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I've noticed that their ability to do mental gymnastics is why they're able to act shamelessly because in their heads, their actions are justifiable.
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I've noticed that their ability to do mental gymnastics is why they're able to act shamelessly because in their heads, their actions are justifiable.
EA
A Pound & A Prayer
shyt, I had a girl invite me to her birthday dinner at one of the most expensive restaurants in the city last week and I haven't even spoken to her in about 3 years. The nerve of these girls is ridiculous
It is a mystery
Tory Lanez Stan
Literally what happened to me
I got advice from brehs on here though (including you). I've listened and will put it to use soon
This thread is truth. Was dating this 27 year old for 3 months. Things started off great, she was saying things like "I havent felt this way in a long time", "I can see a future with you" etc etc. Meanwhile the entire time i'm just keeping my options open and not getting too attached.
Once the honey moon stage was over and we had to actually communicate things fell apart. That warm, enjoyable, lovable person turns cold and its "I feel disconnected".
Ok, go find who makes you happy
I've been eating clean and going to the gym for about 2 months now. I have several trips planned this summer and i'm fine staying low saving my money. This new found calm toward women
Once the honey moon stage was over and we had to actually communicate things fell apart. That warm, enjoyable, lovable person turns cold and its "I feel disconnected".
Ok, go find who makes you happy
I've been eating clean and going to the gym for about 2 months now. I have several trips planned this summer and i'm fine staying low saving my money. This new found calm toward women
You can't control what women will do next, so no need in tying your happiness on something so unpredictable. That's why so many dudes go crazy. They build their life and happiness around a woman or women and when these women disappear on a whim, they end up completely unhappy. Nah, there's too much joy in life God has blessed us with in order to tie it to women. Women are like gravy in life. They should enhance your life, but they are not the main course of your life.
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I got advice from brehs on here though (including you). I've listened and will put it to use soon
One of the best devices you can purchase is a kindle. Why? Because this is the information age and you'll need to constantly keep your mind sharp by reading in order to gain fluidity. I think I'll start putting up various book recommendations just so we can have more to discuss.
Right now I'm waiting for my plane to take off,travel brehs.
Don't waste your life marinating on those who could care less how your Day went
Don't waste your life marinating on those who could care less how your Day went
TwistedMetal
Ruined Childhood
Please do breh!
And these women are not even special, a special woman wouldn't cause you these emotional lows
Women change like the wind, one day they will give up a kidney for you, the next not even a pint of blood.
This thread is truth. Was dating this 27 year old for 3 months. Things started off great, she was saying things like "I havent felt this way in a long time", "I can see a future with you" etc etc. Meanwhile the entire time i'm just keeping my options open and not getting too attached.
Once the honey moon stage was over and we had to actually communicate things fell apart. That warm, enjoyable, lovable person turns cold and its "I feel disconnected".
Ok, go find who makes you happy
I've been eating clean and going to the gym for about 2 months now. I have several trips planned this summer and i'm fine staying low saving my money. This new found calm toward women
I just wrote a blog about a related subject, but what I found important is learn to appreciate TODAY. We often make our happiness contingent on achieving some sort of state, whether it is being with this or that girl or having this or that amount of money. In essence, we are blocking our ability to feel happy by making it dependent on some conditional state. This can cause a perpetual lack of happiness. IF you believe that you need to achieve this or that in order to be happy, that's exactly what you'll start to feel. On the other hand, if you learn to appreciate what you have now and to appreciate the day, you can experience happiness every day. Most of us were happiest when we were kids, and never did we think about goals, money, status, etc., until those concepts began to be introduced to us as we got older.
Phillippians 4:11
Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.
Now what does this have to do with women? A lot. If your happiness is contingent on being with this or that woman, your happiness is on very shaky grounds. She can leave tomorrow and you'll go back to being unhappy. Life is too short to wait for someone else to give you your happiness. As the Bible verse says, contentedness is something you have to LEARN. "In whatsoever state I am in, therewith to be content."
Phillippians 4:11
Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.
Now what does this have to do with women? A lot. If your happiness is contingent on being with this or that woman, your happiness is on very shaky grounds. She can leave tomorrow and you'll go back to being unhappy. Life is too short to wait for someone else to give you your happiness. As the Bible verse says, contentedness is something you have to LEARN. "In whatsoever state I am in, therewith to be content."