Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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nope, straight out of undergrad...probably will pursue my MBA somewhere down the line. Tell your friend to check out www.caseinterview.com, this dude Victor Cheng will help your boy ace those interviews :lawd:

you made it. are you an MBA? my bro in law works in consulting at a big 4 currently. manager level though. my friend is doing his MBA at rotman so i'm trying to hook him up with my brother in law to help him out. says he has been striking out on the interviews
 

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I'm planning on going to Japan next month. Honestly I can't lie, I've been feeling the effects of "oneitis" lately and decided to dead that shyt just now. I got into a state where shorty was on my mind all day and I started to get insecure about little shyt like wondering why she took 10 minutes or 1 hour to respond to my text. I'm damn near started analyzing any little shyt she responds to on Instagram because of that on some :laugh:. I'm gonna keep my cool and not say anything and just smash when I get there since she already talked about wanting me to fukk her and all that.
 

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I'm planning on going to Japan next month. Honestly I can't lie, I've been feeling the effects of "oneitis" lately and decided to dead that shyt just now. I got into a state where shorty was on my mind all day and I started to get insecure about little shyt like wondering why she took 10 minutes or 1 hour to respond to my text. I'm damn near started analyzing any little shyt she responds to on Instagram because of that on some :laugh:. I'm gonna keep my cool and not say anything and just smash when I get there since she already talked about wanting me to fukk her and all that.

u fukkim up breh

if she just fukk meat, then forget about if she ain't respond, just hit up the other chicks.
once you anticipate her response you give her power.
 

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I'm planning on going to Japan next month. Honestly I can't lie, I've been feeling the effects of "oneitis" lately and decided to dead that shyt just now. I got into a state where shorty was on my mind all day and I started to get insecure about little shyt like wondering why she took 10 minutes or 1 hour to respond to my text. I'm damn near started analyzing any little shyt she responds to on Instagram because of that on some :laugh:. I'm gonna keep my cool and not say anything and just smash when I get there since she already talked about wanting me to fukk her and all that.

oneitis is a disease

hop on tinder and set other stuff up in japan just in case women change like the wind.
 

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u fukkim up breh

if she just fukk meat, then forget about if she ain't respond, just hit up the other chicks.
once you anticipate her response you give her power.
She responds to all my messages. That's not the issue. I just got insecure and said something about it and I felt stupid. I start to "doubt" girls interest in me from time to time over the stupidest shyt and that stems from a scarcity of options on my part. She already said when I come to JP that she's coming to my hotel room with me and she already talked about sex with me and yadda yadda. My issue is me feeling like ":stopitslime: You probably say that to other guys too!" even though she tells me she doesn't talk to other guys the same way I do. I don't want to talk myself out of p*ssy because I've done that several times already. I get too emotionally invested into these chicks. I think what made me like that was about a week ago(a week ago!) we was on Skype chatting and while I was talking to her she just started tearing up out the blue. I was like :dahell: and she just said she wish she was with me in my room. I was like :noah: inside but on the outside i was like :ehh: but since then I started to feel funny like ":patrice: Is she really in love with me?? :blessed:.... :patrice: Maybe that's just now, she probably talk to other nikkas the same way!" She's introduced me to her mom, sis and grandma on camera but they think I'm just her english language exchange friend. :shaq:

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shyt sucks man.
 

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oneitis is a disease

hop on tinder and set other stuff up in japan just in case women change like the wind.
I got one other chick in Japan I know but I don't know where she stay at. I'm gonna hit her up and let her know I'll be there soon. I'm gonna try and secure at least 2-3 more chicks that's up there just in case. I doubt it but I get jealous easy and end up hating someone I don't even know.
 

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I'm planning on going to Japan next month. Honestly I can't lie, I've been feeling the effects of "oneitis" lately and decided to dead that shyt just now. I got into a state where shorty was on my mind all day and I started to get insecure about little shyt like wondering why she took 10 minutes or 1 hour to respond to my text. I'm damn near started analyzing any little shyt she responds to on Instagram because of that on some :laugh:. I'm gonna keep my cool and not say anything and just smash when I get there since she already talked about wanting me to fukk her and all that.
dont simp over one chick in Japan breh, when you get there you should have no problem getting laid unless you are extremely ugly.
 

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dont simp over one chick in Japan breh, when you get there you should have no problem getting laid unless you are extremely ugly.
I'm a fly dude :youngsabo:. If I don't mess with other chicks in Japan when I'm there that will most likely be my fault or if the chick comes over every day which I'm already going to tell her she should try and do(Well I'll tell her that after fukking her a few times :win:).
 
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She responds to all my messages. That's not the issue. I just got insecure and said something about it and I felt stupid. I start to "doubt" girls interest in me from time to time over the stupidest shyt and that stems from a scarcity of options on my part. She already said when I come to JP that she's coming to my hotel room with me and she already talked about sex with me and yadda yadda. My issue is me feeling like ":stopitslime: You probably say that to other guys too!" even though she tells me she doesn't talk to other guys the same way I do. I don't want to talk myself out of p*ssy because I've done that several times already. I get too emotionally invested into these chicks. I think what made me like that was about a week ago(a week ago!) we was on Skype chatting and while I was talking to her she just started tearing up out the blue. I was like :dahell: and she just said she wish she was with me in my room. I was like :noah: inside but on the outside i was like :ehh: but since then I started to feel funny like ":patrice: Is she really in love with me?? :blessed:.... :patrice: Maybe that's just now, she probably talk to other nikkas the same way!" She's introduced me to her mom, sis and grandma on camera but they think I'm just her english language exchange friend. :shaq:

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shyt sucks man.

That's pretty normal, I think we've all been there to an extent. If shyt ain't going exactly the way you envision it you start to doubt the whole thing but fukk it breh. If it doesn't work out what's the worst that will happen? You move on to something else? That's why everyone in here always say to have other options because you know whoever the chick is she got options too. If a girl is a 6 or better she gonna have a gang of nikkas trying to get at her. If she really is into you and only you it'll be quite apparent when you meet her. :manny:
 

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That's pretty normal, I think we've all been there to an extent. If shyt ain't going exactly the way you envision it you start to doubt the whole thing but fukk it breh. If it doesn't work out what's the worst that will happen? You move on to something else? That's why everyone in here always say to have other options because you know whoever the chick is she got options too. If a girl is a 6 or better she gonna have a gang of nikkas trying to get at her. If she really is into you and only you it'll be quite apparent when you meet her. :manny:
I got all lovey dovey with shorty I admit but that was after she was doing that for a while. She'd constantly be telling me she feel butterflies when she look at my pics and she'd be drawing over my pictures on her phone making hearts and shyt. She'd stay saying she loves me and she don't know why she loves me so much yadda yadda but that was like a couple weeks ago. Since I met her, she's consistently messaged me and replied to everything I said. She's always the one initiating and shyt. I started to tell her how I feel about her and she'd be all happy and shyt but idk.. I'll see when I get over there. I just don't want to ruin my chances by getting too insecure and jealous questioning little shyt like "WHY YOU SAY 'HOW ARE YOU?" TO THAT nikka ON YOUR INSTAGRAM?!?".

What y'all think I should do?? Just keep it normal and reply to her messages as usual?? Sometime she responds asap, sometimes 10 minutes to an hour. I usually respond asap since I be home and next to my phone on the PC. I think I'm going to just straight up be vague and less talkative and see if she says anything.
 
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I just checked my email and I got a email from HR at 4pm yesterday (friday) they want to take me toward the next step

have to fill out the criminal form, attach two photo ids and 3 references, brehs im crying :mjcry:

@Asantehene



Two years ago I was paying 800 a month for car insurance, had my ex draining my life my happiness, was just in a damn rut, thankful for my job but it was so far away from where I lived and I got shafted into a group where people tried to sabotage me, filled with anger and bitterness. Then :mjcry: God is so good :wow:, I've changed my whole life up, started working out twice a week, volunteering, tithing again in church, finally cut all ties with my ex, cut out toxic people out my life, let go off the hate and anger.

Now I'm so close to finally grasping what will turn my life totally around :wow:

never give up brehs, i cant lie i had zero faith i've been so used to disappointments,

3 nikkaz in 1 week :wow:

2015 brehs :wow:
 

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I got all lovey dovey with shorty I admit but that was after she was doing that for a while. She'd constantly be telling me she feel butterflies when she look at my pics and she'd be drawing over my pictures on her phone making hearts and shyt. She'd stay saying she loves me and she don't know why she loves me so much yadda yadda but that was like a couple weeks ago. Since I met her, she's consistently messaged me and replied to everything I said. She's always the one initiating and shyt. I started to tell her how I feel about her and she'd be all happy and shyt but idk.. I'll see when I get over there. I just don't want to ruin my chances by getting too insecure and jealous questioning little shyt like "WHY YOU SAY 'HOW ARE YOU?" TO THAT nikka ON YOUR INSTAGRAM?!?".

What y'all think I should do?? Just keep it normal and reply to her messages as usual?? Sometime she responds asap, sometimes 10 minutes to an hour. I usually respond asap since I be home and next to my phone on the PC. I think I'm going to just straight up be vague and less talkative and see if she says anything.

stop checking her instagram, dont do anything.

respond when you want to respond.

i travelled 3000 miles last year on vacation and before i went i was just trolling on tinder and matched with a model we talked every day like all the time, i went there and the whole 7 days i was down there we were together 24/7

who cares what guys shes talking to or how she replies, when you get there is what counts.

everything before is useless
 
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