Something most men won't admit is how backwards and idiotic the actual dating scene is... to the point of most men not even really having fun, but dealing with women only because they feel that's what they are supposed to be doing.
Unless you got one of those rare gems, how many dudes really feel at complete ease with a woman, as in able to relax and not worry about what she's doing? How many dudes feel like the woman they are with is actually supportive of what they are doing and really wants them to succeed as opposed to using them to tick off something on her checklist?
I mean even on here, you've seen examples of women praising these simps they are dealing with, but when you ask what they are doing in return for them, the answer is nothing.
You can't really do too much nice things for the woman you're dealing with because she'll think you're a simp and put you in a provider category. If you are 'there' for her and listen to her problems, she'll think you're her complaint buddy. The only guy she really rewards is the guy that doesn't pay her much attention and essentially uses her. It feels like to have a relationship with the average western woman, you have to treat them like they really don't matter and are interchangeable parts that can easily be replaced, but really, who wants to build a relationship with someone they look at as a cog that can be thrown away tomorrow and replaced with no problems?
There is so much work that needs to be done to reverse the damage done by this feminist culture and these simps. Even if you got a woman, she thinks it's ok to go to the club, go on vacations without you to exotic locales with her homegirls, can't cook, can't clean, etc. and for some reason still thinks her presence is golden.
The dating scene pretty much has devolved into treating women who bring nothing to the table as if they are worth little, because it psychologically convinces them that you are some kind of challenge.
What you have to do to keep an average woman interested is so taxing that I'm simply not going to waste my time doing it.
1) Act like you don't care, are nonchalant about her
2) Don't talk too much about yourself and what you're interested in because it will make you look less mysterious
3) Constantly check her for the utterly disrespectful and insane suggestions that she will bring up like can she hang with her 'homeboy' or some other such nonsense
4) Don't buy her too much or take her to dinner too soon or too often because she might look at you as a meals on wheels simp
5) Don't listen to her problems too much because she might look at you as a complaint buddy
6) Bring nonstop drama to the table so she can get her emotional fix
7) Always prepare to dump her at the drop of a dime if she gets too disrespectful and always prepare for her to leave at any moment.
Women want the man they are in a relationship to pay for all kinds of stuff like their school, dinners, hair, nails, rent, etc., while she does NOTHING for him. In fact, she's probably taking his money and giving it to the dude she's seeing on the side. Is it any wonder now that according to those statistics that only 48% of kids are born in a traditional, two-parent home? How can a healthy, long-lasting relationship exist in such an insane environment?
compared to the other chicks I've been dealing with. I'll see what the deal is when we get up this weekend.
but I'm not worried about that right now because I still look and feel young. I don't go after any particular age group I think it's all a case by case scenario.
You did what you had to do. She def tried to hit that switcharoo on you, Salute for not letting her dictate what you needed to do for her.
