all but i dont think im ready for that right now

Definitely take your time.

The women down here are taught to stick with a "good find" as soon as they scope one, then rush the relationship.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

sigh

My brehs still get on me about it because she was fire but it seemed like a terrible situation. Sometimes you can see it coming and then other times like my last relationship, you are hit over the head out of nowhere and don't know why or how... etc.

Just gotta keep it movin

 

[Ohene]

My brehs still get on me about it because she was fire but it seemed like a terrible situation. Sometimes you can see it coming and then other times like my last relationship, you are hit over the head out of nowhere and don't know why or how... etc.

Just gotta keep it movin

ignore the homies. it takes a strong dude to do what you did

 

[Mike Ock]

These women man. I remember this time I met this waitress (about a year before my last relationship) and I was feelin her. She was real sexy and confident and we was watching the game on the big screen and she made some little comments that only someone who really follows sports would know.

I was like +

Anyway, I chat her up a bit and I didn't fukk around I was just like hey I think you're cute, what's up and she said she want to chill after she gets out which was fine because I wasn't leaving town that night. So we chilled and we're talking, having a good time, and all of a sudden she's like "hey, I saw you out before with this other girl a couple weeks ago" and I said "Oh, yeah I know who you are talking about, she's just a friend" which was legit. She was dating some guy I knew and it wasn't just us two out either. So, this girl kind of gives me a look and then she says "ok, good, because I don't want to find out my boyfriend is cheating on me "

I'm like alright, whatever. We had a drink and then we left. I didn't try to take her home, I thought it was a good start. She wants to chill the next weekend. So it's all good.

Fast-forward to like Thursday and I show up with a couple friends at a pizza place (it has a bar also) and guess who is there. This girl. Her eyes lit up like she saw a fukking ghost. I thought that was strange but I said okay no big deal I'm just chillin with the homies and I talked to her for a sec and let her chill with her girl. About 15 minutes go by and this scruffy ass dude shows up and sits with them. So I keep an eye on it and he's gettin' kinda close, he's putting his arm around her waist and I can tell she's trying to push his arm away but not be too blatant.

So it's time to go and she's like "hey hey! you're leaving!?" (the guy went to the restroom) and I said "yeah, we got a couple other places to hit." She gets this sad face and I said "so, let me ask you, this guy your boyfriend or..?"

She looks down to the floor and says "I don't know what it is.."

I gave her a and kept it moving. Never talked to her again. My friends say I'm an idiot. She was sexy as fukk but I don't want headaches or games. Sometimes you just gotta dead shyt.

This sound like some Kevin Arnold and Winnie Cooper shyt. Chiks be scandalous man.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I see threads about men letting their women go to clubs.First of all any woman that goes to a club or wants to go clubbing that's a red flag.You guys gotta realize your gf friends have more of an influence in your relationship then you.

 

[Papa LaBas]

I got a question brehs,

I have been talking to this girl for about a month and a half. We both like each other and she is a good girl. She seems like the loyal type and has only been in one long term relationship. But here is my problem, she said that she is interested in a relationship and I wouldn't mind because she has all these good qualities so I asked her to give me some space because I am not sure if I want a relationship. She responded to my request with wanting to cut contact with me and not talk to her anymore because she has feelings for me.

I still like her but I want her to be friends and then maybe one day I might want to get into something with her. Am I wrong for asking for her to just be my friend and wait for me to decide?

nah you werent wrong. you were up front and so was she. just dont think that you can pop up six months later and think the door is open again. some girls, once the opportunity is gone, its a wrap.

dont come back in the thread come october simpin, asking 'why wont she return my texts?' lol

 

[kevm3]

The fellas done told you right. She was real by cutting contact with you. That kind of direct behavior is what you WANT in a woman. She doesn't sound like she's cool with just keeping male 'homies' around and she's very straight forward in her intentions. Take it or leave it.

You essentially friend zoned her and told her to wait up on you, which is like a woman telling you, you'd make an awesome husband. Just wait for me when I get done making my mistakes. It pretty much sent the signal that you weren't all that interested.

 

[MikelArteta]

I see threads about men letting their women go to clubs.First of all any woman that goes to a club or wants to go clubbing that's a red flag.You guys gotta realize your gf friends have more of an influence in your relationship then you.

Dudes have no boundaries, plus mix in liquor and anything can happen

 

[Londilon]

Brehs, some of the comments have me feeling like I did her wrong. Don't get me wrong, I feel like she is wifey material. She is down to earth and I think she is cool. I just wanted space from talking about relationship stuff cause I start to feel pressure to ask her to be my gf when I would rather it flow. She has a big butt look 22 but is 29 and I'm 27. I just can't ask her until I feel it's right. I don't want to just cut all contact, but she removed me off social media so Idk if she is going to answer when I try and hit her up. I just want our friendship bond to be strong and I feel like anything could happen if we keep talking, but she said she it wouldn't be fair to her.

I'm gonna delete later so try not to quote.

 

[MikelArteta]

I never said you did wrong

But if the roles were reversed, and you wanted a relationship while she just wanted to take it slow be friends and she where it goes from there what would you do or say?

Sitting around in the friendzone hoping for a chance will destroy your happiness. Cutting all contact and getting on with life is the thing I would do.

Brehs, some of the comments have me feeling like I did her wrong. Don't get me wrong, I feel like she is wifey material. She is down to earth and I think she is cool. I just wanted space from talking about relationship stuff cause I start to feel pressure to ask her to be my gf when I would rather it flow. She has a big butt look 22 but is 29 and I'm 27. I just can't ask her until I feel it's right. I don't want to just cut all contact, but she removed me off social media so Idk if she is going to answer when I try and hit her up. I just want our friendship bond to be strong and I feel like anything could happen if we keep talking, but she said she it wouldn't be fair to her.

 

[Londilon]

I never said you did wrong

But if the roles were reversed, and you wanted a relationship while she just wanted to take it slow be friends and she where it goes from there what would you do or say?

Sitting around in the friendzone hoping for a chance will destroy your happiness. Cutting all contact and getting on with life is the thing I would do.

nvm

 

[MikelArteta]

Everyone wants what's best for them, I applaud this girl do having respect for herself and not just sticking around hoping and accepting scraps

You can be in a relationship and take it slow

I just felt a month and a half was too soon for relationship talk. It doesn't mean I'm not interested or that I didn't want to be with her. I don't want to lose all contact cause then that means nothing will happen between us.

 

[Londilon]

Everyone wants what's best for them, I applaud this girl do having respect for herself and not just sticking around hoping and accepting scraps

You can be in a relationship and take it slow

You are prolly right. I don't really want to lose her, so what could I do to fix it?

 

[Ohene]

You are prolly right. I don't really want to lose her, so what could I do to fix it?

Tell her that you like her and certainly see yourself in a relationship with her. You however dont want to rush into things seeing how you guys have only know each other for 2 months.

Always keep it real...women will respect you for it.

I was in this similar type of situation about a year ago. She's probably bluffing anyways...