Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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virtually no reward

In reality what is the reward dealing with most women, sex? eh probably 10-15 other dudes already got it, not special or hard to attain, just make it to the third date with most of these chicks and you get it.

Having a beautiful woman on your arm? if you've had it before you know its not really that special meh

if your lucky you get love and to most women its just a fleeting emotion.

I always tell men think of every women you dated or have been in your life, now think how many added positive to your life and brought it joy, remove those blinders and think long and hard. Most men would be lucky to name one or two women.
 

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Talkin to 2 chicks so we'll see where it leads. I feel good b/c I'm not looking for anything serious and they're both strong 7's so win or lose I could care less. :yeshrug:

I'm seeing how many women are in the sea. I'm not pressed bout none of em.
 
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let it out we've all taken major L's brehs

look i've been there sleeping with a chick, her telling me all this, how much she cares, talking about the future and all that, and this went on for months and months, then one day I get hit with the i'm going out on a date tonight and im like :dahell:, and then your a great friend that's why i'm telling you. Yeah a great friend and you were riding me a few days, a great friend and you were pouring out your emotions talking about the future etc.

this is EXACTLY what happened to me breh .. that's why there isn't much to tell.. i fell for every word.. i kinda knew in the back of my head that shyt ain't right but i went along with it...

when i stopped falling for it, shyt went down hard and quick..like the titanic. didn't take much long for the real person to show..
 

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this is EXACTLY what happened to me breh .. that's why there isn't much to tell.. i fell for every word.. i kinda knew in the back of my head that shyt ain't right but i went along with it...

when i stopped falling for it, shyt went down hard and quick..like the titanic. didn't take much long for the real person to show..

It's hard especially when the actions and the words somewhat sync up, its like 500 days of summer except your actually sex and all that
 

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Im not getting my girl flowers I hope it doesnt backfire, I am getting her chocolate covered strawberrys which she asked for, Im taking her to a play she wants to go see, of course dinner, and im getting her 2 gifts
 

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What's going on fellas. Been a while. I don't really post in here often but I try to keep an eye on this thread when I can. Most of the homies that post here regularly are familiar with me. I'm on a deployment right now in Qatar and I'm having a great time here. Listen to what people are saying, travel. I've met some of the most beautiful women in my life, downtown. There are people from all over the world here. Everyone here for the same reason, to get this money. Really makes me not want to head back stateside. Anyway, I'm just out here flexing both physically and mentally. You fellas really need to get out there and live. Don't spend too much time in this thread. Hope everyone is doing well.

my point exactly. i see too many people dedicating too much time to this thread. go out and have fun yall.
 

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I feel you. Just take bits and pieces and incorporate that into what you want to do. Go out and test the waters, trial by fire. Come back to brush up or if you feel like you might be slipping. That's it. No need to live in this thread. It could do more harm than good.
 

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Idk bout the porn thing. I cant say whether it helps or hurts...

JUST met this Blasian :banderas: Meeting up a Dave & Busters for a drink after I get off work.

Now this chick is def a 8+ :whoo: A little clingy I'm noticing tho
 

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Idk bout the porn thing. I cant say whether it helps or hurts...

JUST met this Blasian :banderas: Meeting up a Dave & Busters for a drink after I get off work.

Now this chick is def a 8+ :whoo: A little clingy I'm noticing tho

i wanna hear good news about this. so within 48 hours , u need to be reporting back here about how u handled business with her. dont disappoint me now. ok, let's make that 72 hours.
 

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nikka this is terrible advice :russ:

LOL.....I think the overall sentiment behind it is somewhat plausible. BUT it's a very fine balance, and "alot" isn't the right word.

In the sense that when you're horny you can/will do stupid stuff. Many women know it and will manipulate men, they'll use sex (or withholding it) over a man to take him for money, power in the relationship, etc.

You can be with a woman and be throwing money away on buying her gifts, dinners, giving her valuable time, etc b/c you're horny...while she's doing nothing more thna leading you on sexually to get things she wants.

But a "release" :whew:, so to speak, can take away the power she has over you. And it can also make you see her for what/who she really is. Good or bad.
 
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