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question for y'all.....

I want to cut this girl off, but I want her to suffer a little bit first :ehh:

She's highly annoyed if I don't answer the phone. Like it really annoys her to be ignored. One time she pissed me off and I quit talking to her for like 2 weeks....and she kept calling almost every day. LOL. I just let the phone ring.

So, should I just not answer the phone(let it ring on her end) or have her number sent straight to voicemail?
 

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question for y'all.....

I want to cut this girl off, but I want her to suffer a little bit first :ehh:

She's highly annoyed if I don't answer the phone. Like it really annoys her to be ignored. One time she pissed me off and I quit talking to her for like 2 weeks....and she kept calling almost every day. LOL. I just let the phone ring.

So, should I just not answer the phone(let it ring on her end) or have her number sent straight to voicemail?

she suffering already as it is....seein as how she callin you everyday and you ain't answering.

Just block her number and delete it. Don't give her closure, explanations, nothing. Block and delete.
 

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:yeshrug: just going to take another break from dealing with these women until mayne the spring time. I got other shyt to deal with on my plate at the moment.

Exactly how Im feeling right now.

I've got a list to get through this year, its sunday but I cant be looking at ex's profiles. its tempting to reconcile especially when i ended it but i aint about to open old wounds.

Literally just ended my roaster. I wont be active. if they come they come.
 

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When it comes down to it, life is not about being angry, striking back at women, etc. It's about consciously making a choice to filter out who you deal with and it's about doing your best to only deal with people who have your best intentions in mind long-term. I don't think any of us here are angry despite what people try to say. Most of us were angry when we came to the table with that simped out attitude and found out what a woman we were dealing with was REALLY doing. Cutting out a woman who doesn't value your time isn't bitter or unhappy. It's a methodology that makes you BETTER and more happy. You don't have a fruitful garden by allowing the weeds to grow and overtake everything.

Do a lot of the measures we say on here sound a bit 'extreme' or too hard-edged? Sure, they sound hard-edged until you start to realize real quickly who is screwing around and wasting your time and who isn't. You become proficient in cutting people out who are wasting one of your most precious resources, which is your time.

When it comes down to it, one of the realest quotes you will learn about a woman is that she will do what you allow her to get away with. If you want something from a woman, you have to DEMAND it. If you don't make a woman deal with you respectfully, you're going to let a whole bunch in the door who are going to play with your emotions all day. If a woman knows she has a get out of jail free card by hinting at sex, what do you think she's going to hold over your head all day?
There are billions of women on this planet and all of them have vaginas, so I don't know why guys choose to suffer over something that's as common as dirt. The real issue is guys need to DEMAND respect if a woman is to enter into his presence. Cutting off a woman that doesn't is a powerful solution. Think about the woman who made you regret treating her bad. Is it the one that always lets you come back no matter how much you screw her over or is it the one that completely cut contact with you and moved on? The latter is the one that you think about 'getting away.' Why? Because there were repercussions behind your messed up actions and she FORCED you to respect her or get dismissed.

Respect is one of the most important things you can get from a woman, and if you have her respect, all of the other benefits come with that. On the other hand, if you don't have her respect, she's going to take what few benefits she does bring and use them to manipulate you all day. Stop letting these broads pop in and out when they feel, play the busy game or talk fly. If she can't respect you, then she gotta go mane
 

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The temptation of attempting reconciliation is strongest at this point. The point where men are broken or hardened. Can't wait for my heart to be hard as a diamond

Matthew 13:15
For the hearts of these people are hardened, and their ears cannot hear, and they have closed their eyes--so their eyes cannot see, and their ears cannot hear, and their hearts cannot understand, and they cannot turn to me and let me heal them.'

Here is Jesus talking about the end times:
Matthew 24
9 Then you will be handed over to be persecuted and put to death, and you will be hated by all nations because of me. 10 At that time many will turn away from the faith and will betray and hate each other, 11 and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. 12 Because of the increase of wickedness, the love of most will grow cold, 13 but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved.
Don't allow your heart to harden. That's when the enemy wins. Just be a very selective in who you give your heart to.
 

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Spend less time worrying about this or that particular woman and instead focus on getting your life right with God, enjoying times with your friends and family, increasing your knowledge and getting your career right, etc. There is TOO much to enjoy in life and too much joy to be had to be pondering over some disrespectful broad, whether it's an ex or whether it's a woman you are currently talking to. Keeping disrespectful people out of your life is like pulling weeds. It's critical if you want your garden to grow.
 

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lol i cussed my ex out the other day :troll: . Told her she was a good for nothing hoe and bussdown :pacspit:. told her the whole city ran thru her stank p*ssy :pacspit:. told her she aint shyt to me :pacspit:. Felt bad afterward cuz i do have love for her but the bish played me :wtb:

good thing there's no shortage of dimes out here :sas2:
 

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it's funny how these women come on so strong at first.

i equate it to you being a 5 star recruit, you get the attention the letters they are trying to woo you, but you tear your acl or whatever and well that letter of intent gets taken away.

in the beginning its all an illusion, that's not who she is or her character,w omen will tell you everything to stroke your ego, your the hottest guy ever, the biggest dikk, she never felt this way before, she thought about you all day long bla bla its all flattery, flattering tongue usualyl leads to manipulation, she's charming you, its the novelty, the dopamine, learning all about you, then once that dies they go cold
 

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question for y'all.....

I want to cut this girl off, but I want her to suffer a little bit first :ehh:

She's highly annoyed if I don't answer the phone. Like it really annoys her to be ignored. One time she pissed me off and I quit talking to her for like 2 weeks....and she kept calling almost every day. LOL. I just let the phone ring.

So, should I just not answer the phone(let it ring on her end) or have her number sent straight to voicemail?

women hate being ignored, because in thsi generation they thrive off the attention of currency, its like a crack addict who needs their fix and your not giving it to them. Especially if she's pretty her whole life she has had men grovelling and accepting her disrespect and tactics, like i said a drowning person panics when faced with confusion and frustration, instead of thinking calm and logical.

I would just continue to ignore, I don't have to give an explanation to anyone why you no longer meet my standards, women want closure,w omen want to know they meant something to you at point
 

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Exactly how Im feeling right now.

I've got a list to get through this year, its sunday but I cant be looking at ex's profiles. its tempting to reconcile especially when i ended it but i aint about to open old wounds.

Literally just ended my roaster. I wont be active. if they come they come.

block everything, facebook and instagram and oscial media is fake and gives off a illusion. People filter out the bad in their life knowing exes and other individuals are stalking or looking at hte page so you only see what they want you see.
 

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When it comes down to it, life is not about being angry, striking back at women, etc. It's about consciously making a choice to filter out who you deal with and it's about doing your best to only deal with people who have your best intentions in mind long-term. I don't think any of us here are angry despite what people try to say. Most of us were angry when we came to the table with that simped out attitude and found out what a woman we were dealing with was REALLY doing. Cutting out a woman who doesn't value your time isn't bitter or unhappy. It's a methodology that makes you BETTER and more happy. You don't have a fruitful garden by allowing the weeds to grow and overtake everything.

Do a lot of the measures we say on here sound a bit 'extreme' or too hard-edged? Sure, they sound hard-edged until you start to realize real quickly who is screwing around and wasting your time and who isn't. You become proficient in cutting people out who are wasting one of your most precious resources, which is your time.

When it comes down to it, one of the realest quotes you will learn about a woman is that she will do what you allow her to get away with. If you want something from a woman, you have to DEMAND it. If you don't make a woman deal with you respectfully, you're going to let a whole bunch in the door who are going to play with your emotions all day. If a woman knows she has a get out of jail free card by hinting at sex, what do you think she's going to hold over your head all day?
There are billions of women on this planet and all of them have vaginas, so I don't know why guys choose to suffer over something that's as common as dirt. The real issue is guys need to DEMAND respect if a woman is to enter into his presence. Cutting off a woman that doesn't is a powerful solution. Think about the woman who made you regret treating her bad. Is it the one that always lets you come back no matter how much you screw her over or is it the one that completely cut contact with you and moved on? The latter is the one that you think about 'getting away.' Why? Because there were repercussions behind your messed up actions and she FORCED you to respect her or get dismissed.

Respect is one of the most important things you can get from a woman, and if you have her respect, all of the other benefits come with that. On the other hand, if you don't have her respect, she's going to take what few benefits she does bring and use them to manipulate you all day. Stop letting these broads pop in and out when they feel, play the busy game or talk fly. If she can't respect you, then she gotta go mane

Pretty much, like I said any woman I cut out of my life they handed me the scissors. I'm not emotionless, I just value my dignity and self respect for myeslf above all.

I don't even get angry anymore at the things women do, if there is any emotion that pops up its disappointment mainly because I thought highly of her than I should have and allowed her in my circle, quickly followed by relief because I've seen her true colors and can get on with my life without wasting any more time.

It's kind of when you messed up as a teenager and your mom or dad wouldn't even get angry, they'd just be silent eating dinner with that look of utter disappointment on their face, and you wish they would yell and scream but its just like pass the potatoes

And yeah no one is saying it's easy, when a broad pops back up and she's fine and shes offering everything on a platter to draw you back in
 
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