Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Ex from over 3 years ago friend requested me on Facebook (I created a new account after deleting my old one a while back) and sent me a message. Funny how things like that happen when you're going through things in a current relationship.
I probably should have just denied her request and/or ignored her message, but of course I accepted it and responded to her.
I probably should have just denied her request and/or ignored her message, but of course I accepted it and responded to her.
what did she sayEx from over 3 years ago friend requested me on Facebook (I created a new account after deleting my old one a while back) and sent me a message. Funny how things like that happen when you're going through things in a current relationship.
I probably should have just denied her request and/or ignored her message, but of course I accepted it and responded to her.
i actually think i remember you talking about this chick waaaay back and you were going through it
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@Londilon
you gotta inbox pics
as far as feeling bad...never feel bad for not doing something youre not comfortable doing. You live life for yourself only...not your parents, girlfriends, best friends, brothers or anybody because when shyt hits the fan youre the only one directly affected.
all i'm personally saying is to keep it real with her that way there are no regrets down the line regarding what you should or shouldnt have done. If she actually does desert you completely...be prepared to go into another gear to get her once you actually do want her.
you gotta inbox pics
as far as feeling bad...never feel bad for not doing something youre not comfortable doing. You live life for yourself only...not your parents, girlfriends, best friends, brothers or anybody because when shyt hits the fan youre the only one directly affected.
all i'm personally saying is to keep it real with her that way there are no regrets down the line regarding what you should or shouldnt have done. If she actually does desert you completely...be prepared to go into another gear to get her once you actually do want her.
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idk brehs i see where @Londilon is coming from. Its only been a month and a half, sounds like she is rushing things to me 
I think you should try and explain your position a little better but you gotta be comfortable making that move before you do it. Rushing into something was how i fukked up my last long term realtionship, im taking it slow now too
I think you should try and explain your position a little better but you gotta be comfortable making that move before you do it. Rushing into something was how i fukked up my last long term realtionship, im taking it slow now too
There is nothing wrong with what he is doing.
However there is nothing wrong what she is doing as well.
However there is nothing wrong what she is doing as well.
idk brehs i see where @Londilon is coming from. Its only been a month and a half, sounds like she is rushing things to me
I think you should try and explain your position a little better but you gotta be comfortable making that move before you do it. Rushing into something was how i fukked up my last long term realtionship, im taking it slow now too
Back in the past every time I met a new woman, she would try so hard to show me how special I am to her, how we are meant to be together. How she’s not like that, how she’s glad we met, how she cares about me, gasp even loves me and she opens up and tells me things. I open up a little…..and then poof......I think we should be friends, it’s just not there anymore, just need space yadda yadda yadda
And this is where I am at in life now, I just have no faith in them brehs none, She can tell me she's head over heels in love, and tells me how special I am, talks about the future she can really mean it from the bottom of her heart, she could be sent from God, she could check off every checkpoint but I'll still just think to myself, mmmhm hmm yeah sure, let’s see if you feel this way even a month from now, or when times are hard.
And this is where I am at in life now, I just have no faith in them brehs none, She can tell me she's head over heels in love, and tells me how special I am, talks about the future she can really mean it from the bottom of her heart, she could be sent from God, she could check off every checkpoint but I'll still just think to myself, mmmhm hmm yeah sure, let’s see if you feel this way even a month from now, or when times are hard.
Rocket Scientist
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Exactly.The club is one of the notorious places where bad things happen
That's why I don't believe the first few months of a relationship are real. That's when you FIRST meet a woman and she's doing everything to impress you. She's putting in an extraordinary amount of effort, which is hiding her natural state. As soon as she feels she 'has' you, the effort stops and the real her starts coming out, which may be completely different than what you were led to believe. When a woman likes you, she's on her best behavior, turns into a chameleon, likes what you like, doesn't let her attitude slip out, etc.
Brandeezy
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Brehs I need help on this
So I work next door to a Subway where I go to eat a couple times a week. There's this chick that works there that I have small talk with, mainly about work but I always catch her staring at me and smiling. I think she knows I like her because she came in late one day rocking tight ass leggings wearing a thong
so I had to look and I think she caught me but didn't say anything. Today it was very obvious and when I caught her staring she started laughing, it was awkward as fukk but 
I didn't know what to say so we said our goodbyes and that was that. I don't have a name though since she doesn't wear her name badge but a coworker I work with knows her coworker and he's at the store right now so I could text to go over there and ask for her number but that sounds bytch made. I don't know how to approach this situation brehs, any help?
@Emperor_ReinScarf
So I work next door to a Subway where I go to eat a couple times a week. There's this chick that works there that I have small talk with, mainly about work but I always catch her staring at me and smiling. I think she knows I like her because she came in late one day rocking tight ass leggings wearing a thong
so I had to look and I think she caught me but didn't say anything. Today it was very obvious and when I caught her staring she started laughing, it was awkward as fukk but I didn't know what to say so we said our goodbyes and that was that. I don't have a name though since she doesn't wear her name badge but a coworker I work with knows her coworker and he's at the store right now so I could text to go over there and ask for her number but that sounds bytch made. I don't know how to approach this situation brehs, any help?@Emperor_ReinScarf
its true
id say the first 3-5 months are fake, a woman is only focus on you due to novelty and impression then once that wears off you see all these other dudes popping up who hid in teh background
Yep, I had to learn this the hard way. For better or worse it's made be a little bit jaded. Compliments from the opposite sex as well as very forward gestures the first couple months do absolutely nothing for me anymore lol.
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Brehs I need help on this
So I work next door to a Subway where I go to eat a couple times a week. There's this chick that works there that I have small talk with, mainly about work but I always catch her staring at me and smiling. I think she knows I like her because she came in late one day rocking tight ass leggings wearing a thong
@Emperor_ReinScarf
first off if you get rejected would you still go back to that subway?
Second when a opportunity presents itself I stand by the motto of taken it, your always complaining about your height, or you don't think your attractive enough and what do you know you have a chick giggling, flirting and all that.
I'd just go next time and make small talk, ask her what is name is, how long she's been working here, etc. etc. and take it from there
The funny thing every girl i ever been with, sexually, romantically, casually its in the the first three months that high when your the only person they invest it, only one relationship shockingly my first that lasted 3 years, was it slow and steady and no l word dropped or pumping up my ego like reebok shoes early
its sad how now i have to hold all my cards, and teh thing is if you dont express yourself early then oh your not interested and she hops to the next dude
Honestly, that's why I'm not interested in 'gaming' women. You're essentially doing the same thing as her, which is put up this fake facade, in order to impress her in order to get something from her. Essentially, that means both you of you are being fake, and when it comes down to it, in a few months time, when both of you are tired of putting up an act, then you won't even know if you really like each other because both of you you were attached to the fake images both of you were putting out. I think if you want something genuine, you're always going to get less quantity, but the quality will be much higher. If I can't catch a woman off of my natural personality, I don't want her. It means I'll have to forego some fine women, but really, that's no big loss. If she doesn't like my natural personality, there is nothing there.