Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I got all lovey dovey with shorty I admit but that was after she was doing that for a while. She'd constantly be telling me she feel butterflies when she look at my pics and she'd be drawing over my pictures on her phone making hearts and shyt. She'd stay saying she loves me and she don't know why she loves me so much yadda yadda but that was like a couple weeks ago. Since I met her, she's consistently messaged me and replied to everything I said. She's always the one initiating and shyt. I started to tell her how I feel about her and she'd be all happy and shyt but idk.. I'll see when I get over there. I just don't want to ruin my chances by getting too insecure and jealous questioning little shyt like "WHY YOU SAY 'HOW ARE YOU?" TO THAT nikka ON YOUR INSTAGRAM?!?".

What y'all think I should do?? Just keep it normal and reply to her messages as usual?? Sometime she responds asap, sometimes 10 minutes to an hour. I usually respond asap since I be home and next to my phone on the PC. I think I'm going to just straight up be vague and less talkative and see if she says anything.

stop checking her instagram, dont do anything.

respond when you want to respond.

i travelled 3000 miles last year on vacation and before i went i was just trolling on tinder and matched with a model we talked every day like all the time, i went there and the whole 7 days i was down there we were together 24/7

who cares what guys shes talking to or how she replies, when you get there is what counts.

everything before is useless
 

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stop checking her instagram, dont do anything.

respond when you want to respond.

i travelled 3000 miles last year on vacation and before i went i was just trolling on tinder and matched with a model we talked every day like all the time, i went there and the whole 7 days i was down there we were together 24/7

who cares what guys shes talking to or how she replies, when you get there is what counts.

everything before is useless
which is usually instantaneously :wow:. I usually hate responding right away if she takes 10-60 minutes. :sadcam:

I respect that though, it only matters when I get there. :obama:

Good shyt.
 

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what did both the emails say breh? :lupe:

One was


"hey how are you, I called you the other day and your number was out of service, just checking up to see if everything is okay."


"Hey,

How are you? I'm not even sure if you would actually read this but I wanted to send it to you just in case.

I just wanted to apologize for the distance between us, I've known you long enough and the silence between us is really bothersome

You literally just came across my mind and I just wanted to see how you and your family are and if you'd let me talk to you. "


:heh:
 

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which is usually instantaneously :wow:. I usually hate responding right away if she takes 10-60 minutes. :sadcam:

I respect that though, it only matters when I get there. :obama:

Good shyt.

again who cares?

games are for children. my phone is always infront of me. regardless if your a 300lb female coworker if you text me ill respond right away, the same if you are some hot Asian chick.

It's true you may meet up and not even click, or shes totally different in person. Everythign else beforehand means nothing :manny:

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again who cares?

games are for children. my phone is always infront of me. regardless if your a 300lb female coworker if you text me ill respond right away, the same if you are some hot Asian chick.

It's true you may meet up and not even click, or shes totally different in person. Everythign else beforehand means nothing :manny:

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I just want someone to serve as my tour guide over there and shyt if she wants me to fukk I'll fukk. She's said that to me REPEATEDLY :mjlol:. Hell, she better be careful with her friends cuz I seen one of her friends who looked kind of cute. I'd bag all of em. I like her though but ehh I'll see.
 

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I just want someone to serve as my tour guide over there and shyt if she wants me to fukk I'll fukk. She's said that to me REPEATEDLY :mjlol:. Hell, she better be careful with her friends cuz I seen one of her friends who looked kind of cute. I'd bag all of em. I like her though but ehh I'll see.

I wouldn't even express feelings or anything else anymore, just talk about your trip and thats it.
 

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I wouldn't even express feelings or anything else anymore, just talk about your trip and thats it.
Yeah I won't. I think by now she believes me but I'll just keep that to myself. I'll just keep convo's brief and 1hunnid and if she wanna Skype, I'll Skype but once I'm there she either wit it or not. Plus the other chick that's over there I def wanna meet too. :wow:

I'm just glad to finally be able to travel soon. I haven't ever left this country since I was a child.
 
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Yeah I won't. I think by now she believes me but I'll just keep that to myself. I'll just keep convo's brief and 1hunnid and if she wanna Skype, I'll Skype but once I'm there she either wit it or not. Plus the other chick that's over there I def wanna meet too.

:myman:

Remember you are the prize theres millions of asians that would happily exchange pleasantries with you.
 

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One was


"hey how are you, I called you the other day and your number was out of service, just checking up to see if everything is okay."


"Hey,

How are you? I'm not even sure if you would actually read this but I wanted to send it to you just in case.

I just wanted to apologize for the distance between us, I've known you long enough and the silence between us is really bothersome

You literally just came across my mind and I just wanted to see how you and your family are and if you'd let me talk to you. "


:heh:

:laff::laff::laff:

i hate when hoes do this shyt and i lose any feelings/respect for em the minute i see something like this.

the silence between us is really bothersome? it wasn't bothersome when you went ghost on me for months. :francis:
 

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She responds to all my messages. That's not the issue. I just got insecure and said something about it and I felt stupid. I start to "doubt" girls interest in me from time to time over the stupidest shyt and that stems from a scarcity of options on my part. She already said when I come to JP that she's coming to my hotel room with me and she already talked about sex with me and yadda yadda. My issue is me feeling like ":stopitslime: You probably say that to other guys too!" even though she tells me she doesn't talk to other guys the same way I do. I don't want to talk myself out of p*ssy because I've done that several times already. I get too emotionally invested into these chicks. I think what made me like that was about a week ago(a week ago!) we was on Skype chatting and while I was talking to her she just started tearing up out the blue. I was like :dahell: and she just said she wish she was with me in my room. I was like :noah: inside but on the outside i was like :ehh: but since then I started to feel funny like ":patrice: Is she really in love with me?? :blessed:.... :patrice: Maybe that's just now, she probably talk to other nikkas the same way!" She's introduced me to her mom, sis and grandma on camera but they think I'm just her english language exchange friend. :shaq:

:snoop:

shyt sucks man.

I had a dream last night with my last ex

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