Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:ohhh: This is actually very true for me. I know the women of the coli don't want to hear it but I get looks now from all ages and that wasn't happening when I was 21. :heh:

I have a lot of friends that went the :flabbynsick: route or have even been married and now divorced and they gained a gang a weight, etc.. My thought was always like why the fukk are you 26 acting like your life is over? :what: shyt never made sense to me. :manny:

Your situation is a tough one. I know exactly what you mean by feeling "weird" about her age. I say... as long as she's legal AND doesnt display any signs of being a stalker/super thirsty/crazy then you should be good to go. Do not show her any form of attachment or serious interest though. Draw the line and make your intentions clear.

But to your other point...

Yeah, staying in shape and being professionally successful as you age is a golden ticket to many a young woman. When I was 21 compared to where I am now... sheeeeeeeeit. Good luck my dude. :salute:
 

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One day in high school I realized that the worst thing you can do to a woman is bore her. Thats why they dont like nice guys. Ever since then I treat them lyke shyt, cuz its the only thing they respect.
She would rather complain to her girls for hours that you dont treat her right then have to simply say "Im happy"

And isnt that a god damn shame? From when I was young to now, I definitely have gone from the nice guy to being someone who doesnt pander or succumb to some of these ladies unruly requests or demands. Get on my level or KIM ladies.
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And isnt that a god damn shame? From when I was young to now, I definitely have gone from the nice guy to being someone who doesnt pander or succumb to some of these ladies unruly requests or demands. Get on my level or KIM ladies.
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im still the same guy I've always been just that once someone crosses my boundaries bye, if someone flakes bye
 

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One day in high school I realized that the worst thing you can do to a woman is bore her. Thats why they dont like nice guys. Ever since then I treat them lyke shyt, cuz its the only thing they respect.
She would rather complain to her girls for hours that you dont treat her right then have to simply say "Im happy"

nice guys are people pleasers and have no back bone

I'm a good person and i aint changing for no one, thing is i'm not a people pleaser nor am i afraid to say no, nor am I afraid to just walk away
 

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nice guys are people pleasers and have no back bone

I'm a good person and i aint changing for no one, thing is i'm not a people pleaser nor am i afraid to say no, nor am I afraid to just walk away

Exactly. I'm not going to be over here changing up because some broad is attracted to twisted personality traits. I'm cool being alone until I can find a woman that syncs up with my nature. I'm not going to let some broad use me, nor will I treat women like trash to keep them around.
 

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After months and months of persevering and working on myself instead of getting caught up with these girls, I'm 4 days away from an interview for a graduate role at one of the four largest banks in the world :blessed:

I haven't got the job yet (I pray to God that I do) but this goes to show how opportunities open up for you when you're focusing on yourself.
 

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Exactly. I'm not going to be over here changing up because some broad is attracted to twisted personality traits. I'm cool being alone until I can find a woman that syncs up with my nature. I'm not going to let some broad use me, nor will I treat women like trash to keep them around.

yep, I mean yes you can win in the short term and maybe even long term by treating women like trash as for some they like that, the challenge of trying to change an "a$$hole" or a man that treats em like garbage into a good man. If that's her cup of tea cool find a man like that, theres many all over. As for me I'll treat her like I treat everyone with kindness, compassion and respect, but if she underestimates me and thinks i'm some simp and can take advantage of me, well she has another thing coming :mjlol:
 
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