Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

kevm3

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I said I was going to start doing 'book reviews', but I'm going to change it up and just talk about the book and what I've learned as opposed to a 'review'.

The book I'm reading right now is called 'Trust me I'm Lying: Confessions of a Media Manipulator"

www.amazon.com/Trust-Me-Lying-Confessions-Manipulator/dp/1591846285/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1431787627&sr=8-1&keywords=trust+me+I%27m+lying

This book talks about how the media is manipulated, especially blogs, in order to produce traffic. It really brings into question the credibility of a lot of what you read period. It really makes me think about how many of these 'themes' and 'movements' are really generated in some backroom somewhere and then fanned in various media outlets including blogs and message boards. Makes me wonder how many people are getting paid to post in an 'incendiary fashion' or to plant ideas. I'm close to 20% through it so far, but it's an interesting read. I recommend you get a kindle or at least download the kindle app and browse through a sample of the book.
 

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The main is starting to show bits and pieces of that unreasonableness :francis:.. She lives in Union City, Ga which is 30 minutes away from Atlanta..midweek I told her I would come out to her place on Sunday to come kick it with her since she's always coming out my way, but that I'm going to spend the night on Saturday at my parents house since I haven't seen my fam these past couple of weeks..she hits me today saying she wants to come over to my crib and spend the night and she wants me to still come over to her crib on Sunday as well :stopitslime:..

Reminded her that I was going to be at my parents house today but would come see her tomorrow, she sends me a "Rolls eyes" text and says "whatever" :beli:..

I'm a taurus and stubborn, so when I make plans I stick to them, I'm definitely not going to drive back to my crib so you can spend the night, than drive to your crib the next day..that's too much gas to be wasting, and you can't hit a nicca up right when I'm already at my parents crib and expect me to switch everything up :wtf:

Like I mentioned in earlier post, She doesn't have that "wow" factor that would have me head over hills for her, so her being mad doesn't even have me feeling any kind of way..I'm more like :yeshrug: it is what it is.

Or it could be since I got a couple who've been showing interest, I'm not in desperation mode to please anyone, and can drop her if I feel like it :ehh:..

Oh well
 

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man if a broad is out clubbing and taking pics with other dudes, then how is that you being insecure? These broads want the best of all worlds. They'll keep you around in that relationship mode while they are out partying and clubbing and telling you this or that guy they are hanging with is just a bud, when in reality, he's doing his thing. Checking a woman on that is not 'insecure'. Women just have a way of flipping the script and making you think their out-of-pocket behavior is ok and that you're wrong for not accepting it. Most dudes ain't really insecure. It's just women doing funnystyle things and telling you 'it's nothing'... but let you be out clubbing and taking pics with other women and see if she doesn't say anything.

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Ljust spent the day in Victoria even though it was all white folks, it'd a beautiful city and many beautiful woman.

Just reminded me again, why stress over one chick when there's oodles out there.

I remember kevm mentioning awhile back like the penny analogy, if you lose a penny your not all :sadcam:


And that's what most women are a penny there is so many of them dome are shiny, some are worn, but the value is the same
 

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I work for an airline and think I've earned a bad reputation amongst my female colleagues.
Got into an argument with one of these girls and she's basically spread out bs about me.
Another girl I usually don't talk to informed of this.
Was curious if any of y'all had a similar experience and if this is redeemable.
Might use this to my advantage too tbh lol
 

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Its me not you, wants her freedom but watch some next nikka appear.

Best thing you can do is just leave with your dignity. Just contact in regards to your child, keep your emotions in check.




exactly! i have to stunt on her now. She basically said i was the best dude she ever had..then goes on to say she wants her "freedom".
 
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