Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Papa LaBas]

My situation is different though. Not looking to seriously date these hoes. I'm 23, looking for chicks who I can just kick it with and fukk...nothing more than that.

I'm working in southern Europe for a year right now and only have 5 months left out here. Want nothing from this girl but being able to chill with her and have her as part of my team. You're saying run like I'm trying to wife her or something. Just as a short term consistent smash you still think I should run?

theres your answer. broads who want to fukk you...will fukk you. none of this tom & jerry bullshyt. lol

if a chick is naked and you dont end up fukkin....bushes. i would go ghost on her and if she hits you up again and asks why you curved her, say you dont like fence sitters. it depends on your tolerance level tho. i dont like petty shyt

or if you TRULY want to go in...if shes really on that friend shyt, start spittin at her cousins or homegirls. lol see how much shes on that friend shyt after that.

 

[Papa LaBas]

that last minute resistance...

its a game to them. they want to be coerced into it, so they can justify it to themselves that..."it just happened". that they themselves didnt make a conscious decision that she decided to fukk you. its the fact that you lead her into it that will make her feel better the next morning. lol some want to make you work for it so they make you feel like you earned it and they didnt just outright give that thang up.

on some you gotta shoot that verbal intercourse to slide the panties off so they feel like..."one thing just led to another".

 

[360dagod]

My situation is different though. Not looking to seriously date these hoes. I'm 23, looking for chicks who I can just kick it with and fukk...nothing more than that.

I'm working in southern Europe for a year right now and only have 5 months left out here. Want nothing from this girl but being able to chill with her and have her as part of my team. You're saying run like I'm trying to wife her or something. Just as a short term consistent smash you still think I should run?

were u the breh that made the thread about the hoodrat waitresses awhile back?

The point im making is, if this broad got naked and didn't let you hit, why set up the potential 2ndether by going over there and going thru the same bullshyt again?

Because she would def have position on the chess board..

Women who want to fukk, will rationalize in their head to do so when it appears that their being hoeish...As someone alluded to..

Which means you gotta make them feel like they not being hoes..

fingering shouldn't even be an option...

Rubbing and Kissing along with a lil talkative 4play does the trick

You said you initially had plans to never see her again...I would stick to that..

We all take losses

 

[12345677]

were u the breh that made the thread about the hoodrat waitresses awhile back?

The point im making is, if this broad got naked and didn't let you hit, why set up the potential 2ndether by going over there and going thru the same bullshyt again?

Because she would def have position on the chess board..

Women who want to fukk, will rationalize in their head to do so when it appears that their being hoeish...As someone alluded to..

Which means you gotta make them feel like they not being hoes..

fingering shouldn't even be an option...

Rubbing and Kissing along with a lil talkative 4play does the trick

You said you initially had plans to never see her again...I would stick to that..

We all take losses

Yeah that was me...but what does that have to do with anything?

I wouldn't call it an ether man....I've been with chicks who take it step by step like that. If I come through this weekend and fukk would it be an L? Nah. Plus it was the second time I've met her ever....I can see why she'd be reluctant to give it up like that.

You talkin about chess boards...this shyt isn't chess...or checkers, it's tic-tac-toe my g. I already know she fukks with me, which makes going through that bullshyt again not an option. I already have two in a row down...now it's about coming through and getting the third. Main reason for asking about this shyt was to see where she was coming from with the "best friend" shyt even tho her actions said otherwise

 

[360dagod]

Yeah that was me...but what does that have to do with anything?[/B]

I wouldn't call it an ether man....I've been with chicks who take it step by step like that. If I come through this weekend and fukk would it be an L? Nah. Plus it was the second time I've met her ever....I can see why she'd be reluctant to give it up like that.

You talkin about chess boards...this shyt isn't chess...or checkers, it's tic-tac-toe my g. I already know she fukks with me, which makes going through that bullshyt again not an option. I already have two in a row down...now it's about coming through and getting the third. Main reason for asking about this shyt was to see where she was coming from with the "best friend" shyt even tho her actions said otherwise

nah, I was curious to know how it turned out...

As far as homegirl, its already been explained really...gameplaying+not wanting to be seen as a slut

 

[RealAssanova]

the one thing i've realized with this flaking business is, chicks flake a lot when you haven't fuccked them. after u've fuccked, i've found that they never do and if they have to cancel for wahtever reason, they are quick to suggest other times to meet up.

the reason i bring that up is, whenever u do meet a chick and u fucck, dont fucck her thinking haa, i'm hitting it now, im sure i'll be hitting it again. nah. u goto fucck her like thats the last time u gon fucck. so when she leaves that night, u have engraved urself in her head.

but i'll tell you this, if a chick flakes u, the best thing u can do is.....SAY NOTHING!!!!!

her: hey, sorry i cant make it tonight
you:
an hour later
her: you there?
you: who's this?
her:it's like that?
you: huh?
her: whatever
you:
next day or a couple of days later
her: hey
you: what's good
her: what you doing tonight
you: <you close the deal here>

that's what silence gets you. if you haven't fuccked a chick yet, never ever display ur anger to her when she flakes. that reeks of desperation. matter of fact, only time i flip out on chicks for flaking or being late is when we going out to eat. outside of that, i hit them with the silence.

slipping in "who's this" that early, especially since she knows ya'll had plans, is butthurt. I agree with the silence part, but after she messages you, asking "you there", i still wouldn't bother responding. Maybe the 3rd time, i'll say aight or cool.

But at the same time, i don't like letting females off that easily...which is why i prefer silence.

 

[Ohene]

slipping in "who's this" that early, especially since she knows ya'll had plans, is butthurt. I agree with the silence part, but after she messages you, asking "you there", i still wouldn't bother responding. Maybe the 3rd time, i'll say aight or cool.

But at the same time, i don't like letting females off that easily...which is why i prefer silence.

nothing wrong with being butthurt. stop caring bout what they think about you

 

[kevm3]

Yeah that was me...but what does that have to do with anything?

I wouldn't call it an ether man....I've been with chicks who take it step by step like that. If I come through this weekend and fukk would it be an L? Nah. Plus it was the second time I've met her ever....I can see why she'd be reluctant to give it up like that.

You talkin about chess boards...this shyt isn't chess...or checkers, it's tic-tac-toe my g. I already know she fukks with me, which makes going through that bullshyt again not an option. I already have two in a row down...now it's about coming through and getting the third. Main reason for asking about this shyt was to see where she was coming from with the "best friend" shyt even tho her actions said otherwise

Honestly man, she sounds weird with all the best friend stuff. You should avoid her in my personal opinion. Getting an extra notch on your belt isn't worth being at the mercy of some woman who could flip things on you at any time. What I said about her having regrets is she could start feeling 'guilty' and get those 'whore feelings' and then flip everything into as if you forced her into doing something she didn't want to do. If she wasn't trying to take it there, she could have simply said,"Look, I don't know you like that, but I don't want to move too fast." Instead, she's playing some weird best friend game. Sometimes if a situation looks sketchy, leave it be. Your freedom isn't worth one entertaining night.

 

[Womb Raider]

Aye bruhs, lemme get y'alls take on a situation I got going on.

Had a Tinder date with a chick last week. It was okay, but she was wasn't really my type at all and I had no plans of ever seeing her again. She originally was saying she just wanted to be friends blah blah blah before we met, jokingly calling me her best friend, but me being the cocky nikka I am and knowing what I'm capable of I figured I could still smash even though she said that. During the date she was giving off the 'just friends' vibe, so I mentally hit her with the mid date, even though she was pretty sexy.

During the week after the date she would text me, and I was short...barely caring, and ignoring her most of the time if I was doing something. She texts me on Friday and somehow she ended up inviting me to her apartment. "Just to hang out" She said...nothing sexual. I wasn't doing anything that night so figured this is the last time I'm going to try to hook up with her. If this fails.....bushes.

I get there Friday and it's like she's a different girl. Funny, smart, just really enjoyably to kick it with. One thing led to another and I ended up getting her naked in bed after giving her a massage. I try to kiss her at first and she's like "no....best friends aren't allowed to kiss me"...but then a few minutes later she lets me kiss her. She did this with everything, she'd say no when I tried to take her bra off...then she took it off. She said no, when I started felling on her booty, then she let me feel on her booty. I try to finger her and she's bucks me off so I didn't try again after that. She was telling me earlier in the night how she tells dudes she just wants to be friends and not hook up on Tinder and they don't think she's serious, and she ends up throwing em in the bushes. I'm thinking to myself "you said you just wanted to be friends with me and I got you naked grindin your ass on my dikk" So I'm not sure what to believe. What do y'all think this chick's motives are?

Bruh, get outta there. I know you saying that you just wanna kick it and fukk but this doesn't sound like the type of girl that's down for that. She sounds like a headcase to completely honest with you, that p*ssy is a trap.

 

[12345677]

Thanks for the responses. If any new shyt happens I'll let yall know how it goes down.

 

[kevm3]

That 'networking thread' shows you why it's pointless to argue with females. 40+pages and mami still hasn't said she is wrong or moved one inch from her position that she's done nothing wrong, even in spite of the fact that not one person defended her and even females didn't step in. The fortitude is admirable really.

 

[MikelArteta]

That 'networking thread' shows you why it's pointless to argue with females. 40+pages and mami still hasn't said she is wrong or moved one inch from her position that she's done nothing wrong, even in spite of the fact that not one person defended her and even females didn't step in. The fortitude is admirable really.

pretty much
arguments are a womans battle field

 

[kevm3]

pretty much
arguments are a womans battle field

They don't even win by being logical or being right. They win by repeating the same point over and over, maybe outyelling you or just trying to make you feel like you're the bad guy for calling them out.

 

[MikelArteta]

They don't even win by being logical or being right. They win by repeating the same point over and over, maybe outyelling you or just trying to make you feel like you're the bad guy for calling them out.

deflections, victim blaming, crying, yelling, screaming, swearing

just not worth it

i dont even get drawn into that ish, as she gets heated and angry I just say allright

 

[jadillac]

I dealt with this broad in '12 who would cut herself live on the phone with me saying nobody cares about her.
then she'd tell me to tell her I love her so she could stop.



I never banged.

somebody else was.....and that's likely why her mind was all messed up. They smash & dash, don't tell her they love her obviously.

But she had you there to be her "pick me up".

Like someone else said, it's better to be her problem than her problem solver.