Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[sixsixtwo]

 

[Sharp]

Men, y’all need to step up your games and stop letting scandalous-A*s women take advantage of you, just because you are unable to see the signs that are right in front of your face: It’s not difficult to tell that you probably SHARE THAT GIRL even though you think you’re her ONE & ONLY, bu you were too busy being infatuated to open your DAMN eyes.

Many men are so caught up with a woman’s intoxicating beauty that he can easily get lost in the allure of her touch, scent and appearance that he will start intentionally overlooking all the signs that point him to the fact he needs to WALK AWAY from her a*s.

1. She Loves Going Out – A Lot – Without You

It’s cool that every woman feels the need to get out and have fun with her friends. It’s cool if she needs time away from you just so she can stay being a balanced person. Hell if you are still young, her going out with her friends is not a bad thing at all, as some young women need to burn themselves out from the party scene before kids, mortgage payments and all the other things that encompass being a grown-a*s woman come into her life in full effect. With that said, if she has created a whole separate party life away from you that you are not privy to, because she likes keeping you both separate - “You Share That Girl.” Unless she is a DJ or bartender, punch her in the left breast next time you see her.

2. Her Male Friends Aren’t Exactly Sure Who You Are

You can also chalk this up to: Her male friends aren’t exactly sure about the nature of your relationship and as far as they are concerned she is fully in play because she has never stated the opposite. You may be her baby-father or living with her, but that doesn’t mean other people don’t look at your relationship as fractured, leaving a crack open for them to slide in – which is not too difficult because she doesn’t claim you as her one and only man – because “You Share That Girl.”

3. Her Friends Are H0es

Birds of a feather, f*^k very similarly and your girls friends are NO different. YES it is possible for your ONE girl to be the NON-H0E in a group of scallywags, but understand that is highly unlikely. When her friends are sharing their tales of running through the Miami Heat like suicide sprints, she is up there giggling and laughing and high fiving too, because she SHARES a common bond with her girlfriends and going through multiple richards in one night is not abnormal to her – because “You Share That Girl.”

4. She Wants To Be Famous – For The Sake Of Fame

This is a crucial one that many guys tend to overlook. Any woman that wants to have her name in big bright lights NOT because she has a particular talent, but just because she dreams of being a rich, socialite with V.I.P. access to all the biggest events, is not someone interested in your long term potential as a couple. In fact she’s so focused on the short term, there’s a good chance she will be open to doing whatever she has to be popular - “You Share That Girl.”

5. She Constantly Flirts With Ex-Boyfriends

Flirting is only acceptable when it’s innocent and it’s only innocent when you have NOT seen that person naked and have felt their genitals pressed against yours. If she is L-O-L’ing on Facebook/Twitter/Text Messages and constantly calling/seeing this guy, then at that point you know they aren’t just maintaining a healthy “post-relationship friendship” and they are nurturing a potential booty-call situation. Once again, the key words here are “constantly” and “flirting” not just being nice or polite, but actually harbouring sexual tension – just a sign that “You Share That Girl.”

6. She Has Too Many DAMN Male Friends – And She Defends Them A Little TOO Hard

I know a lot of women with a lot of male friends and I can KINDA understand them when they say they can’t deal with women because they are too loud, overemotional and generally a*shole-ish beings, but when a woman has TOO many male friends it should raise a red flag. And If she defends them harder than Alonzo Mourning in the paint, then you need to ask yourself “the hell is wrong with this b*tch?” Every woman should have at least TWO good female friends that she can talk sh*t to, work out problems with, and generally just do girl stuff with. If your woman doesn’t have a ride or die girlfriend, chances are she uses MEN for every type of support she can need and we as men already know how easy it is for a lot of men to hide their true feelings and intentions for a woman. The second she starts wanting to pop out the shank just because you told her you aren’t comfortable with the way Eric looks at her, then that’s the point you should be DAMN WELL SURE “You Share That Girl.”

 

[MikelArteta]

Any woman with a bunch of male friends I don't even associate, the funny thing is deep down even chicks know these guys aren't her friends.
More than likely these are guys she slept with in the past. I dated a girl with a bunch
Of male friends before, funny how they are disappeared when they found out she was in a relationship. Funny that when we broke up and she was in the hospital near death none of her.

Only when something is needed will you be called
Upon as a male friend for the most part. Example
Where I work one of my "female friends" lives in a condo behind my workplace. I used to go there every day for lunch etc for a while. I've known this chick for like 10 years platonic, as soon as she got a bf haven't heard from the chick since.

 

[MikelArteta]

Everybody has simped at some point in their lives. As men we have to distinguish between simping and being a gentleman.

Simping is doing nice things to get a woman to like you, spend time with you. In other words you are doing things in hope that she will reciprocate.

Being a gentleman is doing a nice gesture for a woman with no expectations. But at the same time, it is convenient for you. Never go out of your way for a woman, she won't do the same.

I always say don't do anything for a woman if you are expecting her to return the favor because it is unlikely.

For example, a female that I'm kicking it with asks me for a ride somewhere. If it is convenient to me, isn't putting me out of my way, or isn't preventing me from taking care of something else, then I'll give her a ride. I'm not expecting nothing in return, nor am I ever bringing it up. I did it because I chose to do it, not because I expect some reward from her.

At the same time, don't allow yourself to be used. Favors are supposed to be in moderation. A woman who asks you for favors all the time but does nothing for you in return is a user. You become a simp where you become dependable to a woman who feels like she doesn't have to do anything for your favor.

A simp will be like "but I gave you a ride to the mall". Expecting her to appreciate the gesture and reciprocate. Not gonna happen.

A non-simp will realize she's a user and everytime she asks for a favor will say "Nope, I can't help you"

The most impressive thing a man can do in terms of a woman is "Stand his ground. Make your NO 's really count, so that your YES'es are even more valuable".

Amen

I've said it before, I'm a extremely nice person who would give my last 10 bucks to someone and go hungry for the day. The thing is that most women are devoid of appreciating.

You do something nice for a female they think they have you and you are simping or intereste in them.

I remember I was driving this chick to work because it was on my way a chick who goes to my church . Anyways she got a bf and once on a whole he would drive her except she would never tell me untill I was at her door.

I told her forget it, no longer picking her up and I got hit with the you're jealous, um no. I was doing a favor didn't ask for gas didn't ask for anything just helping someone out. You know if someone is giving me a ride id tell em the night before hey you don't have o pick me up in the morning I'm getting a ride.

 

[Captain Crunch]

Any woman with a bunch of male friends I don't even associate, the funny thing is deep down even chicks know these guys aren't her friends.
More than likely these are guys she slept with in the past. I dated a girl with a bunch
Of male friends before, funny how they are disappeared when they found out she was in a relationship. Funny that when we broke up and she was in the hospital near death none of her.

Only when something is needed will you be called
Upon as a male friend for the most part. Example
Where I work one of my "female friends" lives in a condo behind my workplace. I used to go there every day for lunch etc for a while. I've known this chick for like 10 years platonic, as soon as she got a bf haven't heard from the chick since.

There's nothing wrong with that, that's respecting her man by throwing that friendship in the bushes. If she wasn't hitting up for favors, then what's the problem?

 

[jadillac]

Men, y’all need to step up your games and stop letting scandalous-A*s women take advantage of you, just because you are unable to see the signs that are right in front of your face: It’s not difficult to tell that you probably SHARE THAT GIRL even though you think you’re her ONE & ONLY, bu you were too busy being infatuated to open your DAMN eyes.

Many men are so caught up with a woman’s intoxicating beauty that he can easily get lost in the allure of her touch, scent and appearance that he will start intentionally overlooking all the signs that point him to the fact he needs to WALK AWAY from her a*s.

1. She Loves Going Out – A Lot – Without You

It’s cool that every woman feels the need to get out and have fun with her friends. It’s cool if she needs time away from you just so she can stay being a balanced person. Hell if you are still young, her going out with her friends is not a bad thing at all, as some young women need to burn themselves out from the party scene before kids, mortgage payments and all the other things that encompass being a grown-a*s woman come into her life in full effect. With that said, if she has created a whole separate party life away from you that you are not privy to, because she likes keeping you both separate - “You Share That Girl.” Unless she is a DJ or bartender, punch her in the left breast next time you see her.

2. Her Male Friends Aren’t Exactly Sure Who You Are

You can also chalk this up to: Her male friends aren’t exactly sure about the nature of your relationship and as far as they are concerned she is fully in play because she has never stated the opposite. You may be her baby-father or living with her, but that doesn’t mean other people don’t look at your relationship as fractured, leaving a crack open for them to slide in – which is not too difficult because she doesn’t claim you as her one and only man – because “You Share That Girl.”

3. Her Friends Are H0es

Birds of a feather, f*^k very similarly and your girls friends are NO different. YES it is possible for your ONE girl to be the NON-H0E in a group of scallywags, but understand that is highly unlikely. When her friends are sharing their tales of running through the Miami Heat like suicide sprints, she is up there giggling and laughing and high fiving too, because she SHARES a common bond with her girlfriends and going through multiple richards in one night is not abnormal to her – because “You Share That Girl.”

4. She Wants To Be Famous – For The Sake Of Fame

This is a crucial one that many guys tend to overlook. Any woman that wants to have her name in big bright lights NOT because she has a particular talent, but just because she dreams of being a rich, socialite with V.I.P. access to all the biggest events, is not someone interested in your long term potential as a couple. In fact she’s so focused on the short term, there’s a good chance she will be open to doing whatever she has to be popular - “You Share That Girl.”

5. She Constantly Flirts With Ex-Boyfriends

Flirting is only acceptable when it’s innocent and it’s only innocent when you have NOT seen that person naked and have felt their genitals pressed against yours. If she is L-O-L’ing on Facebook/Twitter/Text Messages and constantly calling/seeing this guy, then at that point you know they aren’t just maintaining a healthy “post-relationship friendship” and they are nurturing a potential booty-call situation. Once again, the key words here are “constantly” and “flirting” not just being nice or polite, but actually harbouring sexual tension – just a sign that “You Share That Girl.”

6. She Has Too Many DAMN Male Friends – And She Defends Them A Little TOO Hard

I know a lot of women with a lot of male friends and I can KINDA understand them when they say they can’t deal with women because they are too loud, overemotional and generally a*shole-ish beings, but when a woman has TOO many male friends it should raise a red flag. And If she defends them harder than Alonzo Mourning in the paint, then you need to ask yourself “the hell is wrong with this b*tch?” Every woman should have at least TWO good female friends that she can talk sh*t to, work out problems with, and generally just do girl stuff with. If your woman doesn’t have a ride or die girlfriend, chances are she uses MEN for every type of support she can need and we as men already know how easy it is for a lot of men to hide their true feelings and intentions for a woman. The second she starts wanting to pop out the shank just because you told her you aren’t comfortable with the way Eric looks at her, then that’s the point you should be DAMN WELL SURE “You Share That Girl.”

[ame=http://youtu.be/BhAbPObKpLg]You Share That Girl - YouTube[/ame]

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

There's nothing wrong with that, that's respecting her man by throwing that friendship in the bushes. If she wasn't hitting up for favors, then what's the problem?

If she didn't tell him that she had a boyfriend, then it kinda fukk up because she just ignoring him out of the blue. It make him seem as if she is mad at him for something. That can confuse someone if they are trying to holla or just to check up on you. It a little thing call common courtsey that a lot of females don't have. It cool that she wants to respect the relationship but she can be more respectful and advise him that she is seeing someone right now instead or running away from accountability but females don't want to be accountable either.

 

[Ohene]

It a little thing call common courtsey that a lot of females don't have. It cool that she wants to respect the relationship but she can be more respectful and advise him that she is seeing someone right now instead or running away from accountability but females don't want to be accountable either.

they have none of it man

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

they have none of it man

I know man. Had to learn the hard way.

 

[MikelArteta]

There's nothing wrong with that, that's respecting her man by throwing that friendship in the bushes. If she wasn't hitting up for favors, then what's the problem?

I would think being "friends" with someone for ten years I would have been treated better. This was the type of friendship that when her mom died I went to the funeral and all that.

The thing I've noticed tjroughout the years with women regarding friendship it's only when they are single lonely or their lives are in ruins and shambles do you hear from them .

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

I would think being "friends" with someone for ten years I would have been treated better. This was the type of friendship that when her mom died I went to the funeral and all that.

The thing I've noticed tjroughout the years with women regarding friendship it's only when they are single lonely or their lives are in ruins and shambles do you hear from them .

Or if they want to "step out" for a min from their relationship.

 

[twan83]

I would think being "friends" with someone for ten years I would have been treated better. This was the type of friendship that when her mom died I went to the funeral and all that.

The thing I've noticed tjroughout the years with women regarding friendship it's only when they are single lonely or their lives are in ruins and shambles do you hear from them .

u know what fukk that. i didnt read the whole story so if im wrong correct me. if you were friends with somebody that damn long nothing going on just cool u never fukked and she throw ur friendship out like that then she was never ur friend IMO.

no relationship or marriage should of stopped that. Sure she would stop the hanging out a lot less or the texting or phone calling i get that outta respect for the dude she with but to completely cut u off aint right on the real. sound like oh boy was FULL OF INSECURITIES and need to get over that shyt and man up be confident and trust her simple as that. if yall never smashed or did anything for that damn long he shouldnt have shyt to worry bout it though

 

[KiiLove]

I met this guy recently and he's really nice and sweet ttO me but im just not feelin him like that. After our first date we went back to his house to watch a movie and he went in his room and came out with no shirt ... No socks just ball shorts I'm like wtf?! I don't wanna see no nikka feet that I just met. He is always texting me smiley faces and hearts and askin if I miss him ... Mind you it's been less than 2 weeks since we known each other he's 29 I'm 23 maybe he's looking to settle down . I am too but I want it to happen naturally I feel like he's rushing he said he thinks about alot me I'm like what do u think about he said THE FUTURE in caps ... That scared the shyt outta me !!!

Thoughts?.... Will I be single forever with this I don't like nice guys attitude ?

 

[GoldenGlove]

Girl calls me from work, I miss her call... then she texts me telling me to call her ASAP.

I'm thinking something is really wrong.

I call her up, like, "What's wrong?"... she goes, "Why didn't you pick up your phone?"... I say "I was busy at work, what's up?"

She goes, "I just got 2 tickets"...




Then she goes on (she's still going actually) about how she got a ticket for going 30 in a 20...

Spoiler

I can tell she's all emotional right now, so I'm just being the kind young chap and letting her vent. I really don't give a fukk, she shouldn't have tried to beat the construction and head down that residential street.

Basically...

 

[twan83]

I met this guy recently and he's really nice and sweet ttO me but im just not feelin him like that. After our first date we went back to his house to watch a movie and he went in his room and came out with no shirt ... No socks just ball shorts I'm like wtf?! I don't wanna see no nikka feet that I just met. He is always texting me smiley faces and hearts and askin if I miss him ... Mind you it's been less than 2 weeks since we known each other he's 29 I'm 23 maybe he's looking to settle down . I am too but I want it to happen naturally I feel like he's rushing he said he thinks about alot me I'm like what do u think about he said THE FUTURE in caps ... That scared the shyt outta me !!!

Thoughts?.... Will I be single forever with this I don't like nice guys attitude ?

if you want it to happen naturally let it if he coming on too strong pump the brakes and let him know respectfully. no u will not be single forever. just let things progress naturally like u said with whoever ur with and u will be fine. you know ur pace so take it at your own pace dont let no one dictate ur pace