Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

and all i can say is one of the vital things i've learned in life and dating is

It does not matter how you feel about a woman, if she is telling you point blank/or showing you that she does not want to be with you for whatever reason, then she was definitely NOT meant for you and you need to move on. The right woman for you is someone who WANTS to be with you regardless of the situation you are in currently and is taking concrete steps to build with you.

anyone else

You never ever have to convince someone that you are good enough.

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

money means nothing,there are women leaving billionaires, millionaires, dudes making 6 figures. I wish folks would stop having that narrative, yeah ytou can get women who only want you due to the $$ you have, but a good woman nah.


And don't worry time flies, just 14 years ago it was 9/11 and it feels like yesterday, these chicks will bat an eye and be like 35, 40 etc.

Money, status, and name means something for these hoes, if they see their ex that THEY broke up for some stupid reason like he was "too nice", "you look like you date whiteboys" or "not aggressive enough" and is more successful then the losers they ended up with, then yes they will feel hurt and broken inside, and I will laugh at there face teling them, this could've been you in my Benz, bytch.

 

[Morose Polymath]

I had like an awakening. If your not spiritual/religious you may laugh or whatever but for years and years I applied for jobs, sometimes I got interviews but it never went further, I resigned myself to shrugs maybe this is it. This is the best I can do. My current gig isn't bad but the travel time is ridiculous, the pay isn't bad but I know I'm worth more and it wasn't until early this year I started changing my life around, started to tithe started to pray about getting a new job. knowing my value.

And I was just thinking how if my brother in law didn't lose his job and was unemployed for almost a year then finally found a job but it was a hour and a half drive each way. He loved the job but the travel was horrible especially with 3 young children so he applied and got the job at the hospital running the finance department. Everyone in that department has been there for 10 plus years zero openings until one happened when someone left and that led me to getting it.

It was like this was for me, it's literally just a 15 minute drive. There is a gym onsite that will also save me money from signing up at a gym, my boss is family and he will put me in every position to succeed.

And then the other day I was just talking to my brother in law because he was at the wedding I photographed and he jokingly asked me when is it your turn. And I said never and then yesterday he met up with me just to give me some tips on the job but he also talked to me about marriage. He told me after his failed engagement he just prayed to God for what he wanted in a wife and just lived his life and awhile later he met my sister and she was everything he asked for and more. He stopped pursuing and looking and just left it up to God to take the wheel.

So that's the stance I'm taking, I'm not wasting my time on seasonal transient chicks I already know it won't last. I'm just going to live my life and pray what I want in a woman and if it's meant to be God will provide just like he provided me this job and if not then shrugs. I've done it all brehs, cavorting and canoodling with dimes, I've been engaged, been cheated on, stds and hiv scares, abortions, miscarriage. I don't need a woman to complete my journey in my life, I just decided to allow God to take over the wheel now.

That's what I mean by the next woman I'm committed to will be my wife.

Like I said if your not religious or a christian etc. you'll laugh and think its funny or whatever but if you lived my life you would understand.

God is Good breh, respect

 

[Brandsdale]

I told my dude the other day you gotta treat women like pokemon

go through life woking on yourself attaining various gym badges and collecting many pokemon to build a strong roster along the way. Your life journey will have you strengthening a young squirtle to a level 100 Blastoise with a high effective hydro pump and a front runner in your pokedex

then comes the arise of the legendary dogs along the way (women you see for whatever matters of sex or a possible relationship). In this case you DO NOT put pressure on trying to find and continue your journey. Back then as a kid I would spend hours in viridian city trying to search for one (was a cheat to get Entei for yall pokemon heads that didnt know ). IF a Raikou or Entei pops up you do within your limits to catch it and weaken it a bit, throw an ultra ball, and if you catch it good on you but if somehow it breaks free and runs off then its life and wasn't meant to be . Either way its only another pokemon and at the end of the day your blastoise is just as, if not stronger and theres plenty legendary beasts out there i.e, Lugia, Ho-Oh, Mewtwo Mew etc.

Moral of the story is, and every dude in here has reiterated a billion times, work on yourself because everyone wants to be the best of their abilities. This all may sound corny but a good woman will come your way just when it comes put your bid in and if she truly fukks with you there will be no major hassle what so ever.

 

[Jesus]

Breh I know exactly what you mean, when your younger and people tell you this its like ,

now that I'm 29, I'm in the best shape of my life, about to make the most money I ever made. I still live at home but I could qualify for a mortgage and cop a condo if I want, but I'm not. My job is a 15 min drive.

I look around and laugh at what are these women offering out there my age? Looks falling off, past, single mothers, working retail or a barista etc. sorry not good enough to get into reinscarf university.

I'm 24 but I feel the same way and am looking forward to turning 30

 

[Marl0 Stanfield]

Until a woman(chix aged 18-35) gives birth to your child, she is fundamentally a whore for either time/attention or money in some form or fashion. The balance.between those two have to be 70% time/attention and 30% money to get serious with a woman. Srsly brehs, think about every problem you have ever had with a woman and see if you couldn't have solved it with one of the two methods. Everything boils down to that. They are the keys to unlocking ANY FEMALE in that age range. You can't lose because the more time you spend with a female the more game you get, so even if you're a square eventually you'll wise up if you engage with your woman intellectually.

But srsly Brosephs, take out $50-$1,000 and give it to your girl to go shopping and tell her how much you love her and want her to feel special and/or tell her you want to take her out and spend the day/weekend with just her and go out to eat and do what she wants to do and talk to her and show her off around town and try to prove me wrong. You fukking can't.

WH0RES, BROSEPHS.

 

[MikelArteta]

I told my dude the other day you gotta treat women like pokemon

go through life woking on yourself attaining various gym badges and collecting many pokemon to build a strong roster along the way. Your life journey will have you strengthening a young squirtle to a level 100 Blastoise with a high effective hydro pump and a front runner in your pokedex

then comes the arise of the legendary dogs along the way (women you see for whatever matters of sex or a possible relationship). In this case you DO NOT put pressure on trying to find and continue your journey. Back then as a kid I would spend hours in viridian city trying to search for one (was a cheat to get Entei for yall pokemon heads that didnt know ). IF a Raikou or Entei pops up you do within your limits to catch it and weaken it a bit, throw an ultra ball, and if you catch it good on you but if somehow it breaks free and runs off then its life and wasn't meant to be . Either way its only another pokemon and at the end of the day your blastoise is just as, if not stronger and theres plenty legendary beasts out there i.e, Lugia, Ho-Oh, Mewtwo Mew etc.

Moral of the story is, and every dude in here has reiterated a billion times, work on yourself because everyone wants to be the best of their abilities. This all may sound corny but a good woman will come your way just when it comes put your bid in and if she truly fukks with you there will be no major hassle what so ever.

You cannot lose when you invest and work in yourself, women come and women go.

 

[MikelArteta]

It's finally over today was the final day of work at my job of nearly a decade. It felt weird as the clock ticked down that a place I went to nearly every day for a large portion of my life will now just be a memory. Throughout everything in my life the good and all the trials and tribulations the two constant things in my life were my family and this job. As I Went from floor to floor saying bye to past managers, supervisors, and co-workers some which have become close friends I received hugs, well wishes and even a few cried. As I finally exited the building for the last time and headed to my car I sat in there for a few minutes, started my car and that was it, a chapter closed in my life. Life can change in a instant, everything I have been through up until this point was needed to propel me into my destiny. I started there as a boy and now I leave a man. Life starts now!!!



Right after that headed to my new job to get my photo for my badge. My new life begins monday. And I can't wait!

 

[kevm3]

Congrats man. I quit my job last month and I'm on the way to something new myself. Sometimes you just got to move on from the old to get to the new.

 

[Marl0 Stanfield]

It's finally over today was the final day of work at my job of nearly a decade. It felt weird as the clock ticked down that a place I went to nearly every day for a large portion of my life will now just be a memory. Throughout everything in my life the good and all the trials and tribulations the two constant things in my life were my family and my job. As I Went from floor to floor saying bye to past managers, supervisors, and co-workers that have become friends I received hugs, well wishes and even a few cried. As I finally exited the building for the last time and headed to my car I sat in there for a few minutes, started my car and that was it, a chapter closed in my life. Life can change in a instant, everything I have been through up until this point was needed to propel me into my destiny. I started there as a boy and now I live a man. Life starts now!!!

Right after that headed to my new job to get my photo for my badge. My new life begins monday.

Need u a fling with a coli hoe so u can become 2nd Admiral Omnipotent Supreme Allied Commander Sith Lord of thecoli.com.

 

[MikelArteta]

Congrats man. I quit my job last month and I'm on the way to something new myself. Sometimes you just got to move on from the old to get to the new.

Thanks man and to all my coli brehs

And yeah man when I started I was like right out of school, didn't even drive. Didn't even have a passport, was engaged and innocent, thought I had it all figured out. Just an arrogant rookie qb, now I'm the wily old vet.

 

[kevm3]

Thanks man and to all my coli brehs

And yeah man when I started I was like right out of school, didn't even drive. Didn't even have a passport, was engaged and innocent, thought I had it all figured out. Just an arrogant rookie qb, now I'm the wily old vet.

That's the one lesson I learned. When you're young, you think you got it and things will go exactly like planned, but God will put you in a situation to humble you quick. Once you've been knocked around, your pride stripped from you and you find out you don't know half as much as you thought you did, then God will finally give you your blessings.

 

[MikelArteta]

As well for the younger brehs, if she is a great girl with everything you desire and she feels strongly about you then , but as you get older you'll look back at women you simped, or had on a pedestal, or had a strong emotional connection and you will just laugh now. Women I thought were all that at 21, at 25 would not even get a second look now at 29.

Again everyone is different, but I'm happy I escaped my twenties without marriage or having a child being tethered to a chick.

 

[MikelArteta]

That's the one lesson I learned. When you're young, you think you got it and things will go exactly like planned, but God will put you in a situation to humble you quick. Once you've been knocked around, your pride stripped from you and you find out you don't know half as much as you thought you did, then God will finally give you your blessings.

yep I remember being 21 engaged thought I knew it all. I didn't really go to church then but I remember this pastor telling me about pre marital counselling and I just laughed and scoffed. Probably would have found out everything in those sessions that my fiancée wasn't right for me at all instead I had to learn the hard way.

 

[kevm3]

Something I've learned is that most women you meet simply don't care for you like that. As soon as the emotional feelies are gone, they couldn't care less if you are living in a garbage can. In reality, it's not even you that she likes in most cases. It's the feeling she gets from being around you and as we all know, that feeling can disappear in an instant. A lot of women will like you simply because you are 'new', and that 'newness' provides an interesting emotional reaction to them, but the 'new smell' wears off quickly, and how this woman came in is the same way she will disappear. She came in based on a 'new emotional reaction'? She will likely disappear as soon as that feeling of newness disappears.

That'ss why, as they use the scientific term 'pair-bonding', is so important. When a woman messes with ton of dudes, her ability to connect deeply on an emotional level with any particular one lessens and lessens. Hence, once her emotional hooks for a man are no longer able to be deep, you can pretty much already predict that she'll be out the door sooner or later, or just keep you around for benefits.

What we have in this day and age is not women that are looking for a 'man to be with.' They are looking for biological drug hits. In other words, they are looking for men to induce that pleasure chemical in their brain, and as soon as they can't get that fix from you, they're gone. When you begin to learn that a lot of women you will meet this way, you won't trip when they simply disappear without reason. EXPECT most of them to disappear like that.