Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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@Londilon
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as far as feeling bad...never feel bad for not doing something youre not comfortable doing. You live life for yourself only...not your parents, girlfriends, best friends, brothers or anybody because when shyt hits the fan youre the only one directly affected.
all i'm personally saying is to keep it real with her that way there are no regrets down the line regarding what you should or shouldnt have done. If she actually does desert you completely...be prepared to go into another gear to get her once you actually do want her.
breh, naw. lol
Yeah, at least I kept it real but I might have lost a good one.
Was the woman bluffing in your situation?
The key is to never let the woman control the interaction. If you're not ready to go faster, let her know exactly what it is and if she can't accept the terms of those offers, let her go. If you're not ready to rush into a relationship, just be straight up with her and let her know that you'd like to be with her, but you're not going to rush into a relationship. ALWAYS keep your terms up front and let a woman know what it is. IF you let her push you around initially, she'll always be pushing you around. The best thing you can do as a man is let a woman walk if she can't get with YOUR program. YOU are the leader. She's not wrong for not wanting to accept your offer, but you're not wrong for not wanting to be rushed into a relationship. It may simply mean that she's not the right woman for your program.
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Brehs I need help on this
So I work next door to a Subway where I go to eat a couple times a week. There's this chick that works there that I have small talk with, mainly about work but I always catch her staring at me and smiling. I think she knows I like her because she came in late one day rocking tight ass leggings wearing a thongso I had to look and I think she caught me but didn't say anything. Today it was very obvious and when I caught her staring she started laughing, it was awkward as fukk but
I didn't know what to say so we said our goodbyes and that was that. I don't have a name though since she doesn't wear her name badge but a coworker I work with knows her coworker and he's at the store right now so I could text to go over there and ask for her number but that sounds bytch made. I don't know how to approach this situation brehs, any help?
@Emperor_ReinScarf
Breh.. if you think she likes you like that and are pretty confident about it then take these little talks a little further. Ask the name, ask some other random questions that you might not necessarily care about but that's not the point. It will show your interest. Women will make the first move but sometimes their "move" is very subtle. All this staring and giggling might mean that she's kind of putting it out there for you to come over and take action.
You need to progress these talks. That's the first thing. I wouldn't go get her number from someone else. I'd do it myself.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
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Brehs I need help on this
So I work next door to a Subway where I go to eat a couple times a week. There's this chick that works there that I have small talk with, mainly about work but I always catch her staring at me and smiling. I think she knows I like her because she came in late one day rocking tight ass leggings wearing a thong
@Emperor_ReinScarf
breh you bet not tell no other dude to get a number for you.
shyt just spit at her and tell her "do you always stare and smile at all ya customers or am I the lucky one?" most likely she'll laugh and say some shyt denying it. Then say "you know I been reading this mind reading book lately and my brain is telling me you gone call tonight. Lemme see some paper to write my number"if she calls you or texts then its a done deal.
and that was freestyle
There's a girl that's always been on my radar but there was always something in the way (us being involved with other people, cockblocking friends, different directions in career/life) .
Every time we've ran into each other since our college days , I can just feel the chemistry vibe between us. She came in my job Tuesday and we caught up a little bit . Turns out she works at a building a block away
Thinking about hitting her up to go to happy hour this week. She might be seeing someone and I'll look into that before I think about going further. It's just crazy that I've known her for over 12 years and there was always something in the way from connecting with each other.
Not so much now. Gonna finally see what's up
Every time we've ran into each other since our college days , I can just feel the chemistry vibe between us. She came in my job Tuesday and we caught up a little bit . Turns out she works at a building a block away
Thinking about hitting her up to go to happy hour this week. She might be seeing someone and I'll look into that before I think about going further. It's just crazy that I've known her for over 12 years and there was always something in the way from connecting with each other.
Not so much now. Gonna finally see what's up
ReadOneBookAWeek
Smoking on a Cac Pack
1. If you're looking for a faithful woman, don't expect to find her in a club/party setting.
2. Get yourself right as a man and women will fall in line
3. You should believe YOU are the greatest man on earth otherwise no women will ever look @ you and see someone worth turning down every other man for.
4. Be happy with life with or without a woman
2. Get yourself right as a man and women will fall in line
3. You should believe YOU are the greatest man on earth otherwise no women will ever look @ you and see someone worth turning down every other man for.
4. Be happy with life with or without a woman
ReadOneBookAWeek
Smoking on a Cac Pack
Powerful statement, yet many men never find that place. I believe that is what sets great men apart from the rest, an unwavering faith in knowing you are and how powerful you truly are.
Its society and validation.
Society says success is a big house, luxury car, nice paying job beautiful wife and kids.
But you can have all that and feel empty inside
Society says success is a big house, luxury car, nice paying job beautiful wife and kids.
But you can have all that and feel empty inside
ReadOneBookAWeek
Smoking on a Cac Pack
I had to learn not to hold any resentment towards a w
True. i believe being diligent in whatever your purpose is on earth is what fulfills us as men, which is why im making it a goal to be positive and productive with all the time that i have left on earth. I believe joy can also come from bringing other people joy, i.e. you reap what you sow.